Alright so im barley going into my 19th realtionship with a women. I have always been foward with my fetishes. My two main fetishes are tickling and feet. Is it just me or is it that i find my self having stronger feelings to those against or disgusted with my foot fetish. This is going to be my 9th girl friend who dislikes my foot fetish. And again I seem to find my self having strong feelings for her. So, what the hell?
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Celtic_Emperor
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lovecats said:
Ever go with the outside chance (in your specific situation) that you're in love and that supercedes how you feel about how she feels for the fetishes? 😛
This doesn't seem so complicated.
If its not this, then the fetish is simply something you cannot have, yet anyways, thus the growing attraction.
Perhaps this will be the ultimate cruelty of your relationship (for you anyways), or perhaps it will prove to be the pillar of strength which will further solidify the relationship.
Because afterall, if the relationship can thrive without the fetish being included in it, and your fetishes are really important to you, then it shows you can go the distance and make sacrifices.
If however you cannot be in such a relationship and the non-acceptance of your fetish is a problem, better for you to either move on or explain to her how important it is to you and try to compromise, but don't expect total acceptance (remember, the fetish is not YOU, its just a thing you DO).
If she does love you then she'll try and be more understanding and see this from more than one point of view, namely her's. But also understand this means you have to meet her half way to be fair.
Who knows, you two might find a happy medium where you get some of what you want, and shes comfortable enough with it thats its not a danger to the relationship itself (in her mind anyway). (IE- sensual foot rubs as opposed to full blown tickling, etc.)
Too much of a good thing can ruin a relationship. Although for a man whose had nine relationships, I hope you don't need me to tell you that.
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HOLLYWOOD
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the botoom line according to the hollywood brother is that you desire what you can not easily have. for example if the hollywood brother oculd not be a part of this thread, then the hollywood brother owuld desire to be part of this hollywood brother approved thread
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ya, what he said
If anything i think its just its something i cant have which contributes my attraction for her. Love is not really an option at the moment we are barley getting know each other. But thanks every one didnt really need the advice just more if any one had similar situations. I suppose i forgot to leave that question out. 🙂
