HUGE slip-up ---> gf found clips this weekend!

[tkltoes]

I made a HUGE mistake on Friday, and it lead to my gf finding some of my clips and pics. I always keep a password on my computer when I am gone, and on Friday I locked my computer as usual before I went to work. During the day my GF called and was having a horrible day, so I decided to send her a boquet of flowers to cheer her up. She was so happy, that she came all the way up (we live about 45 min apart) and surprised me at work. I still had an hour left at work so she went to my apartment to wait for me. When she got there she was greeted by my password screen, and she called me to get it from me. I gave it to her, completely unaware that I left my LimeWire program open, and I was downloading tickling clips on it! When I came in, she was in the bathroom, and I saw that she was downloading music with limewire, and the "tickling" search tab was still open, so she saw it all without a doubt. She had this little grin on her face when I first saw her, and I knew then that the gig was up! Oh well, I survived close calls for our entire relationship, so it was only a matter of time before I slipped up.

It feels like a huge boulder off my shoulders though now!

 

[tkrexx]

F*ckin' OOPS!!! Hey dude, like you never tickled her before? Like you'd never eventually tell her?
Actually I have great sympathy. I know how embarrassed I'd be. But, with those women I haven't been honest with, I've been lucky with. I hope she's not scared off by this. Or worse, hope she doesn't hold it over your head, threatening to expose you to friends, co-workers, customers, potential future-girlfriends, etc if you two call it quits...And we BOTH know what'd happen if word got out in IOWA!!!

I better shut up before I give you nightmares.

Remorseful Rxx

 

[tkltoes]

You hit the nail right on the head. I am only worried about what happens if we break up. In case youre not familiar with iowa, people LOVE to dip into your business. One person knows, the whole state basically knows

 

[tkltoes]

When she found out, she probably wasn't too surprised, but she didn't know that I downloaded clips of tickling. It's always that nagging insecurity about what happens in case of a breakup that holds me back from sharing completely. Some people are downright heartless during breakups

 

[BigNorm]

they have the internet in iowa?

i heard if you stood on a ladder, you can see all the way across the state.

enough of the corny jokes.

i remember when my ex found out, she loved it, even tickled me silly when she found out and i never told her earlier. sigh. she had the softest soles and the best giggle.

 

[MistressValerie1]

Goatman, my advice is not to let anyone else find out so that even if she does someday go public, there won't be anyone who can back up her story.

 

[Goodieluver]

You should try ticklin her and see how the reaction is now

 

[gilmourwaters]

so what's the problem?? This is a GREAT thing!She shouldv'e been part of your tickle fun all along! And the fact that when she found out she looked at you and smiled...sounds like your in!

 

[BigNorm]

lol, don't break up with her. she has you by the balls, with this sweet bit of info.

 

[Cbarton]

they have the internet in iowa?

Yes, they have for quite a while now....Not only does it play in Peoria (IL), but they do it in Des Moines!

i heard if you stood on a ladder, you can see all the way across the state.

Ooops...sorry, Big Norm...that would be Nebraska and Kansas....

KY Hawkeye: University of Iowa Class of '86...😉

 

[sole seeker1]

I can relate. I live in rural Missouri. If you move into this area these people know if you prefer boxers or briefs before they get to know your name.

Ten years ago I had a girlfriend who stayed with me. When I was out of town on business she forced the lock on a briefcase in which I'd hidden my collection of tickling magazines. She wasn't ticklish, so this wasn't something she had a clue about. The violation of trust was the kiss of death to that relationship.

At least in your situation she wasn't sneaky. She found out by accident. Good luck, I agree with the guy who said she has you by the balls.

 

[storm7400]

All I can say is that if you're pretending to be someone your not for a girl then the relationship is doomed. I speak from experience. I still love my ex more than life itself and want more than anything to be back with her, but I was not myself when I was with her. No one liked the person I became when I was with her and it took her breaking up with me to realize that I had indeed changed. So I repeat if you're not yourself with this person then its going to fail anyway. And yes my ex knew about my foot fetish and was intrigued by it and let me indulge in it, so once again I reiterate I speak from experience. So in closing good luck and if not then like everyone keeps telling me: "You'll find the one right for you yet.". And yet I'm still waiting.................

 

[brnbch]

Come on...! A tickling fetish isn't that bad or embarrassing. I'm mean it's not like she found a picture of you and farm animal or came across your xtra large rubber diaper and baby bonnet.
I think some of us think this fetish is weirder than it really is. I mean you find it in every walk of life and in every culture in the world and I believe most people treat tickling as fun and playful ... We also think that way but we happen to think it's also sexy and arousing and like to take it a bit further.
In my opinion it would be easier to explain a tickling fetish since it's a common part of courtship and bonding among couples,.... than a foot fetish, which usually isn't a part of the body normally thought of as sexy. I've revealed to people how I feel about a tanned, slender, high arched well manicured female foot and they look at me like I just told them I get aroused by nose hair. Then again I've run across lots of people (male and female) that say "yea, some women do have pretty sexy feet".
Then depending on which sex I'm discussing it with, I tell the guys what sexy things women can do with those feet. (some have never heard of a foot job) or I tell the ladies how sensuous shrimping (a term for toe sucking I got from Modonna book "Sex" back in the 80's) and tickling can be. I also find that if you drop the names of mainstream people and celebrities like the Modonna reference or Stern's tickle chair and his omni present search for sexy feet, it's an easier sell that it's no big deal.

Good Luck