How long they normally are
As said above, most go Fri-Sun, with some such as NEST that have people arriving Thurs or earlier for extra hang out time with friends and go until Monday. Granted NEST is the flagship event of the year. (I was there Thurs-Tues) But life is still going on outside of the event, so some people can only make it in for a night or two, or even just a single day. It's all good.
Remember as well a lot of the gatherings are in people's private homes, so getting to know people on the forum and letting them get to know you go a long way. Just as you'd like to know a little something about those wanting to stay/visit in your home, it's good to have references even if just character ones. Each gathering is run by it's host, so I'm not saying you can't just go to one without them, just letting people know it helps.
🙂 If there are munches in your area, try to go to some. They are just dinner/drinks hang out time, but such a great place to break the ice and start getting to know others from the community in your area.
Depends on what the host is shooting for. Some are just a small get together, others much larger. It's really up to the host as to how big of an event they want to throw. My last three gatherings had, 50+, 35, and NEST having around 125 people attend. It's not just vets either. LeeAllure can give you a better number, but I think 1/3 of the NEST attendees were first timers.
18+ Every age group is represented and you'll usually meet AWESOME people in every age bracket. It doesn't matter if your preference is to tickle/be tickled by someone 20 or 50, you will have the opportunity to hang out with first class people in every part of the spectrum.
Depends on the event. Every gathering I've gone to so far has had a very healthy mix.
how much tickling usually goes on at these things?
Some people play a lot, some a little, some none at all. There is an abundance of hanging out and to me is always the most fun, but play is there to be had. Does that mean you are guaranteed play? No of course not. Each person has to make the event for themselves. Getting to know people goes a long way to people feeling comfortable with you.
There won't (normally lol) be a buffet that you will just waltz up to and have all the fun you want. There is a no uninvited touch rule in place at these things, and you don't just go up to "play" going on and participate. You need to ask both both lee's and the ler's if it's okay with them if you join in. You'll see some people that are poking each other non stop as horseplay, and some people that will grab a handful of ribs anytime they walk by certain people. Keep in mind, these people may be close friends, and they both know that kind of play is acceptable with each other, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's ok with them for a total stranger to pull them on to their lap and play with them. Use courtesy and common sense, and when in doubt, just ask. People are normally very chill. If you get a "no thank you", just politely smile and move on. It's never personal, and everyone is an adult.
Hope this all helps, and remember, the only sure fire way to know these answers for sure is to just go to one and see for yourself. They truly are a blast!
