How to make someone tickle you?

[lkjhgfdsa]

I wander what is the best way to make some one tickle you? If the other person is not ticklish at all, what can you do? I have tried strech in infront of the person, put my feet on his lap...

 

[gibby59]

If you put your feet in my lap they would definitely get tickled 😉 You may just have to ask him to tickle you.

 

[gibby59]

Try dropping a little hints like "I think I might lose control if someone tickled me..."

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

I have tried to ask him too, it does not work, he tickles me though for about 1 second almost every day, but I would like to have a good looong laugh ones in a while.

 

[gibby59]

It's tough to get someone to do something they don't want to do. Have you tried asking him not to stop or cutely saying "Oh please a little more..."

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

It's tough to get someone to do something they don't want to do. Have you tried asking him not to stop or cutely saying "Oh please a little more..."

I have given him hints about that I like it saying that I think it is fun to be tickled, I did not ask straight out though, I find that odd to do in my culture, but I can try to try... I know he thinks it is fun to tickle, I think he does not tickle me for long as he ones held me and tickled me and I paniced, because I am extremely ticklish. This though makes it easy for him to tickle me unintentionally, which I do not mind in most situations.

 

[gibby59]

It sounds like you're making a little progress, just not as fast as you would like. Hang in there he may come around pretty soon.

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

More questions...

If you meet some one and you have never spoken to him or her about tickling before, what is the best way to introduce such an activity? The reason I ask so much is that I am new here and I wish to learn more to have more fun.

 

[gibby59]

Keep asking questions, that's how we all learn. I would just introduce the subject with a little play tickling and see where it goes. Where are you from? You mentioned that it is odd in your culture.

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

Where are you from? You mentioned that it is odd in your culture.

I am Swedish. We have a very stiff culture I think. What does PA stand for?

 

[gibby59]

I am Swedish. We have a very stiff culture I think. What does PA stand for?

I thought Sweden was pretty open about things like this. PA is short for Pennsylvania. Ever been to the USA?

 

[Camel26]

PA stands for Pennsylvania--there are lots of us on this site from good old PA...welcome home hon...in reference to your last question concerning tickling and introducing the topic, I suggest tickling your partner playfully first...then seeing if they retaliate. That's what I did with my current partner, and boy did I get attacked in retaliation!!! Or ask your partner to give you a back massage and squirm a bit when certain spots are rubbed...I'm sure he'll ask why you're squirming, and when you tell him why, as most guys love making their woman squirm, he'll continue to do it...happy tickling!!

 

[gibby59]

I suggest tickling your partner playfully first...then seeing if they retaliate. That's what I did with my current partner, and boy did I get attacked in retaliation!!! Or ask your partner to give you a back massage and squirm a bit when certain spots are rubbed...I'm sure he'll ask why you're squirming, and when you tell him why, as most guys love making their woman squirm, he'll continue to do it...happy tickling!!

Those are good suggestions Camel.

 

[gibby59]

I suggest tickling your partner playfully first...then seeing if they retaliate. That's what I did with my current partner, and boy did I get attacked in retaliation!!! Or ask your partner to give you a back massage and squirm a bit when certain spots are rubbed...I'm sure he'll ask why you're squirming, and when you tell him why, as most guys love making their woman squirm, he'll continue to do it...happy tickling!!

Those are good suggestions Camel.

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

I thought Sweden was pretty open about things like this. PA is short for Pennsylvania. Ever been to the USA?

When it comes to our culture... maybe I am too shy about these things. I have always loved to be tickled but I have felt shame over tha whole subject and I do not know why.

No, I have never been to the USA. My husband and I have good friends in Florida though.

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

PA stands for Pennsylvania--there are lots of us on this site from good old PA...welcome home hon...in reference to your last question concerning tickling and introducing the topic, I suggest tickling your partner playfully first...then seeing if they retaliate. That's what I did with my current partner, and boy did I get attacked in retaliation!!! Or ask your partner to give you a back massage and squirm a bit when certain spots are rubbed...I'm sure he'll ask why you're squirming, and when you tell him why, as most guys love making their woman squirm, he'll continue to do it...happy tickling!!

I have tried that, it works a little. When I think about it I think I will try again and hope for the best.

Thank you both for many good suggestions! More are welcome too.

 

[gibby59]

When it comes to our culture... maybe I am too shy about these things. I have always loved to be tickled but I have felt shame over tha whole subject and I do not know why.

No, I have never been to the USA. My husband and I have good friends in Florida though.

As long as you're doing this with your husband, you shouldn't feel ashamed. It's all in fun, right?

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

As long as you're doing this with your husband, you shouldn't feel ashamed. It's all in fun, right?

Yes, you are right. I will try to be more active in this area and hope for much fun!

I just think it is shamefull (is that the right word?) to bring up the subject with anyone.

 

[gibby59]

Yes, you are right. I will try to be more active in this area and hope for much fun!

I just think it is shamefull (is that the right word?) to bring up the subject with anyone.

Why do you think that. You should be able to talk to your husband about anything.

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

Why do you think that. You should be able to talk to your husband about anything.

Yes I can speak to my husband about everything, but in general with close friends I find it hard.

 

[Camel26]

Oh hon, your friends don't need to be involved in the intimate activities that occur in your bedroom...those moments are reserved for you and your husband only...that is one of the many things that makes the union of marriage so special...

Enjoy him, and happy tickling!

 

[lkjhgfdsa]

Oh hon, your friends don't need to be involved in the intimate activities that occur in your bedroom...those moments are reserved for you and your husband only...that is one of the many things that makes the union of marriage so special...

Enjoy him, and happy tickling!

Of course! That is for us and it is a different thing, but I like playfull tickling with female friends just for fun, nothing else! Just to have a good laugh.

 

[Numsan1]

Hi lkjhgfdsa! my name is Anders i´m from Sweden, send me an email iff you like to talk aboute tickling.

Ha det bra ;-)
Anders

 

[alchemy1]

If he tickled you before and you panicked, you probably scared the poor guy.
Now he's associating tickling with panicking. I agree with the others. The best thing to do is talk with him about the subject. More communication in a relationship is always a good thing.
BTW...YNGWIE MALMSTEEN is GOD! 😀

 

[hellenp]

I agree with the others,the best way is talking.