Friend you like to tickle

[lulukulu]

Do you have friend which you like to tickle even if you have girlfriend? My girlfriend tolerate my obsesion and she likes it. But you know, there is always passion to collect more experiences and situations, with the others.
Our friend is cool and funny girl. And I tickled her several times, like pokes to ribs, spider fingers on the knees, even tickling on feet. And it seems that she dont care about it. But my gf is little jealous. She feels endangered, because there is another object to my obsesion. Do you know that situation?
I never had friend like her. So I dont want to lose her. I know its selfish, but there is not only that tickle thing. We are friends. And of course I dont want to lose my girlfriend.

Do you have similar experiences?

 

[rhiannon]

Dangerous situation. If you don't want to lose your girlfriend, I suggest you stop tickling your friend!

 

[DeaconMye]

Yeah it all breaks down to how much you love your girlfriend and what your willing to do for her, she will probably only view in that sense. Because it's a fetish and turns you on, it's not cheating, like having intercourse. But there are many forms of cheating. I'm not trying to tell you what to do, or judge your actions in any way, but if is just tickling it's fine. But it's not just tickling, so ask yourself how would you react if the roles were reversed.

 

[lulukulu]

Yeah, its a strange fetish. Its kind of erotic, but also you can read here on forum stories about aunts, sisters and even moms.
So its difficult.

 

[helplessandhappy]

I can't personally relate, because my fetish isn't related to tickling in general. I like being tickled by someone I'm romantically interested in, but that's as far as it goes. I don't have the same desire to have new tickling experiences or anything like that.

I think your girlfriend has every right to be upset. If you care about her, why don't you focus your fetish on HER and not other women? If you can't do that, maybe she's not right for you and you would happier looking for a more open relationship.

 

[StevePerry4Ever]

I can somewhat relate. Tickling can be both sexual and non-sexual for me, either way, I love it. I'm fortunate enough to be in a relationship where my girlfriend understands that when I'm tickling a friend, or a cousin, it's all fun. But when I'm tickling her, I very much turned on. We'll even gang up on some of our more ticklish friends, or help them to get one of us.

It's like kissing, I can kiss my mom, but it's completely different than when I kiss my girlfriend.

For your situation, however, your girlfriend doesn't like the idea of something you find sexual being shared with others. Regardless of how it feels for you, her wishes should be honored. That is what you do in relationships. If you can't find yourself changing this for her, it's time to find a new relationship, not because she won't change for you, but because you won't change for her.

 

[lulukulu]

Thank you, maybe I write it wrong. I focus on her generaly. I dont overlook her. We have our own way to use tickling.
And with that friend, its really friendly relationship and ticking is the same, nothing sexual, but I feel shame, because its my fetish too.

Thanks for your replies.

"It's like kissing, I can kiss my mom, but it's completely different than when I kiss my girlfriend."

great example

 

[FeatherEndeavor]

You kiss your girlfriend and your Mom and of course it's a different kiss with both of them. But kissing your Mom is not something that could potentially turn you on. The woman that you and your girlfriend hang out with is cool and funny like you said and not a member of your family. So this is someone you could be attracted to. So someone you could be attracted to, your girlfriend knows you have a tickle fetish, she sees you tickling her, I see where she might be upset. Like rhiannon said if you don't want to lose your girlfriend you should probably stop tickling your friend.

 

[rhiannon]

And with that friend, its really friendly relationship and ticking is the same, nothing sexual

Would you do the same thing to a guy?

 

[FeatherFeet]

I have a few friends like this though I'm normally on the recieving end. My girlfriend doesn't mind it...in fact she encourages it. LOL.

 

[C.A.B.]

Oh I can think of a few vanilla friends that I would love to get on my rack... but it would be highly inappropriate. ...deliciously inappropriate, in fact. Rawr!

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

Yeah, its a strange fetish. Its kind of erotic, but also you can read here on forum stories about aunts, sisters and even moms.
So its difficult.

The thing to remember is that no matter how you personally feel about it, tickling is not a sexual or romantic activity, and is therefore not necessarily subject to the same restrictions regarding the participation of females outside your primary relationship. If your girlfriend gets jealous at you tickling your other friend, I would work towards convincing her that it's no big deal. Maybe throttle back on the tickling of your friend just a little bit. You know, to make a gesture.

But whatever you do, I recommend in the strongest terms not to let her be the 100% decider on what you're permitted to do. You've got some authority of your own. I'd use it to strike a compromise.

 

[ticklishdanny]

It's more platonic for me so while I'm single yeah! But if I were in a relationship I think it's something I'd want to be exclusive to us, assuming she was willing to have some tickle-fun.