How much do you like sex

[Babyshambles]

Please will people offer their views of sex.

Do you like it (is the pope a catholic?) 🙂

Do you dislike it?

Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it?

What makes sex good or bad?

What do you think about sex, what is your ideal fantasy?

Are you getting enough sex? Too much 🙂 Too little 🙁

When did you lose your virginity?

How old is the oldest virgin on these boards?

Is there a social pressure to have sex?

Who do you have sex for - you, or your partner (or both). IF BOTH, is it a 50-50 thing or do you went to get more than you give? Or do you want to satisfy more than being satisfied?

I've been thinking about sex a lot these last few days, and want to know what the tickling community thinks about sex.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I hope some of you will post some replies.

Cheers 🙂

 

[Babyshambles]

The reason I ask this question, is because I wonder if we are programmed to think of sex differently. I am turned on by tickling but not be some more conventional things.

 

[Tinkerhead414]

Ok, I'll take a crack at it:


I like sex, and I do think that a good sex life is key to having a lasting relationship, but it isn't the only thing that you need.

Sex is great because you literally learn each other, in and out. It is supremely intimate, not only because it feels good together, but because you are causing those good feelings in the other.

Well, I like the connection with sex. Give me romantic sex over the rough stuff any day. Obviously, I do like to include tickling in my ideal for sex, however, as well as a bit of bondage, but just to spice things up.

I'm getting too little, right now, unfortunately.

I lost my virginity on my 21st birthday. Best present ever, haha.

There is absolutely social pressure to have sex, but I think the real problem is the ideal we put on each other for attractiveness, and sexual prowess. We create high expectations for ourselves and others that breeds feelings of inadequacy and disappointment, but sex is a very natural and healthy thing that all should be able to enjoy safely.

I'm a giver, especially with foreplay. I enjoy making my partner feeling good, and if I get it in return, great. Ideally, it wold be 50/50, but I have no problem giving it up, because it satisfies me, in a way.

Well, those are my two cents. Dont' spend it all in one place.

 

[Babyshambles]

damned good response tinker,

cheers,

 

[Tortuga]

Do you like it (is the pope a catholic?) Hecks yes I do.

Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it?I honestly don't think I could, because making love with your bf/gf is really passionate. What's a relationship without passion?

What makes sex good or bad? Good, if your partner listens to what you want and how you want it, even during sex communication is golden. Bad, if the partner has no clue what they are doing, isn't wet enough, or has issues getting it up.

What do you think about sex, what is your ideal fantasy? My ultimate fantasy is extremely kinky. I would like my partner to kidnap me during the middle of the night, and strap me in a straight jacket. If my partner was a girl, force me to eat her out. If my partner was a guy, kind of a rape scene. I know I'm dirty.

Are you getting enough sex? Neh, Sex is awesome, but it's nothing I have to have on a daily basis.

When did you lose your virginity?To a girl (oral), when I was 16. To a guy, when I was 20.

How old is the oldest virgin on these boards? I'm not going to say his name but I think he's about 32?

Who do you have sex for - you, or your partner (or both). IF BOTH, is it a 50-50 thing or do you went to get more than you give? Or do you want to satisfy more than being satisfied?I have sex for both, it is completley 50-50. Being a submissive, I have the urge to satisfy more than being satisfied.

 

[Babyshambles]

more damned good stuff,

cheers

hopefully a few more individuals will step up to the mark before i have to answer my own questions (yikes) 🙂

 

[unit5610]

Awesome thread.

Do you like it (is the pope a catholic?)
Yes to both.

Do you dislike it?
No.

Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it?
Ideally, no.

What makes sex good or bad?
If partner enjoys it at least as much as I do.

What do you think about sex, what is your ideal fantasy?
Ideal fantasy is being so good that my partner wants more, as soon as possible.

Are you getting enough sex?
Uhh, no.

When did you lose your virginity?
I think 1980. Before many people here were born!

How old is the oldest virgin on these boards?
I don't think I want to know.

Is there a social pressure to have sex?
Not for me.

Who do you have sex for - you, or your partner (or both). IF BOTH, is it a 50-50 thing or do you went to get more than you give? Or do you want to satisfy more than being satisfied?
Both, though 40-60 because satisfying my partner is a huge turn-on and point of satisfaction for me.

