How to find a SF area Mistress?

[littleandee]

This isnt a "wanted Ad" as it is more of a list of questions from a complete newbie.
Im traveling to CA next week and I want to fulfill a f/f fantasy of meeting a mistress and being tickled, or possibly switch.
I've never done this before. This is completely new territory for me.
What suggestions can you give when searching for a Mistress?
Are there any to avoid?
I'll be in the San Francisco area, so I'm hoping there HAS to be at least a handful of recommendations....right?
Quite frankly, I'll take any advice on this i can get.
Thank you!
AnDee

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

No expert here, but I have had some fun over the years visiting pro-doms in order to live out my bondage/tickling fantasies. For grins, I visited the SF area Backpages ads under the "Domination & Fetish" listings. Personally, of the ones I see there, I'd probably try the gal with the ad titled after the Nine Inch Nails tune ("Bow Down Before the One You Serve, You're Going to Get What You Deserve"). She's practically the only one who specifically mentions tickling in her ad. She has a well-equipped play-space, and I just get a better vibe from her ad than most of the others there. Unfortunately, since Frisco is a major cosmopolitan area, you will likely pay top dollar to play. Doesn't appear too likely that you'll get the chance to switch with her, although visiting her actual website gives the impression that she does have fun-loving friends. Perhaps one of them can be coaxed into some tied tickling. That will almost certainly cost you even more money, though.

Anyway, if it's something you've always wanted to try, she's the one I'd probably talk to. Just be honest, respectful and sincere, and make clear how much you think you can or can't handle. Some dominas seem to just have to throw in some pain into the mix. Most will work with you though. I'm a total wimp for pain, and try to make that clear from the git go.

Good luck to you, and I hope you have a blast!

 

[ChicagoDavid]

go to thegatessm.com

Check out the bios. SuLynn looks awesome! She lists tickling in her bio, and has a much shorter “submissive” bio; while it does not list tickling there, it does not list much so I’d ask her. That was the only bio I looked at, so check out the other ones!

 

[ChicagoDavid]

I should add that back page ads can be legit, or frauds. As a newbie, you could get taken, unless the back page ad leads you to a website, in which case it likely is not a fraud. Eros ads rarely are frauds, because they charge $, plus if you report a fraudulent ad to eros they do something, whereas back page does not.

 

[tcklft]

Give fantasymakers.com a look. It's a nice, quiet, well-equipped playspace about 30 minutes outside SF.

 

[He-Man]

Give fantasymakers.com a look. It's a nice, quiet, well-equipped playspace about 30 minutes outside SF.

I agree. The ladies there are nice, and at least a few of them are switches(the ones I've sessioned with so far are dommes, but they're really fun ticklers). And if there's a particular room you want to play in, make sure you mention that in the e-mail to the mistress, so she can reserve it.

Vinyl Queen is also great, and she's in SF. She doesn't switch, however.