Congrats ticklefanx on your surprise tickles! Everyone needs a good tickle attack every now and then!
I'm usually the ler in my relationships, but my new friend is not ticklish. But he's certainly becoming quite the ler himself-I get exploited quite a bit!

The control freak in me is learning to get used to it. I might even learn to like it someday.
Ticklejen, I have a story (yes, another kis story) and I hope I don't step on your toes again like last time........
I met a fella on a local tickling group. We chatted, exchanged stories, and wanted to meet. He told me he was married, but something told me he was holding something back. I finally asked him if his wife knew about his fetish or meeting others to play with. He broke down and told me the truth-that she knew nothing about either.
I decided that I would meet him anyway-the play would just be different and we'd set platonic, non-sexual parameters. I thought that would be okay.
Well, his wife found one of his emails to me and she went ballistic! He really got hurt in the fallout. He (we) really felt what we were doing was okay, but his wife (who btw is a real witch of a woman) was less than understanding.
I'm not here to tell you what to do-just want to say "be careful" because I would hate to have you on the other side if his wife ever found out.
And Ray, I know you've done nothing but speak out of concern. But, one must remember that not all of us are blessed with a ticklephile spouse/partner/sig other. It gets rough sometimes when you're alone without someone to share your tickling passions with.