I've (20s M) had this fetish for as long as I can remember, and have been in a lurker in the community for a long time. I finally built up the courage to tell my partner about it, and she is willing to give it a try. I'm about 70% Ler/30% Lee, but since she doesn't like being tickled, I am channeling my inner Lee.
I bought under-bed restraints, and they seem sturdy enough. I am going to be spread eagle on our bed naked and face up. Since this is my first time being seriously tickled, I'm not sure where my most ticklish spots are, or how ticklish I actually am. Because of this, I imagine this first session will largely be experimental insofar as a discovery what really drives me crazy. To help her out, I have a blindfold, noise cancelling headphones, a couple of different brushes, body lotion (no baby oil on hand at the moment), and water based lubricant.
She seemed shocked this fetish existed, but is excited to try it. Since she is new to everything about the world of tickling/BDSM (and given the fact I'm not sure how ticklish I am-if at all), I gave her some instructions to satisfy my fantasy:
I've had trouble sleeping because I am excited and have been thinking about how this is going to go. My biggest fear is that I am not very ticklish and that nothing she tries will be very successful. I know I have existing tickle spots, but I have read stories about how people can either get more sensitized or less sensitized after they are restrained due to nerves. I hope my case is the former. The plan is to torture me later today. No matter how it goes, I am fortunate to have a partner willing to give it a try! I would be happy to report back sometime after the session is over. I would appreciate any additional advice beforehand if people see this before my time of reckoning!
I bought under-bed restraints, and they seem sturdy enough. I am going to be spread eagle on our bed naked and face up. Since this is my first time being seriously tickled, I'm not sure where my most ticklish spots are, or how ticklish I actually am. Because of this, I imagine this first session will largely be experimental insofar as a discovery what really drives me crazy. To help her out, I have a blindfold, noise cancelling headphones, a couple of different brushes, body lotion (no baby oil on hand at the moment), and water based lubricant.
She seemed shocked this fetish existed, but is excited to try it. Since she is new to everything about the world of tickling/BDSM (and given the fact I'm not sure how ticklish I am-if at all), I gave her some instructions to satisfy my fantasy:
- The number one goal should be to make me tickle really really really badly.
- Try whatever techniques you can to get a reaction out of me. This includes but is not limited to:
- straddling my hips and tickling my belly
- straddling my arms above my head and tickling my armpits/upper body
- using lotion/lube where ever she wants
- sitting on my leg while peeling my toes back so she can use the hairbrush on my feet
- crouching at the edge of the bed gliding two hairbrushes across both of my feet simultaneously
- try a mixture of light fingernail-based tickles as well as deep digging tickles
- If you happen to find a spot that induces an unprecedented/gigantic reaction out of me, do not let up - the point is to make me lose it if possible. Keep tickling me there until I safeword or until you want to experiment somewhere else.
- No matter how much I beg and tell you to stop, keep tickling me unless I say my safeword or show my physical safeword.
- After I orgasm, keep tickling me as this has the chance of being way more intense for me.
- Feel free to include playful banter, like reminding me how I'm the one who asked to be tortured in the first place, making verbal note of surprising ticklish reactions, etc.
I've had trouble sleeping because I am excited and have been thinking about how this is going to go. My biggest fear is that I am not very ticklish and that nothing she tries will be very successful. I know I have existing tickle spots, but I have read stories about how people can either get more sensitized or less sensitized after they are restrained due to nerves. I hope my case is the former. The plan is to torture me later today. No matter how it goes, I am fortunate to have a partner willing to give it a try! I would be happy to report back sometime after the session is over. I would appreciate any additional advice beforehand if people see this before my time of reckoning!
