Female claims 'Non ticklish', advice?

[nook999]

Hi,

There is that female who claims to be totally non ticklish anywhere on her body. She's challanging me to find any ticklish spot. The question is for the experienced: What is the best strategy and tactics to approach it? How would you prove she's wrong? Did you ever encounter a female that is really totally non ticklish no matter what you try?

Thanks for you feedback 🙂

 

[MrMacphisto]

This may sound crazy but...

try her feet... It may be an awkward move in certain circumstances, but I've found that a lot of times women who say they aren't ticklish haven't been tickled on their feet before, and when someone decides to do so, well... heh... Other times, they know they are ticklish in an obscure place like the feet, but they don't expect you try tickling them there. Other good places to try are the knees or calves.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

I don't have much advice about tickling technique, but I will say that if this girl is setting up this kind of challenge, then she probably is either really not ticklish or she is but she thinks she can control her reactions. Either way, she is going to be a tough nut to crack.

If she is ticklish, and just hiding it, then she is going to be stubborn as hell about not giving into the laughter. My advice to you is to try being a total goofball about it. If you set this up like some kind of wrestlemania grudge match, then she is going to fight you every step of the way. But, if you break her defenses prior to the actual tickling then she won't stand a chance. Get her laughing before you ever lay a hand on her....works every time 🙂

Maggie

 

[fettik2]

My (ex)girlfriend also claimed that she was not ticklish. I could tickle her everywhere, without any reaction.. BUT it was just a matter of controling it because then I began to tickle her when she didn't expect it. For exemple when I gave here a hug I quickly reached for her armpits or when we did a playful wrestling match I grabbed her feet and tickled. Then her reaction was great! 😎
And after a while I could even tickle her when she knew I was going to, she didn't do any efforts anymore to controle it...

 

[grippedchimp]

It's documented that if someone expects to be tickled, they can resist it a bit better. That of course wouldn't apply to noticably ticklish people. I won't go into that "you can't tickle yourself" business either, as you might know that already. Best advice would be to attack or poke her out of the blue. That might be able to work, if she doesn't expect it.

Then again, if you never tickled her, she could be calling your bluff!

 

[Limeoutsider]

Maybe she is ticklish and is trying to provoke you? Try her inner thighs (if your allowed)

 

[Ticklemmmeeeeeee]

My mom used to claim she was not ticklish...yet her reactions to my dad, brother and I holding her down and getting her feet proved her wrong...I think there were times that she definitely hated being tickled but I seem to remember times when she would resist with the "no means yes" mentality....with some people it may be their reluctance to give up control...but I am sure the writings on this topic abound...that said, I have absolutely no earthly idea how this information may be of help to u...so I will shut up now...lol...~ticklemmmeeeeeee 🙂

 

[nook999]

From what I understand - surprise is a key

I understand from some of you that if taken by surprise it should work. So the question now comes: if I tie her up blindfolded, is there any chance she's still non ticklish anywhere? Have you encountered such a 'difficult case'?

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Re: From what I understand - surprise is a key

Surprise is definetly the key! Just sneak upbehind her, and the lets see if she's ticklish...

 

[QBWeaver]

I used to tell people I wasn't ticklish at all just to make sure they wouldn't try it. And most of the time they didn't because I'd tell them that I truly HATED it with a passion (which I do).

Yet, deep inside, tickling was such a part of my life and fantasy life as well. I felt like it was SO wrong to get tickled. For me it was so much of a sexual turn-on that I resisted it at all costs to keep from anything happening that could be embarrassing.

She might have similar feelings but she also might not be ticklish at all. Some people are that way. I'd try what everyone else has recommended so far. I can't really add anything to their recommendations. They covered it pretty well.

 

[Mitchell]

Unfortunately, I have encountered two people in my life who I had/have found to be totally not ticklish. One was my ex girlfriend Jenny, who I dated for almost two years. Back then I wasnt as into tickling as Iam now, I was more into feet, but anytime I tried to tickle Jenny anywhere, she just wouldnt laugh ever. She kept claiming she was not ticklish anywhere, and in my experience I could never make her laugh no matter where I tickled or how hard I tried. Both Jenny and certain of her family members claimed that she was ticklish on her feet when she was little but just lost it. So while Jenny was really not ticklish when I knew her, I have no way of knowing how ticklish she really was when growing up.
Another not ticklish person I've known is my best friends sister. Through the years he has always said she is not ticklish, and never laughed when he tried to tickle her. I tried getting her once or twice when we were growing up to no avail either. However, a few years ago we were in her pool, her daughter tickled her, and she did let out like a laugh or giggle. When I asked her she said: "My daughter tickled me" I couldnt really elaborate further because she is married, her husband was in the pool with us, I was a guest at his house for the night, and it would have been inappropriate to ask his wife to elaborate on her ticklishness. However, I think that proves that this girl must be at least somewhat ticklish,. but to what degree I really dont know.
Well, thats my experience. So as to answer the question as to whether some people arent ticklish at all, my experience is yes. However, if one asks whether these currently non ticklish people were ever ticklish at any time in their lives, that is a cause for debate.

Mitch

 

[Em Es]

Frustrated male tickler, a redundant term

I agree with "Grippedchimp" - if you know someone's gonna tickle you, it is easier to resist than the unexpected tickle. So if she's lying just to challenge you, try a sneak attack.

Does she know you're a tickler - and is that why she's goading you? Or have you simply tried to tickle her, only to get no reaction and hear her say those frustrating words, "I'm not ticklish."

Most times girls told me that, they were telling the truth. But I can think of at least one who lied. I brought up the subject of tickling with Patty and she said she was not ticklish - but later I reallized she only said that so I would not tickle her. So give it the old college try with your female friend!

Then there are the ones who are ticklish but good at resisting it. Once again, you just have to keep trying. The one girlfriend who turned the tickling tables on me was an example of this. Georgette always tickled me but my attempts at retaliating failed. But one time as we wrestle-tickled on my sofa, I finally got her - I stood, held her legs up (lifting behind her knees) and tickled her on the bottom thighs/rear end. Panic covered her face and she begged me to quit it. "I'm not used to that," she said when I stopped tickling her.



So maybe this female's telling the truth. It sounds like she enjoys taunting a tickler; I've known a few non-ticklish folks who loved to tickle because you could not get them back. But if she's lying, you may need to either 1)surprise her, 2)find the right tickle technique (soft tickles, hard tickles, whatever) or 3)find her elusive ticklish spot - supposedly the underarm area is where more people are most sensitive, although with that tease Georgette, it was her bottom thighs and rear end. Good luck and let us know how you do!