How should I tell my boyfriend?

[pineapple]

Hi everyone 🙂
Just wondering how and if I should tell my bf that im into tickling. Any suggestions? He knows that there is something I like that I haven't told him yet, but he has got nooo idea what it is. Does boys usually think its cute, ok, fine.. or do they think it's weird? ahhh. I cant decided weather to tell him or not.

🙂

 

[GQguy]

Ask him what his biggest fantasy is. One that he hasn't told anyone. Listen to what he says. If he's a cool guy he should then ask you what your biggest fantasy is. Then of course you tell him. I'm certain it won't be a big deal and if he likes you will make a strong effort to please you.

Good luck!

GQ

 

[pineapple]

Well, the thing is. That is exactly what I was asking him earlier, and he told me. Aaaand he asked me, but I got so scared and didn't dare to tell him, haha.
He just answered "normal" things that guys like.. he wants to see me dressed up as a sexy police and use handcuffs and stuff like that.. so I think he will be surprised if I tell him. ahhh..

 

[GQguy]

Haha! Well start slow. I always mix in a little tickling when i'm hooking up with a new girl. Just a little. I'll see how she reacts to it. Some are cool with it, some are not. For those that are not I drop it. For those that take it well, I up the tickling gradually. I always ensure that my ticklee is having fun though. And ALWAYS ensure that as a result of her tickling she recieves a great climax.

I suggest you start small too. Ask him for a little tickling and when he does a good job, reward him. Or hell......tell him you'll dress up as a cop with the handcuffs if he'll tickle you while in the cuffs! Sounds like a win win for me.

Communication is huge babe. Start talking and you'll get the most out of your relationship ;o)

GQguy

 

[pineapple]

Well that was a good idea. 😀

It's just finding a way of telling him. If i tell him i get turned on by it, just a little bit but it's not a big deal, do you think he will get it?

 

[GQguy]

I don't know. Can he take a hint? If he's the type to turn down chewing gum after you insist that he take one...then no. If he's the type to take the gum and and say "thanks for saving me" then yes!

*for those that don't know, being offered gum is the universal sign that your breath stinks*

I think he would. He won't know though if you don't ask!

GQ

 

[pineapple]

Well I guess I just have to try and find out.. 😛

 

[GQguy]

Report back what happens. I'm sure there are a ton of people wondering the same thing. A successful outcome will hopefully embolden others to follow your lead!!

GQguy

 

[maniactickler]

Of course you have to tell him. this way if hes not into it, you can move on and find someone that is.

 

[gitcheycoocoo]

Excuse me if I have missed something here, but I am wondering if you being into tickling means you would like him to tickle you, or you tickle him or both. If he is not into it as in receiving he should have no problem letting you have it, especially is he knows you like it and it makes you happy.

Start off with making a game out of it like putting your feet in his lap and tell him you want to see how long you can keep them there while he tickles them and keep making it a challenge to see how long you can do it. Same can apply to other spots too. You can then let him know you enjoy it, think it is fun, get turned on by it or whatever. He should be able to pick up on it from there. Good luck.

 

[Katie Pants]

I doubt he'll think it's weird. The truth is that guys enjoy any excuse to touch and experience our bodies. If he's into you, how can he possibly object?

 

[-Hari-]

however you do it has to feel personal to you, my way was to manipulate a situation so that I was already tied up, I tickled the girl doing it at every opportunity whilst she was trying me up and then once tied... well, its obvious what her first action was, and she understood I liked it when I rose to the occasion and didn't ask her to stop 😛

 

[Wildtime]

Wear a T-Shirt that says "Tickle Me".

 

[jamie01]

I was scared to tell my boy friend at first too... Everytime we would play around I would say oooh that tickles! Eventually I told him out much I love it and now I even got him into it 🙂

 

[pineapple]

Excuse me if I have missed something here, but I am wondering if you being into tickling means you would like him to tickle you, or you tickle him or both. If he is not into it as in receiving he should have no problem letting you have it, especially is he knows you like it and it makes you happy.

Well I want him to tickle me, hehe. Im even more nervous today. But I just haave to tell him, I guess I won't regret after I've told him.

 

[maniactickler]

You dont have to say its a fetish. just tell him you really enjoy being tickled, its fun.

 

[pineapple]

Well thats a good idea. But im starting to think it's a bad idea to tell him after all. I should have just told him last night when i was sure i wanted to tell him. 😛

 

[Lord Doctor]

Most guys like to tickle women, fetish or not. At least I think most of us do 😀

 

[maniactickler]

Well thats a good idea. But im starting to think it's a bad idea to tell him after all. I should have just told him last night when i was sure i wanted to tell him. 😛

Tell him or youll never be truly happy! a fetish is not a thing to take lightly in a relationship. if you want, ill tell him?