i got a big ticklishness problem..im worried

[TicklingIsLife]

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[tommytikl]

yep, use a blindfold, so you can't see the tickling coming.
Tell the ler to keep moving all over your body...and don't fight the tickles...just let go!!!
Enjoy yourself!

 

[TicklingIsLife]

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[TicklingIsLife]

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[tommytikl]

What if that doesnt work? Blindfolding could just make my body less ticklish, I think...😕

I have found that those who "block out" tickling, can't when they are blindfolded and can't see the tickling coming.
You can also try having the ler apply baby oil to the area that is going to be tickled.
A slick surface is usually a ticklish surface...

Also don't go in feeling like it will suck, expect yourself to be ticklish and expect to have a good time...and you probably will!

 

[TicklingIsLife]

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[WraithTickler]

Best advice I can offer is simply go for it! Don't bother trying to fight or turn off. It's all part of the experience and what I would think be one of the joys of tickling- letting the sensation overwhelm, though it can't really do that. Just go with the flow, relax, give in, and if worse comes to worse, there should be a safeword to pause/halt the action.

 

[TicklingIsLife]

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[ericr]

I suspect that if you can turn off your ticklishness that you can also turn it on. It would seem to be a state of mind for you. When you are being tickled, concentrate on how ticklish you can be, don't fight it but just go with it. Also I think if you already know you are ticklish without ever having been tickled like this before that you will find that you are more ticklish than you think. Finally, don't hold back your laughter, vocalize at the slightest tickle. Once you start laughing I suspect you will loose your ability to turn off your ticklishness. Let us know how it goes.

 

[chrisheaven]

😀 have lots of fun with this--- let us know how it went

 

[Tomato_Dragon]

I have to agree with the blindfold. By not seeing it coming, I can't imagine it being so easy to turn off the ticklishness. But anyway, hope u enjoy it.

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I suspect that if you can turn off your ticklishness that you can also turn it on. It would seem to be a state of mind for you. When you are being tickled, concentrate on how ticklish you can be, don't fight it but just go with it.

I would think the instinct is to fight it, I mean i know my body really doesnt want to be tortured like this...🙄

Also I think if you already know you are ticklish without ever having been tickled like this before that you will find that you are more ticklish than you think.

That's what i am hoping for, it makes sense.

don't hold back your laughter, vocalize at the slightest tickle. Once you start laughing I suspect you will loose your ability to turn off your ticklishness. Let us know how it goes.

I would think everything would be a snowball effect, like once it starts, I would be able to stop.



Anybody else have any pointers, or has gone through a similiar situation? 😕

 

[drummah2004]

I've found that at times when someone would tickle me whether I was ready for it or not that I wouldn't be too ticklish which to me had been weird because I'm VERY ticklish. I would have to agree with the blindfold thing not from experience with blindfolds but by the experiance with not expecting the tickling and then it being 3X effective.

Recent story, I was sitting in a chair that I purposely placed in front of a girl to be a wise ass. She started massaging my neck and then went down my back...felt real good like a massage should. But she was using her thumbs in my back which had her hands sort of spread out. Picture the way you would make a bird shadow. As she moved down my back her hands were closer and closer to my ribs and it was unreal how much it tickled. I let it go as long as I could until I just couldn't sit sit still anymore. The point is that it wasn't expected and honestly not meant to tickle but since I was notprepared for it, it was unreal!

Do the bling fold...it'll work for sure.

 

[lergirl69]

I am the exact same way though. I really have to be comfortable with someone to have any ticklish responses at all. And actually a surprise tickle (aka blindfold) makes me less sensitive (how fricking weird is that?). And I do have the ability to "shut it off", but usually when I think someone is doing it to be abusive, rather than playful.

If this sounds like you, than maybe do a joint session where you tickle her first (you may feel more comfortable with her and able to let yourself "lose control"). Regardless....have a fant-abulous time. 😉

 

[TicklishSinner]

relax and enjoy yourself, if your enjoying yourself your body wont be able to hold back

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I've found that at times when someone would tickle me whether I was ready for it or not that I wouldn't be too ticklish which to me had been weird because I'm VERY ticklish. I would have to agree with the blindfold thing not from experience with blindfolds but by the experiance with not expecting the tickling and then it being 3X effective.

Do the bling fold...it'll work for sure.

I hope that is true. I just hope being blindfolded wont make my body so expecting to be tickled that it accepts it more as a massage...

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I am the exact same way though. I really have to be comfortable with someone to have any ticklish responses at all. And actually a surprise tickle (aka blindfold) makes me less sensitive (how fricking weird is that?). And I do have the ability to "shut it off", but usually when I think someone is doing it to be abusive, rather than playful.

If this sounds like you, than maybe do a joint session where you tickle her first (you may feel more comfortable with her and able to let yourself "lose control"). Regardless....have a fant-abulous time. 😉

Maybe...
And I think I do have that same blindfold problem as you...🙁

 

[WorkInProgress]

Now I don't claim any expertise in these matters, but I kind of have a hunch that you're not going to have any of these problems once things get going. In fact I think I'd put this in the "careful what you wish for" department, because if you're getting tickled by a pro... But that's just my hunch. Good luck!

 

[lergirl69]

I agree. Just go in there and make yourself comfortable and DON'T THINK ABOUT IT. If you really think it's still a problem, try to psych yourself out by thinking how much it's going to tickle, instead of "i don't think it's going to tickle at all".

 

[WorkInProgress]

*chuckle*

If this is a pro you're going to, you can pretty much think anything you want to, just don't count on doing much thinking once she starts.

 

[Ayla ny]

*chuckle*

If this is a pro you're going to, you can pretty much think anything you want to, just don't count on doing much thinking once she starts.

I‘m betting that this is right on the money. once she finds that one spot that works... the rest of your body will go into ‘tickle alert’ and you'll be toast. happy toast... but toast. 🙂

 

[TicklingIsLife]

In fact I think I'd put this in the "careful what you wish for" department, because if you're getting tickled by a pro... But that's just my hunch. Good luck!

Never thought of it that way...😱

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I‘m betting that this is right on the money. once she finds that one spot that works... the rest of your body will go into ‘tickle alert’ and you'll be toast. happy toast... but toast. 🙂

Thats what I think 🙂

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I'm having my first session in a couple of days, any last comments? 😀

 

[MsDivaNYC]

As a pro-Tickler...

I'm having my first session in a couple of days, any last comments? 😀

Relax, and go with an open mind. Try not to be nervous, as it will render you tense, therefore making you less vulnerable to the tickling. Trust, breathe, get oxygen pumping all over your body and let go. I know it's easier said than done, as it's your first time, but *try*.

I only wish *I* was the One *popping* your pro-Ticklee cherry.