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how do YOU admit you have a foot/tickle fetish

Rage

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My experience in admitting a foot-fetish and succeeding.

Given my line of work discretion is important to me. I know people out there that don't care who knows about their fetishes. But if you are like me it does matter sometimes.

Admitting you have a foot-fetish is not ALWAYS as hard as it seems. You need timing, delivery, and to know your audience(material). One thing I have noticed about girls who are typically "creeped out" by fetishy stuff is that many times they don't understand it or some dude awkwardly tried to rub her feet then made a desperate attempt to pop a toe or two in his mouth. My ex typically wasn't about ANY fetish "shit" as she put it. But when i asked her why she let me indulge in the foot fetish stuff with her she replied "Cuz you don't all crazy and obsessive about it." Every girl i have brought over to the fetishy side has admitted I changed their mind by just the way I talk about it. Casually, as if I was admitting I liked football.


In my experience I have admitted my foot-fetish to dozens of girls (many letting me indulge) while still retaining my "cool I'm not gonna rape your feet while you sleep" status. Similar to comedy you have to have timing, material and delivery.

Pulling her into a corner at a party then mumbling something about her toes look delicious tonight when the moonlight hits them just right typically doesn't work. Letting her know that you are interested in her as a person is the best way to start (for me at least). Main reason why girls don't like fetishes is because it objectifies them. Some women mind that and others don't. Make it known that there is a human attached to those feet.

Delivery: Sometimes its all about how you say it. Be it jokingly, in passing (my fav), or with confidence. This may fall under timing but for example. I went on a date recently and we ended up getting drinks. Just a couple beers. I saw that she had a pedicure. So during the conversation I complimented her on her legs noticing that she seemed very confident about them. I said "wow you are just beautiful from head to toes". Which she then raised her foot to my chair and was like "Just got a pedicure too! They look like cherries right!" and I responded with "Um yeah actually. I dated a girl once who liked when I nibbled on her toes actually." To which she replied "Really!? I'd actually let someone try that!" Here's an interesting point. This girl did not like the foot fetish stuff when I first met her years ago. In fact she said it was really "Fuckin weird. What is there to like about feet they're gross!?" There are other factors as well as to why she has changed her tune. Her confidence and self-image, the drinks, and our rapport really probably helped. Either way I ended up giving her a foot massage later that night and tickling her sexy feet as well. Playing the "how long can you hold out" tickle game.

In the end I think rapport is the most important thing. If you appear to a girl that you are a guy who just happens to have a foot fetish as opposed to a foot fetish obsessed person you may have more positive reception AND maintain your "I'm not gonna sneak into your closet and sniff your shoes" status. Repore also is important if you want to maintain discreet. Make it known that the foot-fetish thing isn't public knowledge and that you trust her. Be prepared to be teased a little but in my experience they won't typically say anything.

So what are your experiences? What works for you?
 
Never had a foot fetish before but im not one to judge someone or to stop talkin to someone if they did. Like ya said its about how ya tell someone and to make sure you dont really come off as a really strange dude lol. Not a big deal to me and i actually think my girlfriend has a foot fetish since she kinda drops hints around. You seem like you know what your doing though haha

Now maybe i'd have to think a little about how i'd tell my friends about my fetishes but right now i'll stick to just me and my girl knowing. I would probably wimp out and not say anything even if i had it planned out lol
 
When the topic of a talk turns towards sex and what people like, I just say what I like. Nothing to "admit" here. Didn't commit a crime or anything. 🙂

But then - I'm a woman. Guys don't get creeped out so easily unless it's ballbusting or something like that.
 
No ma'am I was staring at the floor... I have a floor fetish!!

I want my attorney and clergyman present before and during any revelations...😉 I try to give a good foot massage( preferably not to said attorney or clergyman). Sometimes looking(GAWKING!!!)at feet will get you busted. Talking about it is not a good ice breaker, ok for truth or dare, and makes a nice nightcap.
 
@Rhiannon agreed. I had a girl tell me she likes to be choked. Like....really choked. I was taken aback quite a bit. But the other fetishes she mentioned made me think "jackpot"

@DianaBanana88. Well certain friends I know don't care, but some of them are so friggin vanilla makes me wonder if they have sex with their underwear on. I have just found I gotta play it cool. Sometimes it works on occasion it doesn't. 🙂

@Grandizer and georgiatkler lmao. nice. Also if a girl you hang out with on a regular basis notices she might bring it up. That has happened to me but turned out to be quite a positive experience. Hopefully she doesn't bring it up in front of you and all your friends.
 
Majority of people have their kinks; and, maybe fetishes...

The best way to have a higher success rate; is: the girl is attracted too you.
 
I just straight up tell people and laugh about it, and keep talking like nothing's new. People might think its weird, but my casual attitude really downplays it. I've even been lucky enough to get a foot job from a girl who said she never let's anyone touch her feet. Because I guess its like you say, you have to come off as a person who happens to have a foot fetish, not someone completely obsessed with feet.
 
I just straight up tell people and laugh about it, and keep talking like nothing's new. People might think its weird, but my casual attitude really downplays it. I've even been lucky enough to get a foot job from a girl who said she never let's anyone touch her feet. Because I guess its like you say, you have to come off as a person who happens to have a foot fetish, not someone completely obsessed with feet.

Big ballin'; I can respect that...
 
I've found that many girls really don't mind. If a girl knows she can turn you on it turns her on. For the ones that think your weird they aren't worth the effort.

Not to mention everyone has secrets, but just straight up telling them will let you know if they are really into you or not.
 
Usually, I explain it over IM, Text, or some other form of electronic communication because as important as tickling is to me in relationships, the actual conversation is always nerve racking. I tend to have a hard time being articulate when I'm nervous. And even though I've never had the misfortune of someone being freaked out about the whole thing when I tell them, rejection sucks, but it's way easier to take when the words are all misspelled and abbreviated. 🙂
 
The strategy now is to tickle first and tell later, avoiding the use of the stigmatized word "fetish" for as long as possible. Just saying "Tickling is damn hot" casually has worked.

What did NOT work was saying "I have a tickling fetish" to a girl many years ago in the middle of making out (yes, I was that stupid). At 3 AM, she threw me out of her bed and her apartment. And I didn't even show her my amazing dance moves... sigh. She apologized years later but I learned my lesson.
 
When i told the one vanilla person, we were outside smoking and I was shoveling piles of snow into the front yard for no reason other than to not have to look at them. Due to his personality, he didn't have an issue w/it at all. Which made shit easier to explain after I came out with it.
 
Real quick, if anyone makes a big deal out of something it becomes a big deal. Don't make it a big deal.

Even better if you can show, not tell. 😉

Uh...best done in bed btw. The above tidbit that is.
 
I've always found it easy to talk about my foot fetish because i use humour to break down any awkwardness. Plus most of thep eople i tell are people whom i trust not to judge. And if they do, then screw them cause couldn't care less anyway. As for those who don't judge they are willing to have a laugh accept my desires. Some of my female friends even tease or flirt using their feet as it always gets my attention.
 
I still haven't told anybody that I was dating or in a relationship with, that I had a tickling fetish. I just don't trust people, mainly because a lot of people are judgmental and superficial.
 
"I have a tickling fetish. As in, if I stick two fingers in your pussy, you get a wettie, yeah? Tickling you gives me a woody."

Or to friends: "Yeah, she'd be great to tickle" Huh? "Tickle, you know, like ha ha?" Friend carries on with thinking about sex.
 
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