Guide to getting others to enjoy tickling......

[scorpionldr]

OK, so I'm in a bit of a pickle...I know a girl I'm interested in dating and she's interested as well...she heard about the tickling fetish and basically gave me the "i'll pass" until i mentioned my fetish was "regressing" (it's a half truth lol, it's not quite working anymore), and then she was pretty cool about it. But over the course of time I'm hoping to get her to enjoy the feeling of tickling, not be turned off by the idea of a complete torturous process....any guidelines to help me out?

 

[ThatPercussionGuy]

Focus on more than just the tickling. Feeling like someone is only interested in one part of you - breasts, legs, ticklishness, whatever - isn't very satisfying. She probably thinks that if you have a fetish then that's all you're interested in. You'd have to show her that you want *her* first, tickling second. Or if nothing else, that you want to tickle her in particular, because you want her and you want to share that experience with her.

Pretty sound advice...

 

[marcusb]

Mix it in with other things she enjoys. For example, if she likes getting a backrub lead into that activity by tickling her a small amount. Associate what she likes with it. Don't over-do it.

 

[scorpionldr]

sounds good.......i like her for her.....it's just i sometimes want to get to isolate the tickling.....i think i'll be especially impressionable since she tells me she hasn't dated a whole lot