Having one of those reflective moments

[firegod86]

This probably is not the best place for this. If so please move it at your leisure.

I'm not even sure why I am posting this. But it's been a very long stressful day and I just want to reach out to someone.

A few months ago I was dumped by the more or less perfect girl for me.

Certainly she had more than her share of problems and i was always there for her.

Like a switch she turned on me. Cheated on me and called me evil.
I've spent my time trying to forget her. To fill that void. Doing whatever i can to move on.
But she just keeps popping back into my head. No matter what I do. It somehow leads back to memories of her. Then i am just overwealmed by anger and regret. We were engaged and it just fell apart from her own selfish reasons.

I don't know what i am expecting. I'm just lonely tonight and felt like ranting. Maybe one day i can find a proper replacement for her. Good times we had. But sometimes i just wish i could forget so this pain would go away.

 

[voided9]

It doesn't sound like she was good for you, from what you described. Better to be lonely for a while than live with a crazy person forever. All you can really do is take what you learned from the relationship/breakup and use that information to help you with future relationships. It gets better with time!

 

[Studious_Hustler]

Bruh, I feel you and I wish you the best. I'm sure you know this already, but from experience the best advice I can give for this situation is to get as much physical/social distance from this person as possible. Love and dependence on an unhealthy relationship can be like an infection, and until you get it completely out of your system, you can have a hard time seeing straight. Give yourself distance, and eventually you'll wonder what you ever saw in her. In the meantime, I'm really sorry for your pain.

 

[milagros317]

.... Better to be lonely for a while than live with a crazy person forever. ... It gets better with time!

That was my experience long ago. The only time I was ever engaged (1980), it took me two years to get over her after we broke up. But she really was crazy and a bad influence on me. Good luck in getting over your ex.

 

[TicklesXXX]

Forget senseless human relationships. Use your time to study and solve the problems of the world. Perhaps in a world without problems senseless relationships will disappear.