Have you ever cried after being tickled?

[Helena]

Have you had a gratifying tickling session with your ler, and after it was over you cried? This happened to me.
I was not in physical pain. I was untied. I just started feeling really emotional when my body was calming down.
Also, the following day, I felt sad.
Perhaps you have had an experience like this?

 

[minerva]

Helena, I know exactly, what you are talking about. I've never experienced feeling sad throughout the next day though.
Feel free to PM me, if you want to talk. Hope you're ok 🙂

 

[RChello]

there's no crying in tickling...

wait that's there's no crying in baseball (from the movie "league of their own") sorry🙂

 

[JimmyBoy]

I've cried from laughterr during bein tickled but not usually after. After i'm usually huffing and puffing on the floor trying to calm down.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

i have never experienced it myself

 

[Mastertank1]

This has happened to several of my lees over the years.

I believe the tears after the session are because a session in which really deep helplessness is experienced triggers a very intens emotional release. What seemed to help was that I would gently hold her and caress her in a non-tickling manner, and verbally assure her that I still cared for and respected her. I would also repeat that while in my bondage she was under my protection, that not only would I never hurt or harm her, but niether would I let anything or anyone else do so. That seemed to help.

Once I learned to respond to the tears as described above, the sadness the next day never happened again.

Mitch

 

[Mistress Aura]

Kinda Sorta...

You know, I've actually experienced precisely this same reaction after a particularly rigorous session of sexual activity or even just a particularly strong orgasm on occasion, which to my knowledge is as similarly emotionally intense as a very focused tickling session. However disconcerting it was for my partner, I'd always assumed it was merely fallout/aftermath from endorphins and/or neurotransmitters and such--however, I didn't feel the sadness the following day, either...

Mistress Aura

 

[Helena]

You know, I've actually experienced precisely this same reaction after a particularly rigorous session of sexual activity or even just a particularly strong orgasm on occasion, which to my knowledge is as similarly emotionally intense as a very focused tickling session. However disconcerting it was for my partner, I'd always assumed it was merely fallout/aftermath from endorphins and/or neurotransmitters and such--however, I didn't feel the sadness the following day, either...

Mistress Aura

Your post helped me sort out my feelings.
I experienced a very focused, intense tickling. It was something that made me feel completely vulnerable. I cried because the experience was such an emotional release.
Perhaps I was sad the following morning because I missed my ler.

 

[Tortuga]

Well I have cried way before even being tickled. I was tied down and my ler was wiggling his fingers at my underarms. Those that don't know that is my ultimate spot and I admit that I am deathly afraid of being tickled there. I was so scared I started crying. Being tickled there is almost painful. 😡

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

Have you had a gratifying tickling session with your ler, and after it was over you cried? This happened to me.
I was not in physical pain. I was untied. I just started feeling really emotional when my body was calming down.
Also, the following day, I felt sad.
Perhaps you have had an experience like this?

Yes, this has happened to me before. I think because you connect and let go (like a release) that I cried afterwards too.

I believe the tears after the session are because a session in which really deep helplessness is experienced triggers a very intens emotional release. What seemed to help was that I would gently hold her and caress her in a non-tickling manner, and verbally assure her that I still cared for and respected her. I would also repeat that while in my bondage she was under my protection, that not only would I never hurt or harm her, but niether would I let anything or anyone else do so. That seemed to help.

That is very true Mitch, after our session, he cuddled me up and we snuggled etc and that made me feel so much better, sometimes it makes us bond much more too. As far as I can remember I don't believe I was feeling sad the next day, although if I was I would've got more snuggles, perhaps I should've said I was, hmm hehe 😀

 

[kis123]

You know, I've actually experienced precisely this same reaction after a particularly rigorous session of sexual activity or even just a particularly strong orgasm on occasion, which to my knowledge is as similarly emotionally intense as a very focused tickling session. However disconcerting it was for my partner, I'd always assumed it was merely fallout/aftermath from endorphins and/or neurotransmitters and such--however, I didn't feel the sadness the following day, either...

Mistress Aura

Now this has happened toi me after sex where it was so intimate that it was almost spiritual and it initially scared the hell out of my partner. Actually I was scared too and didn't know what to do so I cried it out as he held me. I don't remember being sad the next day but was kinda' embarrassed by it.

