Girlfriend's feet. Do I tell her?

[Borinyr]

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[wolfgang]

For one, don't apologize for the way her feet look. They're very pretty, and the important thing is that you're happy with HER as a person. I feel that as long as you show that you care about her, she should accept your fetish. if she doesn't then she just probably isn't the right person for you. You can't change who you are, and as long as you're not harming anybody, why would you want to? I would just tell her casually. Don't act embarrassed by it. Have confidence! The first time I told someone I had a foot fetish was this girl I met online, and I wsn't even dating her. I was surprised, however, by how easy it was to just let go and say it. it was very liberating. Maybe get a little drunk and tell her! Good luck man

 

[milagros317]

... the important thing is that you're happy with HER as a person. I feel that as long as you show that you care about her, she should accept your fetish. if she doesn't then she just probably isn't the right person for you. You can't change who you are, and as long as you're not harming anybody, why would you want to? ...

^ plus one
If she turns out to be one of those people who think that all feet are inherently ugly and dirty, then she is likely not the right person for you.

 

[hornyhubby]

For one, don't apologize for the way her feet look. They're very pretty, and the important thing is that you're happy with HER as a person. I feel that as long as you show that you care about her, she should accept your fetish. if she doesn't then she just probably isn't the right person for you. You can't change who you are, and as long as you're not harming anybody, why would you want to? I would just tell her casually. Don't act embarrassed by it. Have confidence! The first time I told someone I had a foot fetish was this girl I met online, and I wsn't even dating her. I was surprised, however, by how easy it was to just let go and say it. it was very liberating. Maybe get a little drunk and tell her! Good luck man

Correct .. if she is that opposed to it you may never get her to change ... I've been there ... give it some time and see ..

 

[C.A.B.]

Dig in your pocket and spring for a surprise premium mani/pedicure at a posh salon... that will get the conversation moving in a positive direction, you'll be the hero of the day, and she'll enjoy sharing her polished new saxy tootsies with you.

 

[mopug]

I've got some experience here and some girls (and guys) don't like feet but they'll let you have your way if they care enough for you. Some just hate feet however and won't do anything that has to do with them, not matter what they feel for you.

In my previous experience it's just been better to be open about it, if she let's you have your fun (you may have to have a compromise somewhere in there) then good, but if there's no way in hell she'll let you ever touch or tickle her feet, you may have to look elsewhere. Better to bite the bullet and deal with the problem now before it grows and more feelings get hurt, on both sides.

I'm currently with a girl who hates feet, but she let's me play with her feet (a lot) and I do some special things for her in bed which is my compromise so I'm lucky there. I've been in the opposite situation though with a girl who hates feet and never let me do anything with them. We got along quite well but my foot fetish is something that must be satisfied so I couldn't continue with that relationship.

Just something for you to think about.

 

[Californiasun19]

I have been where you are in previous relationships. No matter how great of a girl she is, no matter how great you feel about her, your foot / tickling fetish will always be an itch you will have to scratch. To indulge in. If she is not into it, in time her resentment and distance from you will grow. If you. Try to ignore your desires, that will eventually lead to bad feelings and resentment for her. You will eventually look for it elsewhere while your in the relationship. It is on.y a matter of time whether it be months or years. My advice, find a woman that loves her feet, and loves guys to at least pamper her feet. You are fighting a uphill battle. You cannot change the way she feels, nor can you deny who you are. Do what it is in your nature to do. So find a woman that will enjoy and appreciate it. I am on.y being honest from several previous relationships. I have been married now to a very hot woman who loves her feet tickled and played with for 10 years and it is bliss to say the least. I would not trade her for anything. If you find what I have found you will truly understand and would never even think about trying to compromise your fetish or attractions. My wife's hot feet is my avatar photo below.. I hope you find what you deserve to have.

 

[Borinyr]

I told her and she honestly didn't think it was that weird, AND she said she would think about letting me play with her feet 🙂
It was a lot easier than I thought it would be!

 

[TicklesFemales]

Good Luck my friend. She has Gorgeous feet and toes.