Fet Life

[Volsung]

How is FetLife?

How is the tickle community over there?

Worth joining?

 

[Oddjob0226]

No. It's just another Facebook but with fewer options and no chat rooms.

 

[Volsung]

Thanks! Good to know.

 

[chicago]

Everyone seems to have a different opinion. Its free so why not make your own mind up about it?

 

[lancashirelad1]

Chi is right different people different impressions. Personally I find it really good

 

[piyr]

There's an active group by me that started in the last 4 or 5 months. Seems like they try to meet once a month for a public munch and they may have had at least one play meeting but I don't know much else about them. I don't really participate on Fetlife so I can't say if many other groups are similar.

 

[teamtickleguy]

I think it largely depends on what you hope to gain from using it.

I use fetlife from time to time and in my experience it seems to be excellent for making contact with people who are local to you (UK for me), thus raising the potential of arranging some fun meets. I've come across at least 10 people (guys and girls) literally on my doorstep, which I'm sure I'd never come across so easily on TMF.

From what I've seen, people get (and I hate to use this term) 'snapped up' quite quickly and often profiles go from 'keen to get to know people for potential meets' to 'I am happily engaged in sessions with x or y and do not wish to meet with anyone else right now', so if you're looking to arrange 1-1 meets then I think it takes a certain amount of willingness to share the fetish with a wider demographic/geographic, rather than being ultra specific about who you want to enjoy tickling with, otherwise you may find others beat you to it if you don't get in early, or get lucky and encapsulate everything a potential lee wants to here in the first message you send them.

Don't get me wrong though, this must be a good thing, as it means some excellent play (or more) relationships have developed on there.

I've not seen much in the way of group munches being organised on there, but I've not been using it for that long - I've seen general fetish parties/dungeons promoted on there quite a bit though.

I've never experienced anything other than politeness, respect and interesting conversation on fetlife and most users fill out their profile really well, so you know exactly where you stand and therefore everyone has the right to expect other users to respect this.

I'd also say there is much less chance of coming across any fakes on there.

 

[paracarl44]

I go there once in awhile.

 

[IrvingKrebb]

I would advise that you make sure you aren't eating lunch when you log in to Fetlife. Terrible things appear on the screen sometimes...even if your friends are other tickle fetishists...things you can never un-see. Could be a good appetite suppressant I suppose.

 

[chicago]

Yeah, god forbid you see a peepee on an adult website.

Watch out for boobies too

 

[IrvingKrebb]

Exactly what I meant, thank you for clarifying.

 

[chicago]

Unless youre searching for scat play, pretty easy to avoid the really gross stuff

 

[McNoodle]

I absolutely love fetlife but not really for the tickling. Moreso for the learning opps in other fetishes that I don't share and really know nothing about. Also the sarcasm there can be very delightful and entertaining.

 

[kopfhorer]

I think it largely depends on what you hope to gain from using it.

I use fetlife from time to time and in my experience it seems to be excellent for making contact with people who are local to you (UK for me), thus raising the potential of arranging some fun meets. I've come across at least 10 people (guys and girls) literally on my doorstep, which I'm sure I'd never come across so easily on TMF.

From what I've seen, people get (and I hate to use this term) 'snapped up' quite quickly and often profiles go from 'keen to get to know people for potential meets' to 'I am happily engaged in sessions with x or y and do not wish to meet with anyone else right now', so if you're looking to arrange 1-1 meets then I think it takes a certain amount of willingness to share the fetish with a wider demographic/geographic, rather than being ultra specific about who you want to enjoy tickling with, otherwise you may find others beat you to it if you don't get in early, or get lucky and encapsulate everything a potential lee wants to here in the first message you send them.

Don't get me wrong though, this must be a good thing, as it means some excellent play (or more) relationships have developed on there.

I've not seen much in the way of group munches being organised on there, but I've not been using it for that long - I've seen general fetish parties/dungeons promoted on there quite a bit though.

I've never experienced anything other than politeness, respect and interesting conversation on fetlife and most users fill out their profile really well, so you know exactly where you stand and therefore everyone has the right to expect other users to respect this.

I'd also say there is much less chance of coming across any fakes on there.

Well-put, teamtickleguy.

Another positive point - it's not run by Mark Zuckerberg!

Recommended reading: http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/fetlife/

 

[wolfman40]

I met a long term play partner and good friend via fetlife, it's a nice place to engage and chat to people with different kinks

 

[maniactickler]

For tickling its lame.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

In my personal opinion FetLife for just tickling only is not that awesome and especially so of you're a male trying to find a female in the tickle scene to play with. As with most fetish sites I'd say the ratio of males to females is about 3:1, then I personally feel about 10% of the females are okay with tickling, and 3% of the females may have an honest to god tickle fetish. Now if you're into a myriad of fetishes or you're more into BDSM FetLife is a must join in my book. It is a great way to find out about munches/gatherings/play parties in your area. I am going to a play party in Philly tonight with my boyfriend. Now I can also I met my boyfriend of two years off of FetLife and at a play party. I am a female though and I am mostly into being tickled. It is easier for females to find people to play with and I have always felt it easier to find someone to tickle you versus finding someone.e to tickle.

 

[Druidici]

Its an alright site,but as far as the tickling aspect,I've gotten no action off it.