The best advice I can give you is patience. I've never met anybody around here that has met someone based on a few random queries. Get used to posting and getting to know people that way. Eventually, you may make some friends like I have. Sometimes those friendships develop into real-time encounters, though it should never be expected. There are also gatherings to consider if you feel brave enough to attend. Most of all, be respectful to the ladies. They get a lot of attention as it is and not all of it is good. Genuine respect goes a long way. Best of luck to you. 🙂