 

[Babyshambles]

bloody good answers,

everyone is so candid, i love it 🙂

 

[chicago]

Do you like it (is the pope a catholic?) It's a neat way to pass time.

Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it? No.

What makes sex good or bad? It's good when you're close to the other person and there are no inhibitions. It's bad if there is talking involved. God I hate that.

What do you think about sex, what is your ideal fantasy? Well, I really been wanting to get some decent cuffs. Neckties are so lame to use for bondage.

Are you getting enough sex? It's been about two weeks, so I plan on raping the boyfriend tomorrow night.

When did you lose your virginity? 19

How old is the oldest virgin on these boards? I'm gonna say there are more than a few 40 year old virgins on here.

Is there a social pressure to have sex? Yeah, but only among immature idiots really, who are all probably virgins anyway.

Who do you have sex for - you, or your partner (or both)? IF BOTH, is it a 50-50 thing or do you went to get more than you give? Or do you want to satisfy more than being satisfied? We tend to have sex when I want to. If he doesn't feel like it, I make him feel like it. ha.

 

[Babyshambles]

i knew there was a reason i love annie hall from afar... 🙂

(okay, now i'm going to revert back to being objective and scientific about this discussion of sex on a fetish forum)

 

[MrMacphisto]

I like sex... verr much.

Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it? Since friendship and family are loving relationships, yes.

But, on a non-snarky note, I don't think a romantic relationship would be much without sex.

What makes sex good or bad? Good -- total comfort and strong mutual attraction. Bad -- anxiety and and bad "rhythm"

What do you think about sex, what is your ideal fantasy? There is no single ideal for me... it's about the moment and what I'm in the mood for....

Are you getting enough sex? Enough... which is probably way too little for most people.

When did you lose your virginity? Back in the 90s. 1999, I believe.

How old is the oldest virgin on these boards? Uh... I don't know... maybe like 40s or 50s.

Is there a social pressure to have sex? There's probably more pressure to lose your virginity than to have regular sex.

Who do you have sex for - you, or your partner (or both). IF BOTH, is it a 50-50 thing or do you went to get more than you give? Or do you want to satisfy more than being satisfied? A woman's reactions often turn me on more than actual physical stimulation, so I suppose you could say I'm more of a giver than a receiver.

 

[Babyshambles]

great answers,

cheers

 

[c7_assassin]

Okay, I'll give it a shot...

Do I like it? Yes I do.

Do I dislike it? Only when it's bad.

Can I be in a loving relationship without it? Only did that once, and it was just because I was waiting until she was ready. Then we screwed like filthy animals.

What makes sex good or bad? Being exhausted and dizzy by the end.

What do I think about sex, what is my ideal fantasy? It's messed up, but it never ceases to arouse: I imagine nailing a girl right in front of everyone she knows, her parents, her ex-boyfriends, everyone. Damn, I feel dirty admitting to that, but it's true...

Am I getting enough sex? Not lately.

When did I lose my virginity? 20 (we all lost it a little late so far, didn't we?)

How old is the oldest virgin on these boards? Probably 40, poor bastard.

Is there social pressure to have sex? Maybe in high school...

Who do I have sex for? Ha, never thought of that before. That's a very female question. I guess I have it for myself, but if the girl enjoys it as much as I do, then so much the better. And she's very often the one who initiates things, so maybe I'm really having it for her and I just think it's for me. Damn feminine mind-control!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Virgin Alert!

Do you like it? I imagine I will.


Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it? Indifferent - no. Loving relationship - yes, but not forever.

Are you getting enough sex? Not. Even. Close.


When did you lose your virginity? I haven't


How old is the oldest virgin on these boards? No idea - I'm 23

Is there a social pressure to have sex? Hmm...at my age, it's more a personal pressure. It feels really awkward to be lugging around that V-card, and I have alot of insecurity about it. As far as social pressure...I guess I feel it more often than not. When people find out I'm a virgin, the reaction is always the same. Big eyes, a moment of disbelief, questions about why, then either an awkward "good for you" or "you poor thing"

 

[Babyshambles]

women huh 🙂

good answers

so far, everyone likes sex - yay!

our species is safe, for now 🙂

one more questions -

what is your primary purpose for having sex?

does having a child ever crop up at all?

