How to get someone to tickle you without making it obvious?

[Ticklish9's]

Well, I'm not really a fan of being "sneaky" and tricking people into gratifying my fetish... so all I really have to offer is that most of the suggestions mentioned here would only work on a tickling fetishist.

Seriously, stuff that we "obviously" see as a "secret invitation", like stretching, most vanillas would simply think "she's stretching". They're not wired like us, and they don't immediately associate tickling with every gesture that "flashes a tickle spot". Hell, most people don't even notice tickle spots... as you saw when you tried to play keep-away and got thumped.

That said, best way to get someone to tickle you is to tickle them first. Hands-down.

This, exactly. Tickle people and they almost always automatically tickle back. 🙂

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

A couple of suggestions:

1) When someone shakes your hand, just collapse on the floor shreiking "stop it, stop it, it tickles".

2) If someone asks you the time, just say: "you will have to strip me naked, tie me up, and tickle me with a feather duster on every part of my body, before I will tell you".

Let me know how you get on.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Oh my now that last suggestion about saying strip me down tie me up and tickle my whole body with a feather duster might be pushing it -really pushing things if that person ends up being "vanilla" not into the tickle scene lol.
But a very comical clever playful idea of a ornery tickle retort real quick on the tongue for sure lol. Wow!!! Never heard that one that is for sure. Hmmm how to get someone to tickle you without making it obvious-that is a good question. Hmmm sure there are many ways.

Like what a lot of people have said makes a lot of sense. First might be good and helpful playfully verbally test the waters and see what their reaction is when the word "tickle" is mentioned-also their reaction what it is-when playfully and subtly sneaking a tickle here or there-if it is positive and good -proceed but it if not good and bad-then don't proceed. I think usually best way -a good way definitely show you can laugh and you know how to have fun and know how to have a great time. Let them see you smile, let them see you laugh and joke with the person-show them you know how to be lighthearted and carefree and playful as well.

Definitely might help later if response is positive and good and you proceed-might be helpful and lots of fun-to iniatiate some fun playful tickle wrestling for sure. There there be a few times that you allow the other to playfully tickle dominate you-no I don't mean let the other win-but let there be times-when you playfully become submissive and let that person tickle you -not you always being the one that does the tickling-let them at times be the one that takes charge-that could help greatly.

But to be honest these are great suggestions and great ideas on how to hint you want to be tickled-however just like anything-there can be misunderstandings so it is best to just go slow and casually mention this to the person-that you like tickling and like to be tickled and see what and how the person reacts and go from there. But a great thread loved reading it.

😉😀
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[maniactickler]

Do I look like a mechanic? Nope, just grew up around cars. 🙂

Any interest in muscle cars or racing?

 

[Em Es]

Plenty of ticklish bones in their bodies, but no tickling fingers on their hands

I have tickled many women. Some retaliated but others never did, even those I tickled a lot.

 

[CuteJill143]

i hear this question too many times and I've asked it on this forum plenty of times myself every time I met a new guy and I'd over analyze the situation. Its easier to go with the flow I've learned from experience BUT Its hard because every guy is different. As a matter of fact every PERSON is different. Its hard because you always feel you are going to be "outed". Starting silly arguments that lead to poking and tickling is definitely a great start. For the ladies, rip on your guys favorite sports team to begin a silly argument but be careful, don't rip on it too much. I liked the NY yankee's and one of my old love interests loved the NY met's. A little teasing gets the fuse lit. Another thing I like to do is if I am sitting on the sofa with a guy i try to sit all cross-legged in my socks trying to get all comfy and I "accidentally" kick him to get him to notice my foot or wiggle my toes. Or if hes gently stroking your tummy or rubbing your neck, even if it tickles or not, pretend it does. It also gives you the chance to exploit that you are ticklish because some guys are shy to ask. Some guys just knowing that you are ticklish makes them want to tickle you more. Or if he/she just won't come around wait for them to yawn and stretch and do a quick "vanilla tickle" and see if they fight back. For the most part if you are with someone affectionate who likes you, chances are they might want to tickle you because its social play and flirty. I even found a website that teaches men how to flirt and get closer to a girl and this is what it said, no joke. Yes I google way too much about tickling.

