Wasn't sure where this should go, hopefully this works.
Went to a gathering, thought I was just going to spend the day rigging and being a voyer. That alone would have left me a happy camper. Decided late in the evening that I'd like to bottom.
Now I always thought I was not very ticklish, a wartenburg wheel can get me sometimes but that was about it. I had origionally got involved with this group to improve my skill at sensation play when I'm topping.
So face down I go, onto a bondage bed of my own creation. Suddenly at the mercy of a woman I *thought* only really spent time as lee. Yeah that perception went out the window in a hurry.
what did I learn? well lets see. my response to tickling so far in my life has been neutral to annoying. clearly it was based on the skill of the ler. this woman not only found places *I* didn't know were ticklish, but made sure to exploit them. I enjoyed her reactions as much as my own.
feathers were not really my deal, too soft. start working with nails, wartenburg wheel, light scratching, rougher tickling and I go through the roof.
oh and octohead thing (brass head scratcher) drives me absolutely insane. I knew I liked headscratchings, but in that context it was brutal.
a 2nd joined later.. I should be thankful she was busy for most of the scene. the two of them together was more than I could take.
I did let some guys help with some toys and restraint. I kept bucking the origional ler off.. can't imagine what state I'd be in after some better ropework and a more stable platform to be tied to.
oh and the begging, but without submission. were I in that space I might have taken it better. I always enjoy the psychological game, from either direction. So being taunted and dominated during the scene is something I will definately look to explore in the future.
and it is a different trip entirely from impact play
, which I find fascinating. So I will *definately* be involved more in this community.
NaZ
Went to a gathering, thought I was just going to spend the day rigging and being a voyer. That alone would have left me a happy camper. Decided late in the evening that I'd like to bottom.
Now I always thought I was not very ticklish, a wartenburg wheel can get me sometimes but that was about it. I had origionally got involved with this group to improve my skill at sensation play when I'm topping.
So face down I go, onto a bondage bed of my own creation. Suddenly at the mercy of a woman I *thought* only really spent time as lee. Yeah that perception went out the window in a hurry.
what did I learn? well lets see. my response to tickling so far in my life has been neutral to annoying. clearly it was based on the skill of the ler. this woman not only found places *I* didn't know were ticklish, but made sure to exploit them. I enjoyed her reactions as much as my own.
feathers were not really my deal, too soft. start working with nails, wartenburg wheel, light scratching, rougher tickling and I go through the roof.
oh and octohead thing (brass head scratcher) drives me absolutely insane. I knew I liked headscratchings, but in that context it was brutal.
a 2nd joined later.. I should be thankful she was busy for most of the scene. the two of them together was more than I could take.
I did let some guys help with some toys and restraint. I kept bucking the origional ler off.. can't imagine what state I'd be in after some better ropework and a more stable platform to be tied to.
oh and the begging, but without submission. were I in that space I might have taken it better. I always enjoy the psychological game, from either direction. So being taunted and dominated during the scene is something I will definately look to explore in the future.
and it is a different trip entirely from impact play
, which I find fascinating. So I will *definately* be involved more in this community.NaZ
