Hey everyone!!!

[tunces]

I am new to the forum and was wondering, how can you tell if a girl is into foot fetish, as well as tickling, without even asking them? Just wondering🙂
Ticklemiester

 

[totally_evil]

Easiest thing in the world. Suck her toes, if she enjoys it she's probably got a foot fetish. Also nibbling her toes, gently biting her instep things like that, if she enjoys them she's got the fetish.

Hi and welcome.

 

[Headsnap]

Ask her, maybe?

 

[lespieds]

It is unlikely she is going to say if you do not ask. But asking is akward, so you need to experiment.
She might try to tickle you or ask you to do her.

Foot thing - If a woman has a love for shoes, there is a good chance she will probably love the foot thing too. The one woman I knew who truely had a foot thing liked to wear hose and heels.

In my experience, most women will entertain your foot fetish, as it will feel good to them to have their feet pampered. And most women don't seem to mind doing the tickling. It is like "whatever makes you happy".

If you want to tickle her, I know nothing of that, I shall leave that one to another person.

 

[deadlywiffeathr]

hey there ticklemiester and welcome to the forum!! i was new here 2 a while ago but have made some great friends on here since then just by making the first step and posting regularly!! lol. ummm in answer to ur question i dont noe how u could tell if u dont ask her, maybe if she looks at ppl's feet whenever ur around ppl with no shoes on?? but the beauty of this forum is that u can ask those questions on here and no-one gets offended!! hehe

good luck with makin some new friends....u already have one!! lol

 

[tunces]

Thank u🙂

Thanks totally evil🙂🙂 What about if the girl wears toe rings and anklets??? Could you know then??

 

[tunces]

Great day ya'll, thanks for the advice🙂🙂 I am always too damn embarrassed to even discuss my 2 fetishes with ladies or anyone at that matter.

 

[totally_evil]

Thanks totally evil🙂🙂 What about if the girl wears toe rings and anklets??? Could you know then??

I'd say that was just vanity.

If she likes touching and stroking your feet that's a good indication as well.

I'm a lady with a foot fetish, and I usually wear socks and trainers, hose and heels feels great, but most women wear them to look good, or because it makes them feel more confident.

 

[Headsnap]

Seriously, what's wrong with just asking someone? You don't necessarily have to bulldoze her with the question, maybe work your way up to it when you feel comfortable enough with both the woman and your fetish to ask. All this sneaking around and beating around the bush, unhealthy I tells ya.

 

[tunces]

Are any women in this forum into foot fetish? And also if u want PM me or IM, whatever. I would like to know if a female wears toe rings and aknlets, could that be a facter in the ball game?

 

[tunces]

Thanks Headsnap🙂
Great advise from everyone🙂🙂

 

[Headsnap]

You strike me as a bit of an oddball. I'm going to stop replying to this thread now. That is all, thanks.

 

[totally_evil]

You strike me as a bit of an oddball. I'm going to stop replying to this thread now. That is all, thanks.

That was uncalled for Headsnap, apologise at once!

 

[tunces]

Hey man I am sorry if I am an oddball to u, but I am who I am.

 

[chicago]

Hey man I am sorry if I am an oddball to u, but I am who I am.

Headsnap is right.

How in the world would you get a girl into tickling/foot fetish without bringing it up verbally? Unless you're asking for some kind of associative mind trick, in which not only is that dishonest, but it's a little weird.

Seriously, foot fetishes and tickling fetishes are not that weird/out there. It shouldn't be so hard to bring up in a conversation that you have to resort to jedi-mind-trick-magic. The worst she can do is say "No," that is if she hasn't already, and if she does, you just have to accept that.

Peace out.

 

[tunces]

Ok, thanks for puttin your 2 cents worth in too mairead,LOL. Alright, I am a total dork.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

How in the world would you get a girl into tickling/foot fetish without bringing it up verbally? Unless you're asking for some kind of associative mind trick, in which not only is that dishonest, but it's a little weird.Seriously, foot fetishes and tickling fetishes are not that weird/out there. It shouldn't be so hard to bring up in a conversation that you have to resort to jedi-mind-trick-magic.

I'm all about respectful disagreements - after all, different strokes for different folks. But to say that a guy is weird because he doesn't want to come right out and say he's got a foot fetish/tickling fetish to his girlfriend is ridiculous. I dated at least a dozen guys between HS and college (before I got married) and I never told ONE of them about my tickling fetish. Why? Because at the time, I wasn't comfortable even saying the word "tickle" much less telling a guy how much I loved it. We all come into this thing on our own time. If I'm not mistaken, I think being verbal about this fetish is a VERY common problem among the 'lees on this forum. If it doens't happen to be YOUR problem, kudos for you. But that doesn't make those of us that are a bit more shy or less verbal weird.

