how it started for me

[mouse_girl]

Hey everyone,
Since I've already introduced myself I thought I should tell you all a little about me and how tickling is a part of my life. Don't worry, I'll try not to be too boring. lol
It seems interesting to me that I enjoy tickling at all because as a little girl I hated it. I mean I absolutely HATED even the thought of being tickled. That was until a few years ago. I'm not sure exactly what made it all change for me, but it did.
For a while I had the usual feelings of being weird, alone, etc. Kind of like what I've read others talk about on here. Until one day I decided to look on the internet and see if just maybe there was something about tickling somewhere. I was amazed at all the sites I found! It was so great to see that I wasn't alone!
Even after that I was still shy about it and didn't want to tell anyone. I have told two people so far. My first boyfriend and my current boyfriend. Lucky for me they both seemed to like what I told them. Or should that be unlucky? hehe Although the first guy didn't tickle me as much as I would have liked but hey, take what you can get, right? I don't get many opportunities with my new boyfriend cause we currently live pretty far apart but that is going to change. The sooner the better. And seeing as he's a self-proclaimed 'tickle monster' maybe I'll be in luck. 😀
Well for those of you who got this far, thanks for reading my rantings. Bye for now!
mouse girl

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

welcome to the group...

Pretty cool to be 'out of the closet'about tickling, huh? Nothing worse than feeling like you are the only one out there...but as you can see, you're in VERY good company.
Hope everything works out for you and your boyfriend. The fact that he is a 'tickle monster' can only make things better! There certainly aren't enough tickle monsters out there....believe me, I've looked 😉

Maggie

 

[SmileyTkls]

Re: welcome to the group...

Pretty cool to be 'out of the closet'about tickling, huh? Nothing worse than feeling like you are the only one out there...but as you can see, you're in VERY good company.
Hope everything works out for you and your boyfriend. The fact that he is a 'tickle monster' can only make things better! There certainly aren't enough tickle monsters out there....believe me, I've looked 😉

Maggie

Well, I certainly can understand the feeling of being the oooonly person who feels this way...until I went through an Internet Yellow Pages at the software store I worked at moons ago. The shock of finding the tickling sites and foot sites were flabbergasting. I know I jotted down many URLs to try at home. LOL.

And as far as not being enough tickle monsters out there, I was just going to say the same things about 'tickle monster victims/instigators'! I suppose it can be sparse, whichever side of the 'ler/'lee/combo options you're on. But for the other 'tickle monsters', I can assure you, we're out here!

Smiley

 

[mouse_girl]

Yes Maggie, it is nice to be 'out of the closet' on tickling. It makes me feel much more comfortable. And this does seem like a great little community here so I'm sure I'll have lots of fun. 🙂 As for the lack of tickle monsters I tend to agree with Smiley that they are out there. I think they're just hiding. Have to make sure and check in my closet and under my bed before I go to sleep tonight. Wouldn't want to get caught off gaurd. lol
mouse girl

 

[SmileyTkls]

As for the lack of tickle monsters I tend to agree with Smiley that they are out there. I think they're just hiding. Have to make sure and check in my closet and under my bed before I go to sleep tonight. Wouldn't want to get caught off gaurd. lol
mouse girl

Scared of we 'tickle monsters'? Nahhh! LOL. Besides, isn't seeing it coming worse than being tickled ambush-style? And I only hide in real life, but even then, the monster sneaks out now and again. LOL.

Smiley,
Dr. Smiley and Mr. Tickle

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

I stand corrected

Okay, obviously having surfed the web and posted here on the TMF I know that there are thousands of 'tickle monsters' out there...what I meant to say was that non of them were coming after me LOL 😛

And I'll agree with Smiley on another point, it is WAY worse to know that you're about to get tickled. I love a good ambush...although the reaction tends to be hysterics right from the beginning since there is no time to brace yourself (I love to make the tickler work for his giggles..lol)

Maggie

 

[qjakal]

Ummm...

That's "work"?.... Noooooooo.....😉 Q

 

[mouse_girl]

I think you two are right. Knowing a tickle attack is coming can be worse than being suprised. All that suspense wondering when it will start, how long it will last, etc. *shudder* hehe And I'm with you Maggie. Making a guy have to work for the laughter makes the game much more fun. lol
mouse girl

 

[maverick83]

Yes. There are thousands of 'tickle monsters' out there. My problem is that there is a real lack of female 'tickle monsters'. Getting them to come after me? That's a whole other problem. Looking like I do, I'd have to be pretty persuasive.

 

[BigJim]

Yes Maggie, it is nice to be 'out of the closet' on tickling. It makes me feel much more comfortable. And this does seem like a great little community here so I'm sure I'll have lots of fun. 🙂 As for the lack of tickle monsters I tend to agree with Smiley that they are out there. I think they're just hiding. Have to make sure and check in my closet and under my bed before I go to sleep tonight. Wouldn't want to get caught off gaurd. lol
mouse girl

LOL Well, I've never hidden, but all the ticklish girls in this miserable country do!😡 I think english girls are just to reserved when it comes to stuff like this.🙁

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Okay....so let me get this straight.....
Us ticklees are having a hard time finding tickle monsters....and you tickle monsters are having a hard time finding someone to tickle....hmmm
Seems we could find a simple solution to this one, huh?

p.s. - Okay Maverick.....I'll bite...what did you mean by 'the way I look'? Do you have five heads or something?
I will offer you up some solace, and say that even some ticklees out there will also play the role of tickle monster. So, really you only need to find someone who loves tickling (still tough, but slightly better odds.) I know that I'm predominantly a ticklee, but I also love to play the other side of things too. I get almost as much of a rush from tickling someone as I do being tickled.

