My answer to this issue is always consistent. Simply stop referring to your interest in feet as a fetish, and stop regarding it as a fetish. It's an interest, no different than being interested in breasts or ass. You wouldn't stop in the middle of making out with her to say, "Okay, you need to know I have a breast fetish, I really get off on your breasts. I know it's freaky and weird but please tell me you're okay with it. Please please please!"
No, of course not. You would just start rubbin up on them thangs, and assuming no objections you'd start suckling them.
Well why should it be any different with her feet? It's simply another part of the female anatomy. People have got to purge this silly idea that it's weird, freaky, socially unacceptable, etc. If you think you're weird for liking such things, you're going to project that to her. If you think it's cool, she's likely not to make a big deal out of it, even if she's not into it. If she does object to giving attention to her feet, then it is she who has issues, not you. I have no foot fetish at all, but I've played with feet and sucked toes all the same, and with "vanilla" women for the most part.
Foot fetish people are not mutants or deviants. They just know what they like. But remember that she's going to have likes and dislikes. If you try and build a relationship around the feet, you're going to have problems. Find out what she likes and be open to it as well. If you give her what she needs, chances are she'll come across with the feet.
Good luck, man. Remember, it's only as big a deal as you make it. 🙂
