Giving someone their first "real" session

[CuteJill143]

At gatherings or meeting someone from TMF who never had a full blown "real" TMF style tickling experience but it was their life long fantasy to try..... ( to me that means involving eagle spread and helpless with restraints...everyone has a different opinion on this...)....

if you were the one to grant that somebody their first session, whether you were their LEE or whether you were their LER or both sides; how did it make you feel popping their "tickle cherry"?

From my personal experience....I have actually gotten extremely excited for them. I've dealt with being someone's first LEE as well as someones first LER. They are indeed very different then most sessions, not to bash other sessions because they are all good. It made me smile and think about my first session and how new and exciting it was for me. I also was happy for them because I knew I was opening new doors for them as well in a positive way. I felt like I actually guided them more into the tickling world then they were before building their confidence to make their other fantasies in tickling come true. I also felt like a mentor or a big sister or a teacher. It was a warm, happy emotional feeling of connection that we are both understood.

 

[rhiannon]

As a lee, I would not want to pop a ler's tickle cherry. I don't feel comfortable if my ler doesn't know what he's doing. It's part of the submission that he has a certain experience.

 

[maniactickler]

It feels awesome because your not being compared to any past ticklers. theres no pressure. at that point, youd be their best tickler ever!

 

[Carsomyr]

As a 'ler, I think it would be pretty epical if it was the 'lees first time, though it hasn't happened to me. But aside from helping them live out such a deep fantasy for the first time, it would also be a blast because they wouldn't know what to expect, and they wouldn't be prepared for any of the evil things I'd subject them to...

Then again, if it's a 'lee who HAS had sessions before, then I think the communication is a bit easier as she could let you know better what she expects out of your meeting. With a "newb" you might want to be a bit more careful since they're "exploring" something new, and it's never fun to hold back! 😛

That said, I don't have a preference either way. I'm just glad that I get to somebody!

😀

 

[CuteJill143]

As a lee, I would not want to pop a ler's tickle cherry. I don't feel comfortable if my ler doesn't know what he's doing. It's part of the submission that he has a certain experience.

I can understand that, but doesn't mean you can teach them lol. first time for everything. With one of my experiences the person was 100% sure he was more of a LEE but he turned out to be a LER that day.....I think being a LER comes naturally in some ways...

 

[rhiannon]

I think being a LER comes naturally in some ways

Hmmm...hmmmmmmmm...no. 🙂 I've known people who could make me bruise more easily than laugh! 🙂

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I think being a LER comes naturally in some ways...

Popular misconception.

Just because you can move your fingers, doesn't mean you can use them properly.

If you're a guy and are fucking a girl for the first time, you know where to put your shit, you just aren't sure of how to move it.

Same thing applies to tickling.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

If you're a guy and are fucking a girl for the first time, you know where to put your shit, you just aren't sure of how to move it.

Prehensile penises RULE!

 

[CuteJill143]

Popular misconception.

Just because you can move your fingers, doesn't mean you can use them properly.

If you're a guy and are fucking a girl for the first time, you know where to put your shit, you just aren't sure of how to move it.

Same thing applies to tickling.

I wouldn't know cuz I don't have a penis nor am I a LER. But I know being a LEE always felt natural but I can see what you are gettingat

 

[Player_X2020]

Honestly the only way I see this bruising to be possible is if you are trying to torture the poor guy or girl. It should be fun and teasing to start off and get progressive, if you just jump right in there it isn't going to be fun on either end.

Guess it's just me that prefers the whole slow and sensual thing?

 

[Maestro1874]

I absolutely LOVE popping a Lee's cherry. 🙂 Love IT!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I was someone's first "official" session, and it was pretty cool. It was fun to be his first extended experience as a lee and a ler. (Yeah, that's right - I ler'ed, so shut up about it!)

As a lee, I would not want to pop a ler's tickle cherry. I don't feel comfortable if my ler doesn't know what he's doing.

I'd like to be the first to say that just because someone hasn't had an official "session" doesn't mean they'll be clumsy. I made the same assumption and it took about five seconds of being in bondage to realize I could not have been more wrong.

 

[rhiannon]

Honestly the only way I see this bruising to be possible is if you are trying to torture the poor guy or girl. It should be fun and teasing to start off and get progressive, if you just jump right in there it isn't going to be fun on either end.

Guess it's just me that prefers the whole slow and sensual thing?

I like the torture thing. But that one guy I wouldn't have a session with! He did the knee-pinching-thing....I think I should have gotten surgery right after, would have been best, this is going to come back to me some time later!!

I'd like to be the first to say that just because someone hasn't had an official "session" doesn't mean they'll be clumsy. I made the same assumption and it took about five seconds of being in bondage to realize I could not have been more wrong.

It is not really realistic part of me that doesn't want to be someone's first lee...it has nothing to do with me thinking the person might be clumsy. It is a mind-thing. To me, the dominance-part is very important, and a certain kind of dominance comes, for me, with the experience of the ler.

 

[tkltease]

tickling someone who really wants to experience being bound and helpless and its there first time is kinda strange because you need to bring them along slowly to the tickling if there very ticklish but also make them enjoy it at the same time it works if you take it slow at first.

 

[CuteJill143]

tickling someone who really wants to experience being bound and helpless and its there first time is kinda strange because you need to bring them along slowly to the tickling if there very ticklish but also make them enjoy it at the same time it works if you take it slow at first.

Its good to take it however they'd want to take it. Communication is key.