How do you tickle your girlfriend for the first time?

[WorkInProgress]

Rust87: Obviously you were there and I wasn't, but from the way you tell it, I doubt that timing would have made much of a difference. It sounds to me as if she just wasn't into fetish tickling the same way you are. I think you held back from going onto detail that first night because you correctly sensed that it wouldn't help matters.

 

[Rustenexcel87]

perhaps I think that night I did try but as much progress as I mand I sort of took 2 baby steps foward and 3 adult steps back next time I tend to think I'll just be more open if she can't accept it, well at least I know she is not for me. Now putting theory into practice is a whole other thing LOL.

 

[WorkInProgress]

I would also add, the real "elephant in the room" for a lot of us here, when we meet prospective dating partners out in the mainstream, is that, while most of them may enjoy some playful tickling, the average person out there will still be shocked and may be grossed out to learn that the person they just met belongs to a community where people log into a message board to talk about sensual tickling and fly cross-country to attend gatherings where people tie each other up to stocks and tickle each other to moans and howls, five or six on one for half an hour straight. "Is she ticklish" is therefore the first of several questions you have to deal with when you meet somebody.

 

[seanwoj]

Usually when I hug any of my female friends, I just try and give them a quick squeeze.