Fun or Torture

[tickleshotel]

Personally I would say that it would depend on the situation,where and how the Ticklee is being Tickled.. For me, Tickling is "fun' in the midst of being tickled playfully and I love how the expressions on the Tickler's face when he,she is enjoying it too. 😎 But when I am in the Stocks helpless,or vulnerable Spread Eagle position, the tickling Is Intense and Torture and I can;t stand it but I don;t want it to stop either!

 

[50greg]

Personally I would say that it would depend on the situation,where and how the Ticklee is being Tickled.. For me, Tickling is "fun' in the midst of being tickled playfully and I love how the expressions on the Tickler's face when he,she is enjoying it too. 😎 But when I am in the Stocks helpless,or vulnerable Spread Eagle position, the tickling Is Intense and Torture and I can;t stand it but I don;t want it to stop either!

So, TH, could you be made to divulge secrets through tickle torture?

 

[jaba]

Ummmm.... I think there are quite a few 'lees around here that would whole-heartedly object to that statement - myself included. Just because it's my body's knee-jerk reaction to pull back from someone who is ticklilng me, doesn't mean that I'm not LOVING every single minute of it. That reaction is just reflexive, it doesn't accurately reflect what's going on in my head (or anywhere else on my body for that matter) at the time I'm being tickled. There are plenty of OTHER physical reactions my body has when a guy tickles me that better depict how I REALLY feel about being tickled.... but that's a different story all together 😉

It's like when I ride a rollercoaster - while I'm on the ride, I'm screaming my head off and by any observer, scared to death. But you'd better believe that when it's all over, my body will be coursing with adrenaline and I'll have a HUGE grin on my face. I experience such a "high" from the ride that I can't wait to do it all over again. The same goes for just about every tickle experience I've ever had. If I didn't fear looking like a total weirdo, I'd tell the guy who just tickled me "More please!" after he stopped.

As far as the topic of the thread goes, I don't like to tickle people who hate being tickled. I happen to be married to such a guy, and because of this, I almost always play the 'lee rather than the 'ler. Non-consensual tickling is a HUGE fantasy for me (mostly with me as the 'lee), but in reality, I think it would be a totally different story.... at least if I'm the one doing the tickling. When I tickle someone, I like to hear laughter not tears. You can fight me and beg all you want, but if I ever get the sense that you REALLY aren't enjoying yourself, I'll stop. There is a world of difference between someone who is "play" fighting and someone who is in serious distress... and a good 'ler always knows the difference.

Maggie

Very well said....

I love detailed descriptions of the lee feeling and experience.....

As a "ler only", there are two things that I just can't wrap my mind around....

one is enjoyment by the lee of a sensation that some have described as torturous.....and I personally know ladies who are really into pain play, but they cannot handle tickling....

The other is I cannot believe that there are lees that love being tickled as much as I love tickling them.....I still marvel at that fact.....and when you play with the right lee with the "right" laugh, it is an unbelievably surreal experience.....

 

[tickleshotel]

So, TH, could you be made to divulge secrets through tickle torture?

50Greg, I would say NO way getting information from me at first as I would be fighting to keep my info,secrets hidden.. But if Tickle Torture continued, I would at some point break down and give the info

 

[50greg]

50Greg, I would say NO way getting information from me at first as I would be fighting to keep my info,secrets hidden.. But if Tickle Torture continued, I would at some point break down and give the info

TH, for your country's sake, never join the CIA. LOL!!!!!!

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Well, people who don't like tickling might find it very erotic to suffer (thus showing their most intimate self) in front of their significant other. In that way there are many people who are willing to go all the way through your fantasies, if you just know the right approach.
I am also believe people can grow an interest into something they intensely enjoy. While maybe not a true fetish, they can sure get off on it. In that way I have learned to enjoy aspects of fetishism outside the tickling world, but I would never consider them my fetish. In that respect I sincerely believe people can learn to enjoy tickling torture.

Imagine a girl really loves you, she'd associate your tickling fantasies to you, and she would really want to please you in that way. She'd try to find ways, philosophies in which she might be able to take it and enjoy it.

About feet: most girls I get to really like me, first laughed at me whenever I admitted I like female feet (mostly in respond to a quote as "I find men's arms to be erotic"). Of course we get intimate while having such conversation, but most of these girls remember my passion for feet and whenever they get hold of it, they use it on me. Just because they know it gets men horny, they aren't disgusted at it in any way.
People are willing to go far if it is to please their loved ones. They might even permanently learn to love stuff. Even if a relationship breaks, they still look for simular times they've experienced with others.

 

[P[a]pi]

Well, I'm a bondage dom guy, so I need more than just tickling.

And a girl who hates being tickled because of past experiences isn't gonna let you tie her up and tickle her.

So, I want a girl who likes being tickled. You can still push a girl who likes it to the edge, where they don't like it anymore and want it to stop. But, the beauty is they come back for more.

I'm talking about female lees in general. I've only tied up and tickle my girlfriend.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

easy answer for me; the girl who laughs the most!

steve

 

[TaraToes25]

I knew u would say that....

I prefer the girls who see it as torture, but when forced to endure prolonged tickling, start to like it. :-D

Torture can become a very important part of intimacy... like being spanked in bed... or lite bondage.

Being tied and tickle tortured is true torture to me, but i love it... Imagine a guy that would cross a girls legs during sex and tickle her feet as he made love to her; I guess she would be trapped? Torture... yes please.

Kiss! Tara

 

[kingp]

Much more fun if she likes it

I really do believe that there are women out there who "like" to be tickled, and may not even admit it to themselves. It does depend alot on the ler....his approach etc. For me, if hse is not having fun, then I am not having fun. I am not big on torture unless its a welcomed one....but is that really torture or just a form of rougher than normal sex?

Viva the lee who like the tickles....you are a treasure