I have a humdinger of a problem

[Hosetickler23]

well where do I begin well I've been with my gf for a while and well shes cool with the tickling but she always is wearin' cotton sock now as my name indicates I like to go after nylons every once in a while, but she won't wear them. Im not goin' to hide it I have mens silky nylon socks I bought a Kmart and I let her tickle me, but she refuses to even put on any nylon form of foot covering and let me tickle her. I'm to the point of an Ultimatium I have not tickled her in 2 days and sadly won't until I get this advice and all will be appreciated

 

[orangetickler]

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get over it, she lets you tickle her. What more could you want.

 

[leeboy]

I agree. Screw it. Tickle her bare feet. Tickle her underarms. Tickle her ribs/sides, who knows, maybe in 2 months, 2 years, whatever, you will be able to get her into the nylon thing but for now just go with what you got man !!! Godspeed !!!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I agree. There are so many people who would kill to be in your position of having a girl that will you let you tickle her at all. If you're in the relationship because you truly want to be with her, you're gonna have to let this nylon thing go for now. If you keep bugging her about it pretty soon tickling won't be fun for her at all, because she'll have to spend the whole time defending why she doesn't want to do something for whatever reason. If however you are just in it for the tickling..then find someone else who will meet all your needs. It's just a question of where your priorities are at this point, but I'd have to say suck it up and be happy with what ya got 🙂

 

[LindyHopper]

Why won't she wear nylons for you? Because they're uncomfortable? Because it would tickle too much? Because they don't go with the outfit? Do you even know? You can't possibly address your "problem" unless you know her reason. Try to find out, preferably in a non-nagging way.

Everyone else who said you should be happy with what you've got has a good point: I don't know that your willing-to-be tickled girlfriend refusing to wear nylons for you qualifies as a "humdinger of a problem." But hey - communication is key, so good luck with having that conversation.

 

[Hosetickler23]

well it not so much of a fun thing any way anymore she seems to be more interested in tv shows (that 70's show, King of the Hill, Dancing with the Stars 2, and worse next week American Idol) then anything else so I don't think shes noticed, It'll be June befor she notices.

Lindyhopper I don't think it's a comfort thing she wears them to work, Never been tickled wearing them, the outfit thing is probally it she always wears jeans and a blouse that almost never look good together

 

[Mitchell]

Unfortunately, my friend, I have to agree with the other posters here. If she lets you tickle her, you may have to modify your interests. I can draw an example from my situation. Let me explain.
As many on the forum who know me are aware, I love seeing girls barefoot on ladders. I dont know why this is, but I do. Of course, Iam also into tickling, and female feet. So, if for example, I dated, was involved with seriously, or married, a girl who was terrified of heights, and didnt ever want to stand barefoot on a ladder,but would still let me play with her feet, and tickle her, even from time to time, I wouldnt push it. I would be thankful that I had someone who would at least let me indulge in some of my interests. Although my example is different then yours, I think the same applies with you and your girlfriend.
As the others have said, you are a lucky guy that your gf will even engage in tickling at all. Many girls hate to be tickled, and wouldnt even do that. Work with her, modify, and enjoy what you have. Sometimes we have to be thankful for certain things, even when we dont get everything we want.

Mitch

 

[Hosetickler23]

well basically I have chosen not to be so indulging toward her as of Wednesday and I will not try to compete with the "Idiot Box." I'm not going to push anything but for me not pushing anything stopping all together which sounds incredibly stupid, Trust me I am listening to you all though.

 

[Storm_Cat]

What about her needs? It's a 2 way street in a relationship...it's not just...all about you....ya know?

 

[Hosetickler23]

that is true the only problem is In this relationship I do everything she wants to but she almost never does anything I want to.

 

[SmileyTkls]

Okay, just my opinion, take it for what it's worth, but it sounds like you're dissatisfied with more than just the nylon issue. It may be a more comfortable issue to highlight, but it doesn't sound like the main one, to me. It's great that you've found someone that tickles you and lets you tickle her sometimes, but if there's trouble in other areas of the relationship, that's a whole different story. Just take some time, talk to her, and definitely think it through. 😉

Smiley

 

[Hosetickler23]

There are issues in other parts of the relationship but those are a whole other issue mostly her stepmother.

But the big question is, Is stopping tickling her and not letting her tickle me altogether a good Idea or a very very bad Idea???

 

[maniactickler]

Simple but effective advice........move on!

 

[tickleublue]

Re Problem

DUDE consider yourself fortunate that you have a partner that lets you tickle her. My wife (15yrs) thinks I am a "freak" because of my desire for tickle play! I may be a "freak" but I will be a single one soon enough. Enjoy what you have.

 

[Hosetickler23]

what do you mean by move on? break up or just ignore it?


I consider myself lucky (this is the last time I wanna hear anything about me being lucky) I'm realitivly satisfied in this realationship every problem is minor and we dealt with them and moved on with the exception of her stepmother and the whole nylon thing, I'm ignoring her stepmother but I just don't wanna try confronting the nylon thing it's I've decided the ultimatum would be very bad I think Im just gonna let it slide and for right now steer away from tickling her or vice versa it may be boring but at least I dont look like an @$$. If there are any changes I'll be back

 

[phfttklr]

Well, I'm just about 10-15 minutes from you ( over Storm King Mt. ) so if you want to talk or need help, IM me.

 

[LindyHopper]

what do you mean by move on? break up or just ignore it?

Don't listen to him. He's a "maniac" in more ways than one. 🙂

I consider myself lucky (this is the last time I wanna hear anything about me being lucky) I'm realitivly satisfied in this realationship every problem is minor and we dealt with them and moved on with the exception of her stepmother and the whole nylon thing, I'm ignoring her stepmother but I just don't wanna try confronting the nylon thing it's I've decided the ultimatum would be very bad I think Im just gonna let it slide and for right now steer away from tickling her or vice versa it may be boring but at least I dont look like an @$$. If there are any changes I'll be back

Hose - you're missing the whole point. You need to address the nylon issue through communication - not an ultimatum, which, as you said, would make you look like an @$$. And besides, what does an ultimatum do for you? "I'm not going to tickle you anymore until you wear nylons for me?" Seems a little counterproductive if you're the one who enjoys tickling her, and she's the one who's tolerating it from you.

Maybe I'm missing something, but this seems like a "problem" that you could come to understand and resolve in one simple, honest conversation. So get to it.

 

[isabeau]

ok when i first only saw the i have a humdinger of a i thought hangover lol

anyway i agree with what the others are saying, you are lucky she lets you tickle her. imagine living with someone who has no interest in it whatsoever.

isabeau

 

[Hosetickler23]

well she finally noticed. Especially since I don't take my shoes off anymore. And I did tell her I will not be tickling her anymore when she asked but she never asked why she just pouted a little

 

[LindyHopper]

well she finally noticed. Especially since I don't take my shoes off anymore. And I did tell her I will not be tickling her anymore when she asked but she never asked why she just pouted a little

Oh my God, could you be any more immature? That's it - no more advice for you! I'm sure you're devastated. 😉

Good luck with your war of passive-agressiveness. 😛

 

[Hosetickler23]

I don't want to scare her off. I've seen or heard too many of you guys fall flat on either your rears or faces to want that to happen to me, when you come out and announce that "I have a tickle fetish" to your wives or girlfriends. After reading all the crap many of you went through I swore that would not happen to me. So for the first time in recorded I just keep tight lipped about the whole problem and it will disappear. Thats it in a nut shell. not too many here will be happy