have you ever lost a best friend/girlfriend or boyfriend

[shylittleme]

Have you ever lost a best friend or girlfriend or boyfriend that you really shared a connection to and you were always happy around that person?

i'm not meaning like lost theses People like in Death. i'm just meaning like lost in contact with them not calling them or them calling you etc...


i have thats for sure🙁 . it was my sorta kinda girlfriend/really good friend in High School. Her name was jessica and we were going out in our 11th grade year (for me) and she was in the 10th grade year at the time. But we were kinda a couple but good friends still at the time. But then when 4th of july came around 2 years ago we decied to get back togethor me and her during that 4th of july night since we broke up a few months after school ended for that summer. But now since then me and her are no longer talking to each other and it made things hard when we were going out since she lived out of Town and i lived in Town so we never really saw each other that much expect at school alot. But now that i'm out of High school and Jessica as far as i know it is still being homeschooled we have lost in contact with each other. and She was the only one that had my phone number. and another thing really about Jessica she was my real first female friend that i've had ever. so that also makes things tough with losing in contact with her for theses few years. Even though she was alittle bit of a flirt with Me and including a few other guys (nothing to heavy though) she always had a smile on her face and was always making me smile and i did enjoy her company. she was the most sweetest girl. Jessica def always knew how to make the best out of the day to make other people happy (including me the Most). But now i just really miss her and have been thinking about her quit a bit since the few years that we haven't spoken or seen each other (since she still lives out of Town as far as i know).

🙁 *sigh*


Does anybody else know where i am coming from? or have any simplar expericances like Mine?



take care

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Lack of communication doesn't have to mean the end of a friendship. When I moved out of state, I lost contact with most of my good friends back there. We wrote and called a lot initially. But, other things got in the way and we simply haven't done so in a while. However, I have no doubt that (with the majority of them) I'd pick up right where we left off when I see them again. It's a matter of trusting in the relationship that was there. Don't sweat it too much. Look her up and say hello.

Ann

 

[tommytikl]

Yeah, what Ann said...and also if you can't make contact you need to move on, get over her...go out with other girls...you seem to be stuck in looking back while missing what is ahead!

Best of luck...btw getting over her is NOT easy!!!

 

[naveltkltr1350]

dave,

just what they said playa. get over her and quit being afraid of other girls. Go and ask one out. hell rejections are the end of the world man. You never know when you will find the right girl, if you dont start looking.

 

[TicklishSinner]

that is unfortuneate, but you gota move on or else you will never know what you are missing out there, good luck!

 

[mgctouch]

If you are having a problem locating her, go to www.classmates.com. If she is registered there, you can send her an email and take things from there. I have already been contacted or made contact with four people from classmates.com including one friend who I couldn't find from US Search.

Good luck!

 

[Bagelfather]

losing someone

I may be able to help you find your friend but I will have to tell you I'd need some full names, addresses, etc. I do skip tracing for my job in loss prevention and I'm pretty good. However, I can direct you to a website that might help.

This website is a pay service. However, there are links for links that have free search services.

http://www.merlindata.com/ Go to "industry links" and see what you can do with the free search sites out there.

If the person moved a long time ago it may be harder. In that case you can try contacting the neighbors and asking if they know of a city where your friend moved to. Feel free to email me and I can give you more tips in this endeavor.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

If you took all the people I regret losing touch with over the years, due to negligence or the the demands of daily life, you'd be able to fill the local movie theater.
I know you'd like to get in touch with her...you would have to find out, ulitmately, if she wants to hear from YOU. Maybe not. Maybe she herself has moved on, and it might just be, maybe, just maybe we'll get together for a soda or something. Why drown your thoughts in something like this?
You're young, Shy. LIVE!!!!!!!