How I meet new partners

[ghosthunter0]

There's a lot of people out here looking for new tickling friends or partners, and I figured it would be a good idea to post about how some of us meet new friends and then tickle them.

I meet people through the BDSM sites Collarme and Fetlife. They are both great but I'd go with Fetlife for details about a person and his/her interests.

Best advice I can give: Always meet a person in a public place, and try to keep the conversation from being exclusively about your kinks.

Also, if there's nobody in your area into tickling, keep looking for people you might like. You never no who you'll meet... and who'll be ticklish! Lots of things can happen when someone is tied up, don't forget!:53:

How does everyone else meet and tickle?

 

[sweetpiggy221]

I don't think its hard to meet new partners at all, but the main issue I see happening when I meet new ticklephiles whether on tickling forums or on fetlife is their behavior. I think the most important thing is to actually get to know an individual and not just their fetish because there is more to people than just what they are into. I think if more ticklephiles (more towards the guys...sorry no offense) would understand that then there would be actually no problem to meet people and not scare them off. Also, just be yourself. Don't try to make up lies and/or boast yourself into something you're not.

 

[ghosthunter0]

Actually, that's one of the most common barriers I run into when I'm meeting. One of the best friends I've met through there sat on the phone reading off some of the more... colorful e-mails she'd been sent.

Creepy guys are barriers to both the women AND nice guys.

(Well, nice when being vanilla anyhow) 😉