foot fetish getting bad rap

[gilmourwaters]

Ok i've have had a foot fetish all my life and because of the way i have handled myself in my openess about my fetish i have enjoyed a great many foot fetish experiences throughout my life that i still am amazed by.Im 41 now married to a fantastic woman that embraced my foot fetish (AND MY TICKLING FETISH) since the first day we meet!

But i feel terrible for those out there with a foot fetish (OR TICKLING FETISH FOR THAT MATTER) who are still looking for a woman they can be open with about there fetish. Why??? Because there are fetishists out there who are putting a bad rap on our fetish.Time and time again i see in the news some guy arrested for forcing there fetish on unsuspecting women...grabbing at there feet in stores , parking lots, breaking in to there homes to tickle there feet while they sleep etc.And the latest strike comes from LI my area..some guy enticing 12 yr old girls with cash to let him massage there feet and take pics of there feet in shoes which he supplies! Come on....when will some fetishists use there heads?? Having a fetish is not supposed to strike fear in womems hearts.It's not supposed to mean something creepy! But i fear it's heading that way.Back in the 80's and mid 90's when i was running women loved my foot fetish. These days i think i wouldn't have had half the success i had back then if i was out there trying to meet a fetish friendly female. I get frustrated at the gall of guys out there with no self control and ruining the chances for others

Any thoughts on this subject???

 

[Casadyrocks]

Bad behaviour transcends sexual preferences. I have a few female friends who are cocktail waitresses and they are accustomed to having their tits and ass grabbed. No woman should have to deal with that,certainly not any who don't make erotic/sexual practices their proffession.

A foot-related incident of bad behaviour just makes better press. Sadly, our great tradition of American journalism has virtually been destroyed by corporate control and a FCC that allows monopoly and sanitization and censhorship- but worries about Janet Jackson's nipple, and Howard Stern's nonsense. A foot fetsh story is much more desirable for the media than a sexual assault of standard content. It goes hand in hand with endless celebrity pablum and sleeze. I care about real journalism, but have to hear about whatever crap I'm force fed about Brad and Jennifer, Micheal Jackson, Jennifer Lopez, Scott Peterson, "the Runaway Bride" etc.


I guess that I am not ashamed of my preferences, and hope you are not either. As we are appauled by the inappropriate acts of a foot fetish nature- I am equally appauled by all acts of sexual assault against women.

 

[morgandee]

janet jackson's nipple is worse than 9/11 !!!!!!!! OH GOD THE NIPPLE TERRORISM

journalists are simply reaction formationing to whatever it is they report and so are the people who cling on to so-called scandals and controversies which they actually get a thrill out of watching

guilty pleasures~

 

[riversjones1]

Did you say that you've actually heard stories of guys being arrested for breaking in women's homes to tickle their feet. That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard if it's true. And not only that, it must be ridiculously embarrasing for the victim to have the crime mentioned in the papers, or especially when she has to describe it in a courtroom. People that do shit like that are making our fetish look perverted.

 

[GalvoMkII]

i first thought to be an oddball
then i checked some of the "fetish" sites out there
now i feel i am perfectly normal with some spice added in for fun

 

[gilmourwaters]

yes it's a real story riverjones.Afew years ago a guy was arrested for breaking into womens bedrooms at night not to steal but to tickle there feet.He got caught cuz he tickled a girl awake.He was sentanced to seeking professional help

 

[ShadowTklr]

Hey Gilmour. I remember that story. I'm on L.I. too. The guy would tickle their feet and then steal their shoes. There was another guy in New Jersey a couple of years back who accosted women in the parking lot of a mall as they bent into their cars to put packages away. He would push them in, grab their ankle, pull off a shoe and tickle their foot before running away.

Poor, sorry bastards

 

[GalvoMkII]

i usually ask politely
it works

 

[morgandee]

i usually trip them as they run away and grab them into a chokehold and chokeslam them

 

[nessonite1]

i usually trip them as they run away and grab them into a chokehold and chokeslam them

OMG that was you?!?!?!?!?!?!

 

[morgandee]

child's play? our correspondant, GoofyTickle, begs to differ!

 

[-Kunoke-]

OMG that was you?!?!?!?!?!?!

ROFL NESS. 😀

But really...people, you can have fantasies about doing that, but actually going through with it? I DO suggest he get professional help.

Put a girl in a position where she can't resist ... treat her like a woman, show her you like her etc. and she'll be up for it. Tickling IS innocent - always remember that. It's literally child's play (obviously this isn't to be read as advocating tickling children), so a grown woman isn't going to read anything sleazy into it if you tickle her. You might even try asking first!

You're exactally right. That's what you want to do. You don't have to let on that it's sexual to you, you don't even have to say you like it. You can just ask nicely. Trust me, it works like a charm. Even those who know of my fetish don't mind, and most girls I ask let me, even if only for a little bit because of how ticklish they are 🙂

It's how I like to do things, and I get to tickle girls practically every day, even with the horror that is my social life. So I'm guessing thats proof enough

 

[morgandee]

well actually no i have done it before, oddly enough

but we was playfighting really rough like

 

[aenglish]

Bad behaviour transcends sexual preferences. I have a few female friends who are cocktail waitresses and they are accustomed to having their tits and ass grabbed. No woman should have to deal with that,certainly not any who don't make erotic/sexual practices their proffession.

Amen to that, sister. Unfortunately, prevailing social norms, in addition to the corporate culture of certain places (and not just the obvious ones like Hooters) contribute to certain intolerable situations for female workers. "Abstinence-only sex "education'" sez da Bush man and his Fundamentalist backers, but we won't teach boys and girls to treat each other with respect...

As for the subject under discussion, I'm extremely 4tunate to have had not one but 2 GF's who at least were willing to give my particular variations a whirl. Which makes me think that there might be more receptive partners out there than we might think. Being made to think that we're not "normal" is the biggest burden we have to shoulder. And "normal" as you know, is a load of horseshit.

 

[ticklebob1]

dosn`t choking kinda limit the giggle? just a bit ya think?

 

[Big_Blue]

Don't quote me on this, but I remember reading about sexuality during the 1890s-1920s and apparently foot fetishes were more common during these times due to women being covered by more clothing than nowadays. Legs and feet were supposedly liked by many men during the roaring twenties because women began wearing skirts and short dresses to expose their legs. How provacative! People had different beliefs in sexuality back then as well. Also I might add that syphillis was a real worry for many people in larger cities. Perhaps this is where the tradition of toon ladies exposing their legs to drive the toon guys crazy originated from. It sort of makes sense. Right? On another but similar note I've also read recently that the number of BDSM and body-part fetishes has supposedly been on the rise due to the high numbers of STDs and STIs that are currently obtainable through sexual intercourse. Hopefully I'm not committing a mortal sin by reviving an older thread, but does anyone have any thoughts on this?

 

[MistressValerie1]

No problem with the bump, Big Blue, since your post is relevant 🙂 Supporting your point, I have also read that the prevalence of HIV and other new STDs is making safer sex, including partialism and fetishes, more popular and more acceptable.

 

[locker669]

I wonder what's going through these guys' heads? I'd be thinking "how sad is my life that it's come down to breaking into a bedroom to tickle someone's sleeping feet?"