Guys: If You Want To Really Know Why Women Go For Bad Boys And Ignore You, Read This

[steph]

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[Morning Angel]

I think some of the most dangerous assumptions are in thinking that every woman wants exactly the same things in a man and continues to want these things throughout her life. Sure, some women have a set 'type' of man, and lots of women drool over movie stars (partially because they're publicized everywhere as god-like), but if I take a look at the women I know and the guys they go for, there's quite a variety.

Yep Frankie~that nightmare period for me took part in the 80s too(shudders now at the vain jackass I was in those days...)I went after guys like that because I could land them and I knew it. It became like this challenge to win over the hottest looking guy in the room~99% of the time I pulled it off, although I'm no supermodel. What is the saying? "Beauty is only skin deep but ugly is to the bone..."

I had the twisted theory that if a guy who looked like that wanted me, I must be valuable...🙄 Took me awhile to wake up and thank God I did...

XOXO

I went through a brief period of this too, lasted about 2 years, and just really started to come out of it this past spring. I considered guys with 'movie star' attitudes conquests, and if one of them liked me at all I thought it meant I had more worth as a woman... not very bright, as being with them tended to actually magnify my insecurities. I guess I could count looks in there too, but finding someone good-looking is such a subjective thing that it's almost meaningless to talk about. Amen Steph - thank god I snapped out of it when I did or else I would have missed out on something truly special with the nicest guy I know (whom I think is very good-looking, and he seems to feel the same about me🙂).

 

[steph]

Another great answer, Angel!

XOXO