Good or bad Lee's and ler's?

[The_Kev]

So, as a switch, I tend to be proud of both of my "talents". I'm range from a loving and playful to sadistic and cruel ler, and, not to toot my own horn, but I'm an absolutely adorable, sometimes bratty lee.

But earlier I was thinking that I tend to consider my self a slightly better lee than ler.

Then *that* got me thinking... What exactly makes a good or bad lee or ler?

I think to my mind a good ler is someone who is good at "reading the room" as it were and knowing what kind of atmosphere to create, weather the afor mentioned cute/playful or cruel/sadistic. Knowing the customer, as it were, and playing off of that energy.

A good lee, I think, is someone who knows how to react and beg in a way that gratified both the ler and them selves. This might be the easier one since laughing and begging is lond of out of their control, lol, but I still think it requires a timing.

What u guys think? What makes a lee/ler good/bad?

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[Yote]

It really depends on who you ask because everyone has their own definition of what makes a good ler or lee. And everyone has different preferences.


To me, here are the basics of what makes you good:

ler: Knows how to set the appropriate environment to suit their lee and knows how to tickle their lee in a pleasuring way.

lee: Knows how to give back to their ler (eg. through begging or teasing back) and gives honest reactions.


Overall, both should know how to give back to one another during tickling.

 

[The Internet]

I dont think a good 'lee is one who "knows how to react". They either react or they don't. I don't want a ticklee thinking about ANYTHING. I don't want them forcing it, telling me something they think I want to hear.....I want their natural reactions.

To me,a bad 'lee is one who doesn't laugh. Non-stop bloody murder screaming isn't much better.

By the way, when I say 'lee, I mean any tickled person, not someone with the fetish.

If it's someone WITH the fetish, then I will say this about SOME 'lees I've met - though not all! But I've encountered this enough to mention it here: because part of their fetish relates to getting attention, I find with SOME 'lees I've met on the board, that focus on getting attention extends to conversation. Not interested in you at all, never asks you how you are, will tell you everything about themselves in minute detail, relate to you their daily problems,stuff at work, etc.........I had correspondence with someone who wrote long long messages that were great to read.....but only ever asked me one question: how tall are you? lol.

Another one just seems to have zero interest in anything about me, period lol. If I'm having a bad day, or a going through a bad time......barely an acknowledgment. Sometimes not even a response. No problem pouring her life out to me though, lol!

They just want me for me 'lerrring! Waaaaaah! lol

But if we're talking STRICTLY during the act of tickling? A good 'lee simply reacts, honestly and naturally. I don't want anything forced. I'd rather she DOESN'T laugh than FORCE a laugh.

 

[jayson752003]

I dont think a good 'lee is one who "knows how to react". They either react or they don't. I don't want a ticklee thinking about ANYTHING. I don't want them forcing it, telling me something they think I want to hear.....I want their natural reactions.

To me,a bad 'lee is one who doesn't laugh. Non-stop bloody murder screaming isn't much better.

By the way, when I say 'lee, I mean any tickled person, not someone with the fetish.

If it's someone WITH the fetish, then I will say this about SOME 'lees I've met - though not all! But I've encountered this enough to mention it here: because part of their fetish relates to getting attention, I find with SOME 'lees I've met on the board, that focus on getting attention extends to conversation. Not interested in you at all, never asks you how you are, will tell you everything about themselves in minute detail, relate to you their daily problems,stuff at work, etc.........I had correspondence with someone who wrote long long messages that were great to read.....but only ever asked me one question: how tall are you? lol.

Another one just seems to have zero interest in anything about me, period lol. If I'm having a bad day, or a going through a bad time......barely an acknowledgment. Sometimes not even a response. No problem pouring her life out to me though, lol!

They just want me for me 'lerrring! Waaaaaah! lol

But if we're talking STRICTLY during the act of tickling? A good 'lee simply reacts, honestly and naturally. I don't want anything forced. I'd rather she DOESN'T laugh than FORCE a laugh.

Pretty much agree 100%

 

[tickletherapist]

You can’t be a good or bad lee as not much really depends on you in the process. It’s up to the tickler to make you open emotionally and release your tension, and charge you with positive energy, which is the aim of tickle therapy at least.
A good tickler is who is able to find a method to do that.