I don't get tickled enough to get my emotions tied into it. Now that you mention it, I think it's because I've never been restrained before. Restraints would definitely bring out the emotions in me. But I have had tickling sessions that have left me so overwhelmed I couldn't speak or move on my own.

 

[EvenSteven]

Now this has happened toi me after sex where it was so intimate that it was almost spiritual and it initially scared the hell out of my partner. Actually I was scared too and didn't know what to do so I cried it out as he held me. I don't remember being sad the next day but was kinda' embarrassed by it.

I don't get tickled enough to get my emotions tied into it. Now that you mention it, I think it's because I've never been restrained before. Restraints would definitely bring out the emotions in me. But I have had tickling sessions that have left me so overwhelmed I couldn't speak or move on my own.

Kis, after that happened, did you reflect back on the emotions you experienced as a good thing? i want to be tickled to the point of being affected emotionally because i think of it as a step i would like to take in becoming submissive to the 'Ler after the session has ended.

 

[BellaRisa]

Have you had a gratifying tickling session with your ler, and after it was over you cried? This happened to me.
I was not in physical pain. I was untied. I just started feeling really emotional when my body was calming down.
Also, the following day, I felt sad.
Perhaps you have had an experience like this?

It's often called subdrop (dominants call it domdrop), and I've experienced it myself. The combo of endorphins and adrenaline and hormones can be a VERY emotional cocktail. The sadness and slow feelings the next day, or even for days after, are kinda like that feeling you get when your blood sugar goes down in the middle of the day; I've been known to plan for it, especially if I'll be missing my 'Ler, with comforting things (movies, chocolate, that kinda thing )

Bella

 

[chicago]

I can understand the feeling, while I haven't cried from sadness, or even from fatigue (although I've been close).

Tickling, especially between two people that have gotten close, can be a lot like hugging, cuddling, kissing, etc. And that physical affection probably causes all sorts of good-feeling hormones to go whizzing about in one's brain.

So it's kind of like a drug. Having a good session, or even a good few days with another tickle enthusiast, can make you high, and coming down sucks. Those of you that have gone to gatherings know what I'm talking about.

 

[ginna]

Ive cried from laughter and gone from a natural high from tickling to a low only twice i think but it didnt last long...

"I admit that I am deathly afraid of being tickled there. I was so scared I started crying."

Tortuga - U've told ur ler that right? Cos he shouldn't go near the spot if it terrifies u so much or hurts. He should respect that area as no-go unless express permission is given, if you haven't told him do, (thinking about it you probably have already - in which case don't mind me) i mean it's up to you but from ur post u sounded like u really seriously didn't want to be tickled there.

 

[isrdew]

it happened once to a lee of mine, after she orgasmed during the session. She said it was very powerful, a kind of feeling she'd never had before, and it took a toll on her.

 

[kis123]

Kis, after that happened, did you reflect back on the emotions you experienced as a good thing? i want to be tickled to the point of being affected emotionally because i think of it as a step i would like to take in becoming submissive to the 'Ler after the session has ended.

No, I didn't look back and see it as a good thing because it left me too vulnerable and I don't like feeling that way at all. I have trust issues and felt it as just another way of being weakened and taken advantage of. Now I know that sounds horrible, but that's where my head was at the time. I don't even think I ever had sex with him again in fear it would happen again.

Now that was a long time ago and I haven'lt allowed it to happen to me since. But, I'm older now (hopefully more wiser) and if I ever ran into it again, I hope I know how to handle it.

I've never had an interest in being submissive; if anything, I'd like to explore my dominant side.

 

[EvenSteven]

No, I didn't look back and see it as a good thing because it left me too vulnerable and I don't like feeling that way at all. I have trust issues and felt it as just another way of being weakened and taken advantage of. Now I know that sounds horrible, but that's where my head was at the time. I don't even think I ever had sex with him again in fear it would happen again.

Now that was a long time ago and I haven'lt allowed it to happen to me since. But, I'm older now (hopefully more wiser) and if I ever ran into it again, I hope I know how to handle it.

I've never had an interest in being submissive; if anything, I'd like to explore my dominant side.

i understand now. It is quite reasonable that You would feel that way. On the other hand, "vulnerable" is just how i want to feel. Years ago, i was the one who didn't understand that this was what i wanted, so i had a hard time becoming comfortable with that role. i was reluctant to let down my guard then, but now i know that this is a necessary step for me. You and i would probably get along very well.