Oh, and to answer your direct question ticklemeister - no, I don't think her wearing a toe ring and anklet necessarily means that she has a foot fetish. It might be an indicator that she likes to have HERS admired though. I own both adornments and tend to pay WAY more attention to my own feet than anybody else's. My husband jokes that I have a foot fetish for my own feet. A bit of an exaggeration, but it illustrates my point.

There are many other ways one can tell if your partner either shares your fetish or is at least willing to accomodate you. For one, the test and see method is basically how I got through my dating years. I was always instigating tickles with my boyfriends, and nearly all of them ended up guessing that I loved to be tickled in return. Imagine that, not a word was spoken either! 🙄 It's called body language, folks. Sometimes actions really do speak louder than words.


Maggie

 

[tunces]

Well, I tell ya what. Wish I could use profainty on here , cause I sure would like to use some right now about this whole thing

 

[chicago]

I'm all about respectful disagreements - after all, different strokes for different folks. But to say that a guy is weird because he doesn't want to come right out and say he's got a foot fetish/tickling fetish to his girlfriend is ridiculous.

I don't think it's weird that he doesn't want to bring up his fetish to his gf (and I didn't even know the girl he was talking about was his gf.) What I got from his original post was that he wants this girl, or girls in general, to be as into it as he is, but is looking for an easy way to go about that, and there isn't one.

Also, the only people I have met that make a big deal out of having a tickling fetish or say it's something to be ashamed of, something wrong, etc, are on this site. I've told a lot of people I know both online and in real life, who don't have the fetish, both girls and guys, and while some disagreed with it, they were understanding.

Maybe that's just where I'm from.

And curse away, ticklemeister.

 

[Headsnap]

I'm all about respectful disagreements - after all, different strokes for different folks. But to say that a guy is weird because he doesn't want to come right out and say he's got a foot fetish/tickling fetish to his girlfriend is ridiculous. I dated at least a dozen guys between HS and college (before I got married) and I never told ONE of them about my tickling fetish. Why? Because at the time, I wasn't comfortable even saying the word "tickle" much less telling a guy how much I loved it. We all come into this thing on our own time. If I'm not mistaken, I think being verbal about this fetish is a VERY common problem among the 'lees on this forum. If it doens't happen to be YOUR problem, kudos for you. But that doesn't make those of us that are a bit more shy or less verbal weird.

I can't see how a grown adult can have problems communicating their likes and dislikes to another grown adult, especially in a relationship which has gotten to the point of being physical. Fair enough if you're at the stage where you're still just seeing each other after work and building up trust or whatever then that's probably not the best time to plough into the topic of fetishism, but if it's at the point where there's enough trust and intimacy for you to want to share each other's bodies then quite how you could still be so shy as to not at least discuss being allowed to indulge your fetishes with her strikes me as.... well, odd. Like TG says, the worst she can say is "no" or possibly "euw!", but at the end of the day all that'll happen with someone who doesn't share your desires or who is that unwilling to compromise is eventually you'll wake up one day and realise that your relationship sucks. It's really all about strapping on a pair, getting comfortable with yourself and accepting you have a fetish. If you can't do that then repress it and be miserable for the rest of your life.

 

[chickles_:)]

Well, I tell ya what. Wish I could use profainty on here , cause I sure would like to use some right now about this whole thing

Hey tickle meister!!
yeah i can just bet you would! 😱

I mean honestly, you say you're new here and then in all honesty you lay yourself open with a genuine question and what do you get? people commenting on your personality.

That is hardly the way I would like to be treated coming in new, and i think i'm okay saying i'm not alone in that - right everyone??

So while it's not my place to speak for anyone else... I sure wish i could use group apology words on this forum Cuz it seems to me we owe you that.

I really hope, though it got off to a rocky start, that you found out what you wanted to know in terms of advice and that you don't give up on us. It's no excuse, but sometimes we all get carried away forgetting that the poster of a thread is a person with feelings too.

Can you forgive us??

Now if i may, i'd like to offer my twopence worth to your actual question.
-I always enjoyed it when guys gave my feet a sensual massage -its especially wondrous when my bf does it.
I don't actually have a foot fetish but if my b/f did and it meant he gave me those massages (even tickly ones) i'd be cheering his fetish with pompoms till forever!! 😀😀

Hope that all helps..

Many blessings,
chickles

 

[tunces]

Well, for starters, yes I am a grown, 35 year old man. And I agree, I should not be so stupid.LOL I have a low self eteem, and I was married for crappy years. My ex did not know about my foot fetish, due to the fact I thogut she would think I was too wierd. I apologize for even bringing the subject up.

 

[tunces]

Also, to set the rcord straight I do not have a gf at the moment, but would like to meet someone that shares the same common interests as for as foot fetish and tickling goes. "and thats the bootom line, cause Stone Cold said so"

 

[tunces]

Also, chickles, your HOTTT,LOL

 

[shadow365]

Hmmm. . .try developing ESP meister. That is the easiest way to tell if a girl is into it. Haha, ok, I'll stop.