Guys who have tried/would try m/m tickling?

[AmandaBear]

There does seem to be a double standard when it comes to men and women. For women, if they entertain the idea of sleeping with another woman, then they're bi-curious at the most. But for men, if they're curious about sex with another man, then they're definitely gay. This double standard seems to be applied equally to tickling. :/
Now, I do understand that sexuality is more fluid with women and all, but it's still fixed from a pretty early age in most women.

I guess my point is that sexual identity is up to the individual and that no one can say for sure who's straight and who's not. Heck, I've even heard of lesbians that watch gay male porn and yet they're still 100% lesbian.

 

[Cosmo_ac]

certainly, a guy could enjoy m/m tickling and be straight. For some people, they simply get off on the tickling aspect of it, as oposed to which gender is involved. Please don't let the more narrowminded scare you away.

 

[Jason Reborn]

Now me, I'm bisexual and have been tickled by both but to say that all M/M tickling is gay upsets me greatly. There's no need for it! Two guys can tie and tickle each other and still remain straight. When the act of tickling was first discovered, do you really think those involved initially thought tickling to be a sexual act?!? I DON'T THINK SO!!! Tickling is supposed to be fun first, then sexual if it comes to that....

 

[ticklishfeetnyc]

I think it all depends on what kind of tickling goes on and how it is done. If the lee is wearing clothes and the tickling is not sexual and done for fun it would be like a contact sport or an arm wrestling match. I don't really see anything wrong with it. It would not necessarlly make a person gay unless it was done for sexual reasons. Foot tickling could be very fun for the reactions you can receive or get out of someone. I have not been foot tickled by a guy but probablly could say they could be more aggressive. As long as it does not go to a weird place. If two women tickle eachother it does not make them gay either.

 

[tkltease]

its really no big deal i have tickled a few men in my time and we have set what will happen and what they are comfortable with during a tickle session and it turned out to be fun.

 

[Jerzeys23]

I think the fine line is, despite what people in denial say, if a you engage in tickling with another man, and you get a boner... your gay bruh. I think you're gay for being tickled by a man no matter what, but thats just me.

 

[Cosmo_ac]

it really depends on what is giving you an erection, Jerzey.

 

[Mitchell]

I'm straight, but I'd be lying if I said I've never been forciably tickled by another guy. It happened in college. One of my roommates, a guy, who supposedly was straight, tickled me a few times, and it made me very uncomfortable. This was several years before I realized that tickling was a sexual fetish for me.

I discussed this very subject with a female friend who happens to be bi, and has been tickled by both guys and girls. She told me that her view is that there's a whole "You're gay" thing, if a guy likes to be tickled by other guys, because of the whole "macho gender" thing. However, in her view, if two girls tickle each other, they might be straight, bi, or gay, because, society says it's okay for girls to be "touchy feely", and tickle each other, whereas such is not okay for guys to do that.

I'm not into voluntary m/m tickling, either as the lee or the ler. If such ever happened to me, it would only be if it was forced, and I was the lee, because otherwise, I just dont like it, sorry.

Mitch

 

[Jerzeys23]

it really depends on what is giving you an erection, Jerzey.

well i meant the guy tickling the guy, but i thought that was obvious.

 

[Cosmo_ac]

well i meant the guy tickling the guy, but i thought that was obvious.

Well, yes. If you are sexually aroused by men, then i'd wager your gay or bisexual. If thats what your saying, then we are probably in agreement.

However, if your saying that if a man gets an erection from being tickled by another man, that makes them gay or bisexual by default, then we are in disagreement.