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Has anyone been asked to never tickle someone?

marzbarz

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Have you ever told anyone about your fetish, special interest, obsession, whatever you want to call it, and then they ask you never to tickle them? How do you react to that?

If you didn't tell anyone about your fetish, and someone told you they hated it, how do you respond?
 
TRO's": Tickling Restraining Orders............................

My ex-wife did that essentially. While dating, I tickled her and played with her feet at every opportunity. As our marriage quickly fell apart, the "no tickling'' sign was one of many "not any more's" she imposed. It was both our faults, but we never got the chance to try and work out the problems.
 
Have you ever told anyone about your fetish, special interest, obsession, whatever you want to call it, and then they ask you never to tickle them? How do you react to that?

If you didn't tell anyone about your fetish, and someone told you they hated it, how do you respond?

Well, one of my ex-girlfriends basically put an end to my tickling fun when we started to grow apart. We we're fighting all the time and to be honest, I did not want to tickle her anymore since it would inevitably lead to another fight. I never told her straight out I had a tickle fetish but I'm sure she figured it out. Anyway, it was a strained situation and tickling her was the last thing I was thinking about by the time our relationship was over.

I guess to answer your question, she did not care for being tickled but I did tickle her anyway for short periods and she was ok with it. Its really a shame too, since she was really ticklish.
 
I told my best friend. At first it was okay. Great actually. I didn't actually tickle her but a few pokes. She's not into it at all. She basically said that she would be upset if I tickled her because I know that she doesn't like it. But she's willing to talk to me about it.. I don't know the conditions or anything, but I was kind of hurt by it. We've had a few arguments over it. I know I should respect it, but it's harder now for me to talk to her about it..
 
I told my best friend. At first it was okay. Great actually. I didn't actually tickle her but a few pokes. She's not into it at all. She basically said that she would be upset if I tickled her because I know that she doesn't like it. But she's willing to talk to me about it.. I don't know the conditions or anything, but I was kind of hurt by it. We've had a few arguments over it. I know I should respect it, but it's harder now for me to talk to her about it..

That sucks 🙁 why the arguments?
 
That sucks 🙁 why the arguments?

I was trying to convince her that tickling is a gesture of affection. That it would be silly to be upset over something like that, and to trust me. She does, but she said that doesn't change the fact that she doesn't like it. Not a lot of people like it, and I understood that. I just wanted her to be okay with it if I ever did it to her. And she would be upset because I know she doesn't like it. It just went in circles.

Should I respect that? Is there away to work something out between us?
 
Some people will always see things differently than you and there's not much you can do about it. You don't really have much choice other than to respect her wishes. Sometimes life just denies you something and you have to move on 🙂
 
my opinion, i would just respect her wishes on this one... sometimes a friendship is just more important.
 
Do you guys think there will be a time where we can get past all of this? She's my best friend. Of course I respect that. But part of me will be uncomfortable about this for a long time.. She's allowed me to talk about it with her.. could there still be hope?
 
Well,

She knows your fetish/kink/whatever... Do you know hers?

Don't demand her sexual-side like you lackadaisically admitted yours though.

😛
 
Well,

She knows your fetish/kink/whatever... Do you know hers?

Don't demand her sexual-side like you lackadaisically admitted yours though.

😛

kind of.. it's not the same. lol I don't know if I fully understand what you mean by that.
 
Do you guys think there will be a time where we can get past all of this? She's my best friend. Of course I respect that. But part of me will be uncomfortable about this for a long time.. She's allowed me to talk about it with her.. could there still be hope?

Probably not. I have a similar situation with a friend and I can joke with her about it, but I know she's not into nor has any interest in participating in what I do and I just had to accept that. If my friend ever decided it would be ok to participate, I'm sure she would let me know.

As playful as it is and even if, for you, it's a show of affection, it has to be a 2 way street.
 
She's your best friend....and best friends usually don't do the things to each other that is their fetish! She doesn't like it and doesn't want you to tickle her, she made that clear, therefore you have no business tickling her and shouldn't be hurt about it either. If you like and respect her, you have to respect that, too.

Since she is not your significant other, I don't really see the problem with it anyways.
 
Probably not. I have a similar situation with a friend and I can joke with her about it, but I know she's not into nor has any interest in participating in what I do and I just had to accept that. If my friend ever decided it would be ok to participate, I'm sure she would let me know.

As playful as it is and even if, for you, it's a show of affection, it has to be a 2 way street.

This is the reality of the situation.
 
She's your best friend....and best friends usually don't do the things to each other that is their fetish! She doesn't like it and doesn't want you to tickle her, she made that clear, therefore you have no business tickling her and shouldn't be hurt about it either. If you like and respect her, you have to respect that, too.

Since she is not your significant other, I don't really see the problem with it anyways.

This is the moral of the situation.
 
The last two replies remind me of an old drug commercial. Back from the nineties... "Any questions?" - that was the end of the commercial.
 
Since she is not your significant other, I don't really see the problem with it anyways.

Gah, I cant help myself, I must disagree with you!

You gotta realize a good best friend is someone who knows everything about you and can make you very happy and is someone you love sharing things with! What's wrong with hoping that you can share even something like this with them? Obviously marzbarz feels it's not something she wants to share exclusively with bfs or whatever.
 
She's your best friend....and best friends usually don't do the things to each other that is their fetish! She doesn't like it and doesn't want you to tickle her, she made that clear, therefore you have no business tickling her and shouldn't be hurt about it either. If you like and respect her, you have to respect that, too.

Since she is not your significant other, I don't really see the problem with it anyways.

It's not a fetish. I made it clear to her too, that I don't like using that word, because it sends the wrong message. The way I like it isn't sexual or abusive. Just to get that out of the way.
 
Gah, I cant help myself, I must disagree with you!

You gotta realize a good best friend is someone who knows everything about you and can make you very happy and is someone you love sharing things with! What's wrong with hoping that you can share even something like this with them? Obviously marzbarz feels it's not something she wants to share exclusively with bfs or whatever.

Thank you sir. My perspective exactly. :]
 
The way I like it isn't sexual or abusive.

Well, then it should be even easier for you. 😉 Something that's sexual is driven by a much, much stronger drive than something that you just like doing. 🙂

You gotta realize a good best friend is someone who knows everything about you and can make you very happy and is someone you love sharing things with!

My best friend and I don't like all the same things either, therefore we don't do stuff together that only one of us likes, and it is no problem whatsoever. She likes to go out in clubs and party - I don't! So she goes with other people, and the next day we sit together with some ice cream and she tells me about it.

Between friends, it really shouldn't be a problem!
 
Marzbarz, I am also wondering, what exactly is it that you would expect from your best friend? How would you like it to be?
 
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