First Experience with a Domme

TickleGoddess06 · Apr 9, 2007

Okay... so soon I will be experiencing my first visit with a domme. I plan on being restrained and tickled for at least an hour (that's what I plan on paying for). I'm a little nervous because I've never dealt with anything like this before and I'm nervous on what it will be like.

I've never been to a domme, I've never been restrained and tickled and I've never been tickled for a LONG period of time, so I'm nervous as hell. I'm hoping that if you guys have any experiences with this, could you tell me about them? Maybe it'll help calm my nerves.

dtrell · Apr 9, 2007

looks like another job for milagros...im surprised he hasnt posted yet...

maniactickler · Apr 9, 2007

Wow. i never heard of a woman that pays for tickling. you do realize theres a million guys that would pay you to tickle you right? me being one of them.

milagros317 · Apr 9, 2007

Take a few minutes at the beginning to talk over your expectations and fears with the Domme. Agree on a slow word which means "Slow up for ten or 15 seconds and let me breathe," and a safe word which means "Stop immediately, I'm in trouble." Then have fun! 😀

kilitiinko1 · Apr 9, 2007

milagros317 said:
Take a few minutes at the beginning to talk over your expectations and fears with the Domme. Agree on a slow word which means "Slow up for ten or 15 seconds and let me breathe," and a safe word which means "Stop immediately, I'm in trouble." Then have fun! 😀

In addition to this fine advice,I`d also recommend checking out the following threads posted here recently in the Tickling Discussion Forum.

My experience with a Mistress, posted by mike273273

Paying for live tickling, posted by DMoore

I really think that if you can speak with your Mistress beforehand,either by phone or email,you can attain a better sense of comfort with your tickler.This will help to alleviate the feelings of nervousness that you will certainly have! I`ve found that each time I visit my Domme,the session is better than the previous one,as we both are more comfortable with each other.

Best wishes for a wonderful time! Good luck! :dogpile: