How do I get this guy to torture me???

[Mackenzie]

Wow! All your feedback has been so helpful - thank you everybody!!!

So, I tried the "I have a secret" thing last night. It came up on it's own without any prompting from me. I started to tell him something and then stopped and he was practically begging me to tell him but I kept refusing. Unfortunately though, he did even try to tickle me once to get it out of me. Lol.

But hey, you guys have left me quite a few more suggestions so I'll keep working on it.

You guys are so great. It's amazing to talk about this with people who understand and who have been there.

Mackenzie

 

[Vae]

As far as telling him goes, it doesn't have to be a full reveal. You don't have to sit there and have this awkward conversation, "I have a tickling fetish. Please tickle me." Here's how I went about it with my current boyfriend:

When we were just friends, we would talk about all sorts of things. Once, a conversation about ticklishness came up. It was very generalized and we both, out of curiosity, just asked each other (we are long distance at the moment). I told him that I was, and then I said how I liked it. He goes, "You like to be tickled?" "Yeah, it's not so intense for me and it feels nice." "I guess I can see that."

When we met up later, he tickled me a lot. A lot of it was just opportunistic and tickle fighting. But he noticed something; my cheeks would get really red and my body would get instantly hot. So this is how it went: "Your body gets SO hot when you're tickled." He had this sly grin and an expecting look. After a while of me trying to admit it, I finally said, "Yeah... it kinda turns me on." I was so awkward and so scared to tell him that it took me fifteen minutes to even get that out. He says, "Oh Jesus, I thought you were going to tell me something so much worse than that." What did he do next? He tickled me so long and so hard that I begged him to stop, something I never do.

It may be something to try. What do you think?

 

[Mackenzie]

It definiltely sounds like the direction I want to go. I was just mentioning to someone else that my relationship is still very new, and it's just casual, not exclusive.

I'll have to wait and see how it goes. I'm glad it worked out for you though....hopefully someday the rest of us will be so lucky.

 

[tickmankyle1]

hello

just be open and honest later

 

[He-Man]

Maybe if you hid something of his..that he didn't really need, but wanted (like maybe you turn the tv to a channel where a show that he doesnt like is playing and then hide the remote..you'd have to do it before he notices though) and then when he asks you to tell him where it is, "Make me!" (in a playful tone of course. )

I know that'd get ME to tickle a woman, wether I had a tickle fetish or not.

 

[SomethingQuick]

Tickling

Help I'm a guy pursuing a girl and theres one thing in the world I don't get... she's not at all ticklish. does anyone have any shed of light? Thanks.