Have you ever tickled someone in anger?

[dvnc]

NJJen's thread got me thinkin' about whether or not I'd ever tickled someone in anger. I can't actually think of anytime, save buggin' my step-sister in retribution, and even then, she favored that. Got to where it was explained to me that she was just seekin' attention, and that I shouldn't go smackin' her for messin' wit' me (and every older sib has heard this talk...). Ticklin' her was okay, somehow.

Stayed okay, too, until I hit my teens. Suddenly, ticklin' her was creepy.

Have any of you tickled someone vengefully, or in anger?

dvnc

 

[terorizer]

Eeek and double EEEK!!

That is so alien to me. I almost don't even know how to respond to the question. I suppose tickling is just hardwired into my DNA as fun, gratification, rewarding and so on.... it would be the farthest thing from my mind if I were angered or seeking vengeance.... even though I KNOW there are people who HATE it, in my mind, they'd still be getting off too good! LOL

 

[hawkikim]

OK, I'm not a tickler, but....

I once had a long-term relationship with a man who I had told about my particular fascination with tickling, he told me I was sick, insane, twisted, etc etc etc....

But after we had that discussion, he took to using tickling as a form of punishment when he was upset with me...none of the fun tickling, just, well...nasty. And the look on his face was chilling - "anger" would be one way to describe it, I guess.

Frankly, I am surprised that this treatment didn't put me off tickling forever! Thank gosh it didn't.

Kim

 

[Barlow]

That's terrible!

I hope that you didn't put up with that for long Kim. With him acting so scary, I'm surprised that it even tickled.

 

[hawkikim]

Re: That's terrible!

With him acting so scary, I'm surprised that it even tickled.

Interesting point, Barlow. With the benefit of hindsight, I'm not sure that it really DID tickle, even though those were the motions he was going through. And my feeling was, of course, MUCH different than when I am tickled now.

And no, I did NOT hang around very long after that! Just lucky for him there were no convenient sharp objects or firearms around!!😉

Kim

 

[qjakal]

Jealousy....

I often think the "straights" resent us for having something that has such intensity....they have a pale shadow of the emotions we stir in ourselves with this fascination. Guess we need to be understanding of them with their handicapped ability to experience the rush we take for granted! Glad you booked, Kim...don't waste something this incredible on a clod who has no appreciation of the gift and treasure you were bestowing upon him. Until we all meet in tickler/ticklee heaven (hell?), do the best ya can! Q

 

[njjen3953]

a good lesson

When I first went r/t into the tickling/bdsm world, I had this wonderful mentor. He taught me so much and was the first to dub me with the title S.A.M. 😉

One bit of advise he gave me that I will always remember is:
"Never try to "really" piss off your Dom and a good Dom will never "play" while truly angry.

Jen

 

[Dave2112]

Kim, that's not play...that's just wrong. But you already know that. As I said to Maria in the other thread, I am one of those people who will always be here if you need to talk.

I am glad that you still find it enjoyable, considering what you went through. You are one tough chick! 😎

 

[Ticklish9's]

Tickling in Anger?

Is that even possible?

Evidently some people can use tickling as a form of control, as evidenced by Kim's story (by the way, Kim, good job on recognizing that as the unhealthy situation it evidently was and getting out while you could), but tickling is awfully hard to use as a malicious weapon. Not saying it couldn't be done on someone who was particularly ticklish in the physical sense (as opposed to those for whom it's more a social response) but it doesn't fit the mold of someone who is a tickler, particularly not the kind of ticklers who frequent this site.

However, I could see someone who is cruel or powerhungry seeing tickling as just one more means of exerting control. That would be a scary perversion of our fun, innocent pasttime...but it would be possible.

But no I've never done it. 🙂

 

[ForgottenTcklr]

I had a friend (who didn't have a tickling fetish) who tickled his sister once for ruining his birthday party. I think I was sixteen, and my friend's sister told their parents that he was going to have a party. So, he got mad. He knew that she was extremely ticklish and hated it with a passion. So he, a couple of friends, and I; waited for their parents to leave. Then we pinned her down and tickled her. It only lasted three or four minutes, but she hated it.

 

[tcrewme]

Hmm...

Now that is interesting DNVC?
Well when I was younger, if a girl pissed me off, I would think of way to tickler her as revenge... Does Revenge=anger?
I hated the idea of hurting the girl but just some way to pay her back for whatever the transgression was.
But in pure anger no.

 

[njjen3953]

So he, a couple of friends, and I; waited for their parents to leave. Then we pinned her down and tickled her. It only lasted three or four minutes, but she hated it.

How do you feel about having done that now? I don't think it was an awful thing. I would not categorize it as abuse, particularly since it was so short and not a repeated pattern.
Does it bother you that you took part? Just curious.

Jen

 

[tcrewme]

Hey Jen 🙂

Hey Jen, How is it going?

Well now that I look back on it, because I was shy I rarely actually followed through with my thoughts. But as I look back on it, I do not feel guilty or anything, just a 9-10 year olds imagination run amuck.

 

[njjen3953]

LOL

Actually, Tom. That response was meant for ForgottenTcklr, but thanks for your response.

