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Whats going on fellow ticklers/ticklees...hoping for some advice. Basically, im a 21 year old college senior whos had this fetish his whole life. Like, since I was under 5 for sure. And im beginning to get frustrated because despite having girlfriends, hooking up with girls, etc, I've never had the courage to tell any of them about my fetish and thus have never experienced it. Sucks. I was wondering, if an attractive young male was looking to indulge himself, how would he go about it? I was hoping there would be girls my age on here, but alas it appears to be mostly dudes. Are there any studios in new york where I could pay to tickle torture somebody? Or other methods of meeting like minded females? Thanks for any advice from the more seasoned ticklers!

(PS it may say im new here but I've actually been on the forums for years under a variety of monikers, so I definitely know theres good people on here 😉)
 
Well I'm sure that if there are dungeons anywhere in the US where you can pay to tickle people, it's gonna be in a place like New York. xD I'm sorry that I can't be of any help in being more specific, but I'm sure someone else here can provide some helpful information about that.

Then again I think there are quite a lot of ladies here on the forum too. Just present yourself well and they might even approach YOU. 😀 Or you could just tell your next girlfriend or something. I mean, I understand what you mean with having to muster the courage, but out of the several girls you've dated/hooked up with, haven't ANY of them had kinks of their own? 🙂 If you agree to do something they like, then maybe they'll agree to some tickling afterwards, or vice versa?
 
Carsomyr said:
Well I'm sure that if there are dungeons anywhere in the US where you can pay to tickle people, it's gonna be in a place like New York. xD I'm sorry that I can't be of any help in being more specific, but I'm sure someone else here can provide some helpful information about that.

Then again I think there are quite a lot of ladies here on the forum too. Just present yourself well and they might even approach YOU. 😀 Or you could just tell your next girlfriend or something. I mean, I understand what you mean with having to muster the courage, but out of the several girls you've dated/hooked up with, haven't ANY of them had kinks of their own? 🙂 If you agree to do something they like, then maybe they'll agree to some tickling afterwards, or vice versa?
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Haha thanks for the reply my man. Im sure there are dungeons in nyc, the question is where? lol i cant seem to find them online. As far as the girls are concerned, i go to a big state school, and to be honest alot of the hooking up has been drunken after parties and what not, lol! As far as girlfriends go, i havent had that many serious relationships, and the last one i had the girl was a really sweet catholic girl and i was only the second guy she'd slept with....granted this girl was gorgeous and sweet, but about as kinky as mr rodgers hahahha...maybe ill find a kinky one someday we will see : )
 
You never know how kinky someone is before you ask....still waters are deep! 😉
 
rhiannon said:
You never know how kinky someone is before you ask....still waters are deep! 😉
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hahhaa i dont even know how id approach that one with that girl, but theres some girls im talking to now that maybe id be able to approach, to those that have done this how did u go about it?
 
Keep searching my friend! There's plenty of fish in the sea *cliche cringe* 😛

I know its frustrating, believe me, I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, but you just gotta make the most of what you got. Live a little and see what comes of it...remember...fortune favours the brave! 😀
 
deadlywiffeathr said:
Keep searching my friend! There's plenty of fish in the sea *cliche cringe* 😛

I know its frustrating, believe me, I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, but you just gotta make the most of what you got. Live a little and see what comes of it...remember...fortune favours the brave! 😀
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damn, i guess i was wrong about the all dudes thing, lol! thanks for the advice, too bad i havent met a girl like you over here in the states!
 
cttickler77 said:
damn, i guess i was wrong about the all dudes thing, lol! thanks for the advice, too bad i havent met a girl like you over here in the states!
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Haha, seems so! Hang in there though, the right girl will come along eventually! :happyhop:
 
The bottom line is that you're never going to be 100% satisfied (or dare say "into") your relationship if you're needs aren't being fulfilled. Like me for example - after dating a few women who thought a foot fetish was absolutely disgusting, I've started finding ways to bring it up (not in a creep way, mind you lol) before I ever get too serious with someone now. If someone isn't willing to at least bend a little bit and explore your needs and desires they are not the right person for you anyhow. 😉

Hang in there, bro. There's always someone that'll surprise you when you least expect it!
 
Two places to look for women, tickle fetish sites and other sites, bars, singles, on line dating, etc.. In here they already know who you are and on the outside where you have to explain everything or NOT tell them about your fetish. I never out myself anymore, I never tell non-tickle fetish women about my fetish, it's a waste of time.
 
A play partner is a lot different than a relationship though. It all depends what you're looking for. There's no way I'd be able to marry someone that didn't accept my turn-ons. Would never, ever work in the long run.
 
You're a girl and can pick! For a guy it's like playing the lottery.
 
Aimee said:
i've met people from the personals section before....if the guy isn't like "i want to tickle ur feet lololol" then he might get a few responses.
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LOL! So true. But unfortunately, most guys are like sharks with blood in the water in the personals section. 😉
 
cttickler77 said:
hahhaa i dont even know how id approach that one with that girl, but theres some girls im talking to now that maybe id be able to approach, to those that have done this how did u go about it?
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It's like any other social interaction. Don't be a pig, don't be too desperate, and always use correct spelling and grammar. Chicks dig spelling and grammar. 😛
 
I guess you are just not looking in all the right places. I never feel you should have to pay for pleasure but if you insist. Just put an add out on Craigslist and I bet you get your door beaten down with girls that would love to be paid to tickle. I'm sure you can even get a few that will do it for free. Good luck! Next time I'm in NY I'll let you know, you can tie me up and tickle me.
 
OP, repeat after me: "having this fetish indulged is important to me and I deserve to have what I want." No need to be hesitant about telling a girl you're going to be sexual with what you want, sexually. If I'm right and hook-up is how kids today say one-night-stand. If you're not getting what you want from these girls sexually, what's the point of the one-night-stand?? Don't settle for less than you deserve!
 
I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, and I'm 28. I'm pretty much a novice at dating, too, due to shyness and other things---though the shyness part has gotten better over the years. I still keep holding out hope, though. I'm on a dating site, and if I get into a relationship with someone, I'll probably let her know in one way or another. I kind of suspect that those of us with tickle fetishes have a slight advantage over other fetishes since many people seem to get a kick out of tickling in one way or another, even if they don't see it the same way we do.

Good luck, and may we all find what we're looking for in life.

Oh, and ditto what other people have said about the personals section. For us guys, that's kind of like shooting a BB gun towards the sky in hopes of hitting the moon. :upsidedow
 
I do not know if he is still doing it but seems I read something not long ago from Tommy over at Tickle Abuse that he is allowing 'lers to come to his studio and tickle his models for a fee. He is in New York. Seems he also mentioned something about you bring the beer and pizza and you could sit in on a shoot. Too bad he is so damn far away---I would probably bring in beer, pizza and a bag of money just to see what happens =)

Hope this has helped.
 
what have you gt to lose if you tell these girls?

NOTHING! thats what... tickling is a part of you and if your comfortable with it, girls will realise this and won't see a big deal in it...

thats from experience

and when you do tell someone, u feel great about it.

i felt so great that i shouted it from the rooftops and it did more good for me then bad! sure my mates will poke fun at me occasionally but i just give the banter back, its when a girl asks YOU if you like tickling is when you realise it pays off 😉
 
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