First tickling session with the bf.. kinda nervous/embarrassed!

[cute_ellie]

So I've never openly told my bf that I have a tickling fetish, but he definitely knows that I love being tickled. And by some odd, amazing chance, he loves tickling me and does it quite often. He even said his new years resolution was to tickle me at least once a week🙂

We've been planning a tickling session for a while, and even got around to indirectly saying that I'll be tied up for it. I'm excited out of my mind, as this has been a secret fantasy of mine for years...but I'm nervous that he'll find out how much it turns me on if you know what I mean. It's actually really really embarrassing. Idk if tickling is a fetish for him too, it really seems like it, but you can never be so sure. How should I approach this situation?

 

[GQguy]

Guys will do ANYTHING to turn their women on. Some might even say the survival of the species depends on it. No worries I'll bet a round of shots that he won't judge.

GQ

 

[3xPIN]

Looks like you have approached just fine. But why are you so scared/embarrassed? If he likes doing it, go for it! He won't judge you, trust me. He will probably get really into even if he doesn't have one. Who knows, he may be embarrassed too. Try and talk with him about it. He already wants to do it at least once a week. Pretty fun sounding. No matter what happens, good luck and have fun.

 

[FLBowler]

Good luck and be safe. Take it slow to start is the best way to ensure it'll be great

 

[-Hari-]

Letting him know it turns you on will have him tickling you every day instead of every week, he'll appreciate having such an easy was to please his lady 🙂

its a good thing.

 

[Sweed]

I agree with the above speakers 🙂 Him knowing it turns you on is a good thing. He is your boyfriend, after all. 🙂

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

You've done well letting him know it turns you on. But you're not required to tell him how much it turns you on. He can find that out for himself. *wink wink*

 

[JoePTickle]

You may not have to do this since you're already successfully down the road a ways with the buy-in to tickling, but if you're concerned about him finding out just how much it turns you on, you could consider starting a conversation by asking him what his biggest turn-ons are. He might have a kink or two of his own. If he can open up about that (we're all a little different in some ways, right?), then either (1) your love for tickling might be no more unusual than his, and/or (2) he'll be so excited about your interest in his favorites that he'd more gladly be in tune with yours. Just a thought. Hope you post your tickle session experience in the stories section, even if just a paragraph. Thanks for asking ellie, and good luck...

 

[Mane'o]

be yourself and it sounds like you have a bf who enjoys you being that self. let's hope your natural reactions to being tickled by him will clue him in to what it does to you though some guys need a little guidance so if he doesn't seem to catch up during the tickling, afterwards you might coyly mention how much his tickling did for you. I'm sure I express the sentiments of many by saying we can't wait to hear the results from your session. Have fun!

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

You just showing up will probably do it. So you are in DANGER? of getting turned on by your boyfriend? This can only be a good thing.... Enjoy, you crazy kids!!