For my young men just trying to initiate tickling with someone or if you are new to this:

http://www.wikihow.com/Physically-Flirt-with-a-Girl

Tickling is a great way to flirt. Tickle her under her ribs or her sides or belly. If she likes you, she'll grab your hands and push you back, probably smiling or laughing. If she doesn't, she probably won't grab your hands- she'll either just pull away, or slap them away.

http://www.becomeaplayer.com/flirtingtips.htm

Tickle tickle tickle
Once you think she feels comfortable around you, and if it would be appropriate given the current situation, ask her if she is ticklish. If she answers yes or maybe, proceed with the tickling. If she answers no, say "I think your lying" and proceed with the tickling. From my observations, I would say that eight out of ten girls are ticklish. Plus, if she really likes you and is truly not ticklish, she will fake it anyway. Tickling is a very good trick to use because it involves touching, and you should touch her whenever possible. I can't really explain it, but for some reason women respond very well to the touch, as long as it's delivered in a respectful manner (no ass or boob grabbing people).

 

[Ticklish9's]

This is totally unrelated, but I am thoroughly amused that there exists a site called "becomeaplayer.com" :lol:

Oh humans :lol:

 

[CuteJill143]

A couple of suggestions:

1) When someone shakes your hand, just collapse on the floor shreiking "stop it, stop it, it tickles".

2) If someone asks you the time, just say: "you will have to strip me naked, tie me up, and tickle me with a feather duster on every part of my body, before I will tell you".

Let me know how you get on.

LMFAO!!!!! I love it. I am going to try that one day with the handshake because It would be a funny sight to see someone actually collapse to the floor shrieking over a handshake LMAO!!!!!!! I picture the person who shook my hand to be scared to death to ever tickle me or even touch me again. If I tried the second tip I would do it with a random stranger who I may never talk to or see again. That's going a little too far. A handshake is not tickly. lol would be great if it could be but I never heard of a ticklish hand shake.

 

[CuteJill143]

This is totally unrelated, but I am thoroughly amused that there exists a site called "becomeaplayer.com" :lol:

Oh humans :lol:

Oh humans....Oh society!!! and Oh norms!!!!. I agree with you, ticklish9's... I also think that website should teach more tickling to the non fetishists out there if you ask me. That way lees like me and Allison would all be fine. lol jk.

Don't fret Allison. Remember, they don't have to know that you have a fetish right away. Its perfectly OK to show that you enjoy being tickled without mentioning a fetish and without you having to feel awkward. I used to analyze every little situation myself. I am better off just going with the flow. Good luck.

 

[Ticklish9's]

When you get right down to it, tickling is a lot of fun, even for people who don't like it as much as we do. If you get "outed" and people ask if you like tickling, you can always say "well of course I do! It's a lot of fun!" I mean who's gonna argue with that? It's true!


I think we are all generally way too shy and worried about tickling "inappropriately." I mean yes, don't tickle your boss in the middle of an important meeting or so on, but it's really very harmless and genuinely fun, with or without a fetish. Any friend of yours who is even mildly relaxed about life is probably not going to care if you say something like "tickling is fun!" and launch an attack.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Really though if you think about it : you would think it would be more common and more likely others and especially couples would love tickling-I mean yeah it is tickling-but go a step farther-still is a very tactile physical touch-if lightly done right and slow and gentle-it can feel like a caress or massage or both at the same time. Who says that light caresses and massages can't tickle and feel enjoyable yet still tickle at the time. To me it is like best of both worlds, tickle heaven-being touched, caressed, and tickled at the same time whether massage is added or not-whether that be fingertips, soft fluffy feathers, stiff feathers or electric toothbrushes, or for couples-other intimate methods of tickling-lips, tongue, and just the warm tickling breath of one's partner on various parts of the body along with intimate tickling caresses... just a observation.

I guess the best way just let that person know you enjoy spending time with him or her-you enjoy and like touching him or her, holding his or her hand-guess a good way to break the ice and flirt and make it obvious also you enjoy and love to be tickled, initiate playful light touch, like lightly touch his or her hand, initiate some physical contact let him or her know that touch is not out of the question-offer a nice shoulder and back massage then when you massage lightly allow your fingertips to glide and slowly trail up and down the back throw in maybe some light tickles and gauge the reaction but stay away from 15 spots only tickle on the back see how it goes then proceed but just share with the person-how you would like to tickle them and ask if they would like to tickle you-or playfully introduce topic of tickling-light tickle talk just depends, possibilities on how you could do it are endless.