How do you know if you have a foot fetish?

[TickleGoddess06]

Okay, so let me explain why I'm asking. I've never...NEVER...NEVER been a foot person. I thought feet were ugly, ugly, horrible, smelly things and to an extinct, I still hate feet BUT... lately the last few months, I've noticed some things.

Like if I'm in class and a hot chick has on sandals or heels and she's playing with her shoes, taking them off and on that attracts me and I find myself constantly glancing at their soles and toes. They'll never know because I sit in the back of the class, but I can't help it and then all I think about doing is tickling them. I'll hear myself say in my head "Man, she has some pretty feet" then I'll feel weird about it and focus on my work.

Same goes for guys that wear sandals, once he exposes that sole, I'm completely distracted and constantly thinking that's nice and I'd love to tickle him.

Today, I was taking a final and I was sitting next to this really hot guy (don't get me wrong I love my boyfriend) So... he was wearing sandals and he kept playing with his sandals and flapping them against the ground, exposing his sole and it was just distracting the hell out of me, I was trying not to look but I got a few glances in.

I also find myself licking my boyfriends feet from time to time in an attempt to tickle him but yet, I'll start sucking his toes too, let alone I've started to let him lick my feet, kiss them and suck my toes.

It's funny because... if someone was to walk up to me right now and take their shoe off and show me their foot, I'd tell them to get their foot away from me but I think I might constantly think about it all day.

 

[Azrael]

So... do you still hate feet, or do you obsess about them constantly in a favorable way? Which is it?

Are you sure you hated feet, before, or was it simply a reaction to how most people see them... or, how most people view a sexual attraction to them?

If you're that badly unable to focus on something as vital as an exam because somebody nearby you is wearing sandals, then, you not only like feet, but you've got the libido of a 16-year-old boy. On the football team. Taking steroids.

One does not simply "find oneself," especially on a consistant basis, doing something sexual that they "hate." If you are intentionally licking your boyfriend's feet to try and tickle him, and encouraging him to do the same to yours, I'm guessing that you either like feet... or like being tickled, and don't care "where."

Given the toe-sucking and the obsessive focus on anything with two legs and sandals, I'm thinking it's the former.

Welcome aboard. The support group is on Thursdays. You've gotta walk there, and then make a big show about taking your shoes off and emphasizing how "tired and sore your feet are" when you arrive. We don't hand out t-shirts, we take your socks instead, but it's otherwise pretty normal for a support thingy.

 

[TickleGoddess06]

I don't know... I'm confused.

I keep telling myself that I hate them, even reading your response, I just keep saying I hate feet but... the attraction is so strong. I don't know, I guess I'm trying to fight it and not give in.

And... I know, I should of been more focused, which I became more focused on my exam but I was also nervous as hell and a little horny and the noise was distracting and ... anyway lol

I guess... I guess I do have a foot fetish now... a small one. Is there alcohol at this support meeting? Cuz I think I need a drink.

BTW if that's you in your sig, you're cute.

 

[ChosenofMystra]

Seems to me like you may have one, but only you can decide that for yourself.

My suggestion? Keep experimenting like you have been, try not to repress anything or think too much on the subject. If its something you enjoy, than there's your answer..if its just a sort of "spur of the moment" thing than that's perfectly fine too. Like I said, it sounds to me like you may have a foot fetish, not a raging one mind you, but its showing all the same 🙂

Hope that helped a little.

And can I get a wildberry schanpps at this meeting perchance?

 

[PiedPiper]

This makes perfect sense, y'know....

--- Your "official policy" of disliking feet adds a note of guilt or taboo to your emerging recognition of foot eroticism,... and guilt and the taboo have been known to be powerful aphrodesiacs. And I believe that fetish interests may be "acquired" -- it only seems like my own foot fetish has been with me ... forever. Ride it out. Given the near-Biblical symbology of the feet, and the spectrum of the five senses, you can go a lot of ways with this. Feet do not occupy the highest fetish incidence for no reason.

 

[toyou444]

I feel you can like feet without having a "fetish" in the sexual sense.

I love looking at nice feet, but its not a turn on per se. Tickling my wife's feet turns me on, but not tickling anyone elses. So its more the tickling than the feet, but yet feet not only don't gross me out but I'll go out of my way to look at a nice pair!

Plus I'll share this:

My sister-in-law used to tickle my feet all the time. Now she will tell you that she hates them because of her job (taking care of older people). Yet I KNOW she cannot help but look when I am barefoot, and I KNOW she tickles her husbands feet, and I KNOW that she cannot help but make a comment about someone's feet when they are bare. In fact she still tries to sneak a quick tickle in on mine a few times a year.

Does she have a foot fetish? I seriously doubt it. But saying she hates them is just a cover for her not understanding why she wants to look at them.

