Finally tied & tickled

[hello04]

So I've been into tickling for as long as I can remember and have always wanted to try either being a ler or lee. I've never been either...until last night. I've been seeing this girl for about a month and she knows of my fetish. Anyway, last night she surprises me and tells me she wants to tie me up and tickle me. I was pretty happy to say the least. So she proceeds to tie me face up spread eagle with velcro padded cuffs on her bed. I was pretty stretched out due to the make of her bed and where she had to hook the straps to. So there I am spread out and nervously excited. She climbs on straddling me and begins to gently grazes my armpits. I'm squirming but not too bad yet. Her hands go down to my sides and she starts digging in. I lose it as she starts tickling me all over. Long story short, she got me everywhere.....feet, knees, sides, ribs, pits, neck and my absolute worst spot, the groin. She then climbed back on me and we had sex (she left me tied up which was hot) but when I umm, blew it, it was torture as she kept going up and down me. So here's the main point, for as long as I can remember I have always wanted to try being tied up and tickled but honestly, it was torture. I'm not a big story teller so I know I didn't get into every little detail of how the tickling went but I was sweating and really kinda suffering. And she's totally new to tickling so I can't imagine someone who knows what they're doing. This in no way ruins tickling for me but I definitely think I would much rather tickle than be tickled from now on/the rest of my life lol. Just wanted to share that with you guys. Hope you enjoyed it and maybe a discussion will ensue. I'm not saying it was a bad experience by any means but I find it interesting that I have always fantasized about being tied up and tickled and truth be told, it wasn't as great/fun as I imagined. It was honestly too ticklish.

S

 

[Sensualswitch10]

Interesting story hello04. I've been tied up and tickled many times, but always by an intimate partner who wasn't actually into tickling. I've always felt like they didn't get me bad enough and wished to get it a little worse. Maybe I should be careful what I wish for.

You probably would have enjoyed it more if you had discussed a safe word and a slow word prior to being tied up.

PS Did you get to give her a revenge tickle?

 

[milagros317]

Alas, sometimes the reality does not match the fantasy.
That doesn't mean that you shouldn't try it again. 😀

 

[bethaknee]

I'm with Sensualswitch, perhaps a safeword ("red" for stop and "yellow" for slow down) would help matters. That's of course assuming you didn't already use one. Maybe next time someone can tickle you without you being tied up? Not sure if that would be a different experience or not, but maybe worth trying.

 

[Volsung]

Just for clarification... the tickling after orgasm was torture? I can believe that, if that was the case. The obvious solution is no tickling after orgasm.

 

[sweetkandy]

A safeword would've definitely helped your situation there! I've never had a tickle session yet but I know I'd have a safeword for my first one because I can imagine sessions get pretty intense when the tickling is non stop, especially if you're as ticklish as I am lol

 

[Sensualswitch10]

A safeword would've definitely helped your situation there! I've never had a tickle session yet but I know I'd have a safeword for my first one because I can imagine sessions get pretty intense when the tickling is non stop, especially if you're as ticklish as I am lol

A slow word (something I learned about from the wise Milagros) is also a really good thing. When a safe word is used, tickling stops completely. With a slow word, the ler eases up but doesn't stop. I would think in most cases, people who are into being tickled would rather it continue, just not so intensely.

 

[snoellem]

I get the exact same way after orgasming. I can't standing any tickling after that happens. Fortunately for me my BF took mercy on me and stopped when he saw that I was not liking it. He himself is not ticklish as much as I am and most of the time does tickle me in the way that I would like to be. I'm actually considering giving him some videos to watch and say learn from them.

 

[Volsung]

I'm actually considering giving him some videos to watch and say learn from them.

I think that's a good idea actually...

So how would you like to be tickled? I could make some suggestions if you were more explicit. PM me if you'd like.