Let's all just get together and tickle the living hell out of each other! That should help things a little....

Maggie

 

[SmileyTkls]

Okay....so let me get this straight.....
Us ticklees are having a hard time finding tickle monsters....and you tickle monsters are having a hard time finding someone to tickle....hmmm
Seems we could find a simple solution to this one, huh?

Let's all just get together and tickle the living hell out of each other! That should help things a little....

Maggie

LOL! Well, that is quite the unique solution, I admit. But we do get together, at least in fairly large groups, at the meets that are wonderfully prepared by folks around here, so that's not as far off a suggestion as one might first think. And as far as the earlier comment about making a guy 'work' for the giggles, hey, I'm a workaholic when it comes to tickling a lovely lady. No worries there at all! 😀

Smiley

 

[maverick83]

You'll bite?

No. I wasn't really trying to get a response, just making idle comments, joining in the conversation. Putting myself down like that was just part of it. Other than a rather severe acne problem, my appearance isn't all that bad.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Maverick...

I didn't mean the phrase 'I'll bite' in a bad way...sorry, sometimes my sarcastic sense of humor doesn't come across the right way. I keep forgetting that not everyone knows I'm a wiseass.
You shouldn't put yourself down though...god knows there are enough superficial people out there that'll do that for you. For me, it doesn't matter what the person looks like...only if they're ticklish! A cute giggle is another major plus 😛

Maggie

 

[tcrewme]

Re: Maverick...

For me, it doesn't matter what the person looks like...only if they're ticklish! A cute giggle is another major plus 😛

Maggie

Man, that is sooo weird hearing words I normally use to come out of a women's mouth, with the same meaning and intent.😀
Just cool, that is all.
Good chatting with you for a few moments last night Maggie.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

tcrewme....

Man, that is sooo weird hearing words I normally use to come out of a women's mouth, with the same meaning and intent.😀
Just cool, that is all.
Good chatting with you for a few moments last night Maggie.

I'm sure I'm not the only girl who feels this way. There MUST be more of us out there who are in it strictly for the giggles (lol)!
We chatted? You sure you have the right girl? Do you mean on the threads, or in the chat room, because I've never been into the chat room....

Maggie

 

[maverick83]

Don't feel bad

It's okay. I wasn't offended or anything. (It's very difficult to offend me.) Just explaining, that's all. No need for apologies. As for putting myself down, I do it, but I don't mean it. I actually have a great amount of confidence and accept myself entirely. When one accomplishes this, anything derogatory, be it from themself or others, loses all impact.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Re: Don't feel bad

It's okay. I wasn't offended or anything. (It's very difficult to offend me.) Just explaining, that's all. No need for apologies. As for putting myself down, I do it, but I don't mean it. I actually have a great amount of confidence and accept myself entirely. When one accomplishes this, anything derogatory, be it from themself or others, loses all impact.

Well...aren't YOU the arrogant *#!$#*!....just kidding. Thought I'd test out your motto a bit.

Maggie

 

[maverick83]

Heh heh. I like it. Actually, though, it brings about an interesting point. You'd be surprised how many people confuse confidence and arrogance. (In my opinion, anyway.)

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Maverick...

Heh heh. I like it. Actually, though, it brings about an interesting point. You'd be surprised how many people confuse confidence and arrogance. (In my opinion, anyway.)

Nah, I know the difference....confidence is one of the biggest aphrodisiacs in the world, and arrogance will keep a guy lonely forever.
Don't worry...I made no mistake about your confidence 😉

Maggie

 

[Oddjob0226]

Dearest, sensitive Maggie,

Since there are few Tickle Monsters and NO Tickle Victims in Dallas - I would be happy to come after you! I'll be in Manhatten for work in mid November; where are you located? I may just have to stalk you while I'm in town........


(BTW - make every effort to attend a gathering, anywhere - you will not be dissapointed!)

Mike

 

[maverick83]

It's cool. I didn't think you'd made any mistake. It just reminded me of a few...um...objectionable people...that I've come across throughout life...

By the way, interesting definitions.😀

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Mike...

Very sweet to offer your tickle monster services out to little ol' me 😉 Problem is that my NY sense of paranoia (some call it stree smarts..lol) would never allow me to meet with a total stranger and get tickled to death (although, that would be the best way to go, in my opinion.)
Thanks for the offer. Maybe someday I'll go to one of these gatherings and meet up with you 🙂 Until then, keep posting!

Maggie

 

[SmileyTkls]

Re: Mike...

Very sweet to offer your tickle monster services out to little ol' me 😉 Problem is that my NY sense of paranoia (some call it stree smarts..lol) would never allow me to meet with a total stranger and get tickled to death (although, that would be the best way to go, in my opinion.)
Thanks for the offer. Maybe someday I'll go to one of these gatherings and meet up with you 🙂 Until then, keep posting!

Maggie

What?!? A woman who won't meet with a total stranger? Unheard of!! LOL. Actually, a very sensible approach, which I highly endorse, no matter who you're talking about. Even we Midwest farmboys must be a little paranoid. 😉 It's only intelligent to want to get to know the person first, even besides the fact that I think tickling is MUCH better between people who are at least friends first. And gatherings are almost 99.9% terrific fun and great places to get to know the tickle folks, IMHO. Now back to your regularly scheduled thread...

Smiley

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Smiley

I'd have to agree with you smiley. One of the ways our tickle play works best is when both parties feel totally safe and comfortable with each other. Although, the quick, first time tickles can be exciting when you first meet someone that you are attracted to...but only on the innocent/playful tickling level, not for something more geared towards the hour long 'torture' sessions.
I might someday get the courage up to attend a tickle gathering....it does sound very tempting.

Maggie