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First Real Tickling Session

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ticklish_songbird

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I AM HAVING A TICKLING SESSION FOR THE FIRST TIME ON TUESDAY AND I AM SOMEWHAT NERVOUS....

WE HAVE NEVER MET, BUT HAVE TALKED FOR OVER 6 MONTHS, SO I FEEL COMFORTABLE MEETING HIM.

HE WANTS TO TIE ME UP, AND I AGREED, BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN TIED UP BEFORE..

I AM SURE IT WILL BE FUN.

I WILL HAVE TO TELL EVERYONE HOW IT WENT.

😱 😱 😀 😀
 
ticklish_songbird said:
I AM HAVING A TICKLING SESSION FOR THE FIRST TIME ON TUESDAY AND I AM SOMEWHAT NERVOUS....

WE HAVE NEVER MET, BUT HAVE TALKED FOR OVER 6 MONTHS, SO I FEEL COMFORTABLE MEETING HIM.

HE WANTS TO TIE ME UP, AND I AGREED, BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN TIED UP BEFORE..

I AM SURE IT WILL BE FUN.

I WILL HAVE TO TELL EVERYONE HOW IT WENT.

😱 😱 😀 😀
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Indeed! You'll have to tell us allllll about it! Glad to hear you are taking the step into hysterical bliss! 🙂
 
yes songbird...youll have to tell us all about it!...lol..
 
Yes Yes! YES!!!

I wanna hear about every wiggle, every giggle! Hope he has you "singin' like a `bird".
 
Ticklish Songbird, are you so desperate to be tickled that you have completely lost your fucking sanity. Namely you are going to let SOMEONE YOU HAVE NEVER MET, TIE YOU UP ON YOUR FIRST MEETING ?

My advice (which you are of course free to ignore) is:
1) Do no more on your first meeting than go along for a quick Pizza in a public place (that way you will get some sort of gut instinct on whether this person is on the level).
2) Bring a friend along, who dosen't need to know how you met this person.
3) Explain to the person you're meeting, that the purpose of the Pizza + friend is just basic personal security. Then if everythings okay you can rearrange what you originally had in mind for a future date. If while you are explaining this, he keeps trying to reassure you that this is all unnecessary; my advice is to run a mile from the guy.
 
Songbird,

Toneus is accurate.

By the way, that is approximately the same procedure that I would use, and I'm a SWM 'Ler, perhaps twice the age of half the membership here, studied judo, can do 50 pushups and ride 5 miles on a bicycle with ease, and I have personal experience in my life with real live tickling of the type that almost all of us here want to enjoy. Having said that, I would not meet a girl for bondage and tickling on the first date.


<B><I> Please meet the guy in public AT LEAST once. </I></B>


A little public dating before bondage and tickling should not scare away any sincere honest 'Ler who has our mindset. (Indeed, it should make him way more comfortable)

It will, however, scare away the liars. (Somebody here please pull up that thread where the girl did what Songbird is contemplating, and got beaten and battered.)

On the concept of bringing a friend with you on the first meeting; that friend does not have to be sitting at the same table; just in the same room,,, and hey by the way, your friend can also be two friends,,, one of whom is a male who weighs 275 pounds and is having a pizza/burger/salad at another table with "his girlfriend" (who could perhaps be a similarly large woman) both with cellphones and your number.

You can let the guy know about this, and let him know that your friend(s) will be there. Perhaps let him know that "at least one" friend will be present.

Now get ready for this: don't be surprised if HE wants to meet you under a similar context where HIS friend(s) will also be at the pizza place. (Girls do hurt boys, and friends can help things to happen, or not happen, as the case may be.)

Songbird, listen, if I'm going to meet you for this, and we've never spent one moment together in real life, I will certainly understand your trepidation and caution; indeed I will welcome it.

Doesn't it make sense that I want to go on a date with you (really several dates) before bondage and tickling ?

Last little thing; and I hope you don't get offended by this,,, but make the meeting place public, simple, cheap, a clean and spiffy place, and go dutch on it. i.e., take all threats, costs, and pressure off of him. It won't cost him anything, and all you're going to do is [1] Look at him and [2] Converse with him in public.

(Okay, he has to buy his own salad and pizza; but if he's like me, he probably eats food anyway)

Understand the concepts ? Low pressure + Low committment = High Safety
 
I just read over my post to you, and realized that it was coming across too heavily. I/we care about you, and want you to be tied and tickled. I/we know how strong the desire is, and I/we want you to fulfill that desire, in a safe and sane (but still exciting) manner.

Hey, quick clarification,,,

You don't tell the poor guy (who is quite probably shaking in his boots over this whole meeting in the first place) something like,,

<I> "...Okay Buster, listen here, you will appear at Burger King on 4th and Jones at 1:15 p.m., and I mean exactly at that minute. (I set my watch via WWV every morning.) I'm going to have two secret agent gorillas in the room in different places to keep their eyes on you at all times. One false move baby, and you're toast !!!..." </I>


Perhaps you could word it something like this...


<I> "...Joe, could we meet once for a regular date in public ? Nothing fancy; McDonald's, KFC, Pizza; something simple will be okay. I just want us to meet with each other in public a time or two before we do this...." </I>
 
Words from the wise, indeed!