Conversely my wife HATED feet when we met...she will now not only tickle mine, but has on occasion sucked my toes! LOL!

Enjoy what you enjoy and don't get caught up in the whole "fetish thing" it just complicates matters!

~ toyou

 

[E-Dawg]

Well.......

You have a foot fetish if you......
1) Have the urge to touch one's feet or have someone touch your feet in any way (massage, tickle, kiss, etc)
2) Stare at another person's feet when you find him/her attractive
3) Compliment one on his/her feet
4) Become sexually aroused by doing 1, 2, or 3.

The list goes on..........

 

[Toerificdude]

Okay, so let me explain why I'm asking. I've never...NEVER...NEVER been a foot person. I thought feet were ugly, ugly, horrible, smelly things and to an extinct, I still hate feet BUT... lately the last few months, I've noticed some things.

Like if I'm in class and a hot chick has on sandals or heels and she's playing with her shoes, taking them off and on that attracts me and I find myself constantly glancing at their soles and toes. They'll never know because I sit in the back of the class, but I can't help it and then all I think about doing is tickling them. I'll hear myself say in my head "Man, she has some pretty feet" then I'll feel weird about it and focus on my work.

Same goes for guys that wear sandals, once he exposes that sole, I'm completely distracted and constantly thinking that's nice and I'd love to tickle him.

Today, I was taking a final and I was sitting next to this really hot guy (don't get me wrong I love my boyfriend) So... he was wearing sandals and he kept playing with his sandals and flapping them against the ground, exposing his sole and it was just distracting the hell out of me, I was trying not to look but I got a few glances in.

I also find myself licking my boyfriends feet from time to time in an attempt to tickle him but yet, I'll start sucking his toes too, let alone I've started to let him lick my feet, kiss them and suck my toes.

It's funny because... if someone was to walk up to me right now and take their shoe off and show me their foot, I'd tell them to get their foot away from me but I think I might constantly think about it all day.

From what I have read it simply sounds like you are trying to open up more to your inner desires which is cool. Hey, just go with the flow I say!

As for the statement above, I had those experiences almost every warm day in high school and college. Only difference was I would usually lose complete focus on my work...lol

 

[TaraToes25]

I sort of understand....

Okay, so let me explain why I'm asking. I've never...NEVER...NEVER been a foot person. I thought feet were ugly, ugly, horrible, smelly things and to an extinct, I still hate feet BUT... lately the last few months, I've noticed some things.

Like if I'm in class and a hot chick has on sandals or heels and she's playing with her shoes, taking them off and on that attracts me and I find myself constantly glancing at their soles and toes. They'll never know because I sit in the back of the class, but I can't help it and then all I think about doing is tickling them. I'll hear myself say in my head "Man, she has some pretty feet" then I'll feel weird about it and focus on my work.

Same goes for guys that wear sandals, once he exposes that sole, I'm completely distracted and constantly thinking that's nice and I'd love to tickle him.

Today, I was taking a final and I was sitting next to this really hot guy (don't get me wrong I love my boyfriend) So... he was wearing sandals and he kept playing with his sandals and flapping them against the ground, exposing his sole and it was just distracting the hell out of me, I was trying not to look but I got a few glances in.

I also find myself licking my boyfriends feet from time to time in an attempt to tickle him but yet, I'll start sucking his toes too, let alone I've started to let him lick my feet, kiss them and suck my toes.

It's funny because... if someone was to walk up to me right now and take their shoe off and show me their foot, I'd tell them to get their foot away from me but I think I might constantly think about it all day.

I totally agree with your point about looking at people's feet, men and women. And i do think about tickling, and especially being tickled, often.

I actually tickled my roommate Beth this weekend when she was sprawled on the couch on her tummy with her feet on the arms of the couch... i just walked over and began to scratch her soles, and she jumped 5 feet in the air... it was just a spontaneous reaction. She had spent the night with her BF at his place and said that she had been tickled enough for one weekend... he is more a foot fetish guy i think than a tickler, but whatever... I do hear them laughing (and then her moaning) often during the night's they are at my apartment so some tickling is obviously going on... I have seen beth tickle him, but never seen him tickle Beth...odd?

Oh, i did end up sucking Beth's toes as she lightly tickled my "tickle deprived" feet and legs... we used to tickle fight but she's 5' 10 and athletic, I'm a shrimp! I lose tickle fights, predictably.

But yes, i do love to see feet, and have since HS... by college I was seeing a guy that tickled me each time we slept together (fun foreplay)... Guys can have very, very cute feet too.... I have totally sucked BFs feet before if they were into it...

Tara

 

[Blackrook]

If you are looking for a dividing line then...

if you have to have feet to become aroused sexually, then you have a foot fetish. If you don't, then you may have an interest in feet, but it's not a fetish. And there is admittedly more to it than than that. But, in a clinical sense, that about covers it.

Rook