Hard tickling vs Soft tickling

[Terra_Ascension]

Which do you prefer? Extreme hardcore tickling or soft erotic tickling?

Personally, I prefer soft erotic tickling.

TA

 

[Leigh317]

Soft, scratchy tickling using fingernails!

 

[sabaki]

Too many false dichotomies!

I choose the third option.

 

[spareme]

both

How about both, sometimes one, sometimes the other. It depends on the circumstances 😀

 

[tklmaestro]

Can't any tickling at all be a choice ?

 

[Terra_Ascension]

Of course - say what the hell you want! LOL

TA

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Which do you prefer? Extreme hardcore tickling or soft erotic tickling?

Personally, I prefer soft erotic tickling.

TA

Soft tickling to me has always been more pleasuerable

 

[Iwant2Btickled]

Soft is better for me, the hard poking hurts and doesn't do much for me... i guess its actually a little harder than soft, but you know what i mean... I cannot stand to have someone dig their fingers into me hard...makes me more mad than anything...i'd rather have someone lightly, playfully tickle me, laughing with me...and I soooooo know exactly who I want to do that....

 

[huskys]

I like both. Soft and light and erotic when your relaxed. And a little harder for playfighting etc. Even though I always lose those ones. lol

 

[minerva]

Soft, scratchy tickling using fingernails!

Thats the kind I like as well - going on for a loooong time.. 🙂

 

[Mistress Aura]

Take It Slow...

Definitely prefer doling out the softer kind--slow, detailed and focused. Plus, in most cases the softer it is, the longer a 'Ler can keep doing it as well. Hard tickling with frantic struggles may only last 10 or 15 minutes at a time before a break is needed, and then upper body strength can begin to wear out (for the average person, I mean) which certainly shortens the session. But the softer, erotic fingernail/soft brush exploratory tickling with my 'lee in comfortable restraints can last for...oh...hours?


Mistress Aura

 

[jaba]

Definitely prefer doling out the softer kind--slow, detailed and focused. Plus, in most cases the softer it is, the longer a 'Ler can keep doing it as well. Hard tickling with frantic struggles may only last 10 or 15 minutes at a time before a break is needed, and then upper body strength can begin to wear out (for the average person, I mean) which certainly shortens the session. But the softer, erotic fingernail/soft brush exploratory tickling with my 'lee in comfortable restraints can last for...oh...hours?


Mistress Aura

Jaba agrees with all of this.....

I'm not going to disparage someone elses tickling style or preferences, I mean we all like different things, but in the past I have seen wonderful ticklees, very ticklish with great, full rich sexy laughter, get quickly burnt out and reduced to screeching and screaming by harsh, hard tickling.....very frustrating, and a waste of a fantastic laugh, in my opinion......like I said, we all have different preferences, but I would much rather have 2 or 3 hours of great laughter over hours of screaming.....

 

[skelyrata]

Soft tickling : eternal torment!

I definitley prefer soft tickling. Of course it needs more skills from the tickler.

The big problem with hard tickling is that after a few minutes you realize that she is screaming out of pain and not laughing because her hot spots are now bruises and no longer tickle sentitive.

I like to feel that we are both having a good time. I like the seductive effect of soft tickling. Is amazing to feel her body react by instinct to soft stimulation. Nerves and muscles contracting on their own only to be stopped by the ropes that holds her still! Unvoluntary movements! Reflexes! Beyond her will power!

Thats magic!

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Which do you prefer? Extreme hardcore tickling or soft erotic tickling?

Personally, I prefer soft erotic tickling.

TA

If by extreme hardcore tickling you mean rough tickling, then that isn't for me. I have a medical condition that makes that kind of approach just hurt. And I'm not into pain at all. However, there's no need to fret. If you want to really get me good, drive me totally out of my mind and have me begging for mercy, the light touches work VERY well!

 

[AffectionateDan]

It's all yummy... just depends on who's playing with whom.

Good tickles run the spectrum from slow, soft strokes to scrabbling, scratching nails to deep, penetrating fingertips that unearth some of the most delicious ticklish screams. I love it all. But, being the cuddly ol' bahr that I am, I love love love love LOVE to use the gentle, teasing caress-type of tickles. Eliciting helpless laughter from simple, tender touches is just the best. And there's nothing that says that deep tickling can't be gently done... just like there's nothing that says that soft tickles are necessarily erotic, either... takes the right aptitude, I suppose. But yeah, there's just something extra sweet about softly exploring for ticklish areas.... mmmmmmmm!!!!!

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i go for the soft side

both in giving, and receiving. as has been mentioned, both the lee, and the ler can go longer with soft tickling. also hard tickles tend to hurt, and for me at least, pain has no place in tickling.

 

[BorisandNatasha]

Extreme, hard core tickling!!!


Boris

 

[Helena]

Hmmmmm, hard vs. soft?
I know different touches work for different places on my body.
A paintbrush on my bottom is as effective as a hairbrush on my feet.

 

[paracarl44]

The Secret To Tickling:

Is to make the Person who is being Tickled Enjoy It. A little conversation while the lee & ler are in a tickling session will greatly enhance the pleasure received by Both Parties.

 

[tickletime4u]

Prefer soft tickling personally.

 

[minerva]

Is to make the Person who is being Tickled Enjoy It. A little conversation while the lee & ler are in a tickling session will greatly enhance the pleasure received by Both Parties.

I fully agree, conversation is a very important part, though the 'lee might not be able to say too much 😀

 

[Helena]

I fully agree, conversation is a very important part, though the 'lee might not be able to say too much 😀

Minerva,
That is so true. Conversation during tickling? Mine is limited to the following words:
"Stop. Please don't. O.K. OH MY GOD"
"NOT THERE." SCREAM.........AND GIGGLE......MIND GOES BLANK.........

 

[isabeau]

hmm depends on what part of the body....for upper body, the lighter touch works best....for my feet, hmm scraping with the fingernails, teeth (eeks), a comb...anything rather pointy seems to drive me nuts..

for everywhere else, the lighter touch works great...o and i bruise easily..

 

[jaba]

ticklish conversations......

I fully agree, conversation is a very important part, though the 'lee might not be able to say too much 😀

You let us do the talking..... 🙄

YOU just do the giggling....... 😛