Jen

 

[Blackstar216]

Yes, this summer, I let a now former friend drive my car. Well, somewhere along the line she neglected to use the break pedal and hit another car. I didn't have such a big problem with that so much as her attitude about it. Although the thing was my fault because I was dumb enough to loan my car (it will NEVER happen again no matter what the circumstance) she didn't even OFFER to pay for the damage to my car!!!!!
Later that evening, she was still stirring my anger by not even making the gesture and almost trying to pretend it didn't happen. I hit the limit of it and just jumped on her and started tickling her mercilessly. I knew she couldn't stand being tickled. I just kept going on for about 4 minutes because she was screaming and I didn't want neighbors knocking on my door. Normally when I tickle someone I have a smile on my face that I can't wipe off for anything. This time, I never once smiled. When I let her up, she made a straight line for the bathroom and I kicked her out soon after. I did not appreciate such a bad attitude and she had it coming.

 

[tcrewme]

Opps...

No Problem.

 

[dvnc]

Yer notion was and is a good topic, Jen. (for those that didn't know, Jen got me onto this line o' thought in another thread).

tcrewme - I don't think revenge is equivalent to anger. It can be similar, though. By that notion, my ticklin' my step-sister when she bugged me would be likewise, wouldn't it, and it wasn't ever angry t'me. Depends on your sentiment at the time, brother.

Thankfully, there are some really cool folks here that are willin' t'talk to others about such stuff. Props to Dave2112, 'cause I see him offerin' such repeatedly, and that's just cool.

I was already glad Kim got away from that one, BEFORE I figured out that he was a creep. That's just not cool, darlin', and I'm glad you're away from him, and hangin' wit' us. See ya in a few weeks, Kim. 😉

Folks, if y'wanna talk about such things privately, do mail those who offer. Mail me if y'like, or IM me. Talkin' that stuff out takes it's power away, and gives you back yours.

dvnc

 

[Strelnikov]

Don't know if this qualifies...One of my childhood buddies had 2 brothers, and a sister who was the youngest of the four kids. Like all Boomer boys, they were taught that it's unmanly to hit a girl, regardless of reason. She of course took full advantage of the prohibition in sibling squabbles. So if they needed to get revenge, they tickled the s#!t out of her, singly or together. Left no marks, and Mom never took it seriously, so the constant threat restored the sibling balance of power.

Strelnikov

 

[MadKalnod]

Tickling in anger? To me that's like breaking someone's jaw out of love. My brain's wiring is permanently set to Tickling = Love, and anger or other ill will simply doesn't enter into it. I get a headache just trying to wrap my consciousness around the concept.

 

[46and2]

Anger?

Maybe out of playful vengance and that's it. I only tend to tickle women that I like either in personality or appearance. If a woman gets me truly angry, tickling tends to be the last thing on my mind. I've been known to lie and use somthing that I could of been angry about(but really wasn't)in order to instigate tickling. If I meet a women who has an attitude, somtimes I think about how cool it would be to reduce her to a quivering, ticklish mess. I think it would be a true corruption of my soul if I were to try and release my anger in that manner. The thought itself is extremley disturbing.

 

[Ticklish9's]

A good thought...

DVNC, you raise a good point...if any of y'all do wanna chat, there are a host of people here who have already proven themselves to be good talkers and good listeners. Talking about difficulties has a way of leading to solving difficulties that continues to amaze me to this day. I am quite willing to chat as well, if anyone feels the need - I can relate to that need to just tell somebody about something. I hope y'all feel free to share whatever needs to be shared with any one or all of us here - a more welcoming, non-judgemental group you'll not find elsewhere.

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Have I ever tickled someone in anger?
No.....not yet.....
But I would hate to be the one on the recieving end of a tickling in anger
I actually wouldnt mind trying it some time, as the ticklee or tickler 🙄 😀

 

[JoBelle]

Anger and Ticklin'

You know, DVNC, I've never tickled someone out of anger, but I can say that tickling has pulled the most intense anger out of me as a 'Lee.

The Ex once tried to tickle me into responding to him, whereas I was quite happy ignoring him at that particular moment. He knew what tickling did (and still does)to me. He thought he could somehow project that laughter and giddiness onto him if he tickled me. I became SO angry. I wasn't feeling invaded, as you might think. It wasn't the invasion of my personal space which we know is just wrong. It was the fact that he was trying to FORCE me to associate my joy from tickling with HIM. I bubbled with anger. That was one of the most intensely ANGRY moods I can recall in my life. I just wanted to throw pointy things at him!! What made me so mad was that I couldn't make myself stop laughing. When he finally stopped, I hit him until he was out of range! Needless to say, he never tried to "Make" me laugh again. Boy, I'm just gettin' all pissy remembering!!! LOL 🙂

Jo...thinking about the next playtime with folks who don't irk me 🙂

 

[qjakal]

Ummm...Hi

Just wanted to say hello to JoBelle...haven't seen/chatted with you before! Damn, we have a LOT of people on the forum now....nice! Q

 

[evilqueen]

Hi JoBelle,
Thanks for reminding us that tickling can also result in anger. Reading threads where people talk about groping/tickling women, and isn't it a shame they can't tickle more, whenever and wherever they like (you know guys, substitute the word "fuck" and you might understand how you come off to females), makes me wish that more unrequested tickle attacks from strangers were being met with a punch in the mouth.

eq
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yes I'm going through withdrawal, but the topic makes me angry anyway