 

[c7_assassin]

Skipadeedoodah, you poor thing.

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

Virgin Alert!

Do you like it? I imagine I will.


Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it? Indifferent - no. Loving relationship - yes, but not forever.

Are you getting enough sex? Not. Even. Close.


When did you lose your virginity? I haven't


How old is the oldest virgin on these boards? No idea - I'm 23

Is there a social pressure to have sex? Hmm...at my age, it's more a personal pressure. It feels really awkward to be lugging around that V-card, and I have alot of insecurity about it. As far as social pressure...I guess I feel it more often than not. When people find out I'm a virgin, the reaction is always the same. Big eyes, a moment of disbelief, questions about why, then either an awkward "good for you" or "you poor thing"

This.
But change 23 to 19.

 

[Babyshambles]

Ok skip, time to fess up.

I am a virgin too. yikes. and im 25.

but this is the thing, i dont seem to want sex.

I love women, i love being in relationships. i just dont seem to fussed about sex.

One girl i dated came round to my house, stripped off and climbed into bed demanding sex and criticising the bloody impertinence of me making her wait for sex.


I kissed, and cuddled and talked and even tickled, but i wasnt so concerned about sex.

This is the lesson i am learning - i'd better start to like sex soon, or else i am screwed.

Is there a psychological reason why i am indifferent to sex.

Do i need more vitamins perhaps 🙂

suggestions on the back of a post card please 🙂

Virgin Alert!

Do you like it? I imagine I will.


Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it? Indifferent - no. Loving relationship - yes, but not forever.

Are you getting enough sex? Not. Even. Close.


When did you lose your virginity? I haven't


How old is the oldest virgin on these boards? No idea - I'm 23

Is there a social pressure to have sex? Hmm...at my age, it's more a personal pressure. It feels really awkward to be lugging around that V-card, and I have alot of insecurity about it. As far as social pressure...I guess I feel it more often than not. When people find out I'm a virgin, the reaction is always the same. Big eyes, a moment of disbelief, questions about why, then either an awkward "good for you" or "you poor thing"

 

[Babyshambles]

Skipadeedoodah, you poor thing.

shes not poor.

she's bloody fantastic 🙂

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Do you like it? I do.


Do you dislike it? I have.


Are you indifferent to sex - can you be in a loving relationship without it?: No.


What makes sex good or bad? The partner.


Are you getting enough sex?: No.


When did you lose your virginity?: 17 sort of.


How old is the oldest virgin on these boards?: 53.


Is there a social pressure to have sex?: Yes.


Who do you have sex for - you, or your partner (or both): Both. Always leaned towards the latter.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Ok skip, time to fess up.

I am a virgin too. yikes. and im 25.

but this is the thing, i dont seem to want sex.

I love women, i love being in relationships. i just dont seem to fussed about sex.

One girl i dated came round to my house, stripped off and climbed into bed demanding sex and criticising the bloody impertinence of me making her wait for sex.


I kissed, and cuddled and talked and even tickled, but i wasnt so concerned about sex.

This is the lesson i am learning - i'd better start to like sex soon, or else i am screwed.

Is there a psychological reason why i am indifferent to sex.

Do i need more vitamins perhaps 🙂

suggestions on the back of a post card please 🙂

I have no idea why you're not interested in sex, hon. I haven't had sex because I just got out of a 6 year relationship in which the guy didn't want to have sex before marriage for religious reasons. (Please, no nasty comments - he doesn't judge you for having sex, don't judge him for not having sex, kthx).

shes not poor.

she's bloody fantastic 🙂

Why thank you 🙂

 

[Babyshambles]

cheers for the answers 🙂

can some of the 30+ year old virgins come out of the closet and tell me why they are still virgins.

if they wanted sex so badly, they could get it. so why dont they want it???

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Meh. The way this world is, I think it's incredibly admirable of you to be a virgin, Lyz.

 

[Babyshambles]

I have no idea why you're not interested in sex, hon. I haven't had sex because I just got out of a 6 year relationship in which the guy didn't want to have sex before marriage for religious reasons. (Please, no nasty comments - he doesn't judge you for having sex, don't judge him for not having sex, kthx).



Why thank you 🙂

your welcome.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Meh. The way this world is, I think it's incredibly admirable of you to be a virgin, Lyz.

Thank you, babygirl