I'm just going to echo what's already been said here so well. First meetings should be purely social, not jumping in at the deep end. Simply having been corresponding with a person online for a long time does NOT give, IMHO, a sense of what sort of person you're placing such an intimate trust in. Meet first, then go from there. Small steps. Learn to walk first. This is a pretty tight-knit community, with genuine concern for each other's well-being. We're family, and it hurts us to think of one of our numbers having something bad happen to them because they trusted the wrong person. Please be careful.
 
I have to agree as well. We always take the time to meet new people in public or a safe setting (with a group of people we already know)
This way you get a feeling for them and they for you. We NEVER would let someone we have just met have total control the first time out.

It doesnt mean you cant play a little, but total control should come only with trust and you need more than one face to face to establish that trust.

At the very least, another friend should know that you are meeting someone and you should set up a prearranged time that you will check in with them so that if they dont hear from you, they can come check up on you. The one you are meeting can be told you need to make a call
when it is time. I dont know that I would tell him before.

Again, I feel that the BEST way to go is to meet publically or with a group until you get to know one another. We met Ann & Drew at Red Lobster for dinner the first time and have become great friends. The others that we have met from here were all met a gatherings where there is safety in numbers.


My 3 cents today.


Ven
 
Lots of opinions here. Whos right? None of us. It comes down to making up your own mind. BE an adult and make an adult desicion.
 
yjgfn is ABSOLUTELY correct....she is an adult and can make her own mind up....i have talked to songbird about this via email and she has been talking to this guy for over 6 months by instant message, email and phone, and it seems to me that she knows him pretty well. im sure when she meets him, she will decide based on what type of person he is and seems to be, taking the past 6 months into account plus what he is like when she meets him. then she will make an adult decision. all you other nattering nabobs need to listen to yjgfn...he makes the most sense.

the fact of the matter is, that a person is either a GOOD person, or a BAD person.....if the person is a BAD person, it doesnt matter if she meets him 500 times before allowing him to tie her up, if he is a BAD person he is STILL going to do something to her during that 501st meeting...period. i am sure she will be able to decide whether he is GOOD or BAD fairly quickly.
 
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I also agree that the lady should make up her own mind, and I'm sure she will!

Have fun, Songbird, and congrats on taking a step towards making a fantasy a reality!

I was nervous the first time I met a ticklephile face-to-face too. I hope it's a very nice experience for you. Let us know how it goes.
 
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Ever seen the guy on webcam ?

Was he honest over the phone (and internet) about his physical condition and appearance ?



Yours truly,
P50
Certified Nattering Nabob
(CNN # 192837465)
 
No, songbird....you don't have to tell about it

Just bring a camcorder to that date and record everything. Then you won't need to tell anyone for we all could watch it ourselves. AND you wouldn't have to worry about your safety cause it'd be all on tape.....or maybe a LiveCam via the internet would do the trick.....

But whatever you do to share your experience - HAVE A GREAT TIME AND MAY YOUR WILDEST DREAMS BE FULFILLED.
 
I HAVE JUST FINISHED READING EVERYONE'S RESPONSES, AND IT IS NICE TO KNOW THAT EVERYONE CARES ABOUT EACH OTHER...

I HAVE TO ADMIT, I AM VERY NERVOUS ABOUT THIS MEETING SINCE IT IS MY FIRST REAL SESSION. I HAVE TALKED TO HIM FOR OVER 6 MONTHS AND THE FUNNY PART IS, TICKLING IS NOT EVEN WHAT WE TALK ABOUT MUCH ANYMORE.

WE TALK ABOUT LIFE IN GENERAL, WHAT WE DO AT WORK, AND BASICALLY EVERYTHING ELSE. DONT GET ME WRONG, WE DO DISCUSS TICKLING, AND HOW WE BOTH FEEL ABOUT IT, AND HE KNOWS I AM NERVOUS AND TELLS ME NOT TO BE, BUT IT IS HARD SINCE HE LIVES IN OHIO AND IT WILL BE THE FIRST MEETING.

WE ARE GOING OUT TO DINNER FIRST, AND THEN I CAN DECIDE FROM THERE. IF I DECIDE NOT TO, AND KNOW HE WILL UNDERSTAND, I FEEL WE KNOW ALOT ABOUT EACH OTHER'S PERSONALITIES.

I AM NOT "DESPERATE TO GET TICKLED" I DONT REMEMBER WHO SAID THAT. I DO ENJOY TICKLING, AS DOES EVERYONE ELSE, BUT IT DEFINITELY IS NOT OUT OF DESPERATION.

I KNOW I HAVE TO BE CAREFUL, AND THAT IS WHY WE ARE MEETING IN A PUBLIC PLACE FIRST.

I DO APPRECIATE EVERYONE'S OPINION, IN THE WAY THOUGH, I AM MORE NERVOUS NOW THAN I WAS BEFORE.

ANYWAY THAT IS ALL FOR NOW.
 
It's natural...

to be nervous on your first big meeting with this new friend. He'll likely be, too. Relax, have fun. Let the night take you where it will. Trust in your intuition, though. If the creep-radar hits you, be polite, but don't get into a bad situation.
 
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