Fetishes and increased sexual pleasure..

[LD_Tickler]

Ok, this thread might not make any sense. Bear with me.

Everything in the universe is supposed to have some kind of balance, or counterpoint. There are always trade-offs: you avoid working on a project, you gain leisure at the expense of your work. You drop a stone into bucket filled with water, the water is displaced outside of the bucket. You use an intricate doubled-up pulley system to lift a heavy object, the object becomes easier to lift but doesn't lift as far.

I was randomly musing about this philosophy and whether or not it could apply to fetishes. Vanillas are aroused by common sexuality, they can therefore find compatible sexual partners with relative ease. Fetishists like us are aroused by narrow, specific circumstances, and therefore find partners with relative difficulty.

What if there's a payoff, though?

Do you think it's possible that that the things which arouse vanillas arouse them less than fetish things do fetishists? Maybe, since our sexual stimulants are abnormal, we're also aroused by them an inordinate amount?

Summary: Do you think it's possible that the payoff for having a deviant sexuality is that your arousal is more intense than the arousal of someone with a standard sexuality?

(Apologies, this thread is not very scientific)

 

[minerva]

Honestly, I don't think so. I believe the level of one's arousal mostly depends on how much you're sexually attracted to your partner and how much fantasy/creativity you use. While a quickie with someone you're crazy about can certainly be very arousing, I believe the most intense sexual experiences are those where your body AND mind is involved and that goes for both vanilla and fetish sexual acts IMO.
However, it might be true, that fetishists usually have more of these intense experiences.
I can't imagine any different level of arousal between someone who gets his fix from watching a tickling clip or a regular 'vanilla' porn clip though.

 

[-Hari-]

Summary: Do you think it's possible that the payoff for having a deviant sexuality is that your arousal is more intense than the arousal of someone with a standard sexuality?

(Apologies, this thread is not very scientific)

No, I think that once you find someone who shares your interest, you then both share soemthing rare thus creating an understanding of eachother that vanilla people dont experience. A closeness that probably isnt any more significant than anyone elses but is more rare so more special, something that vanilla people overlook because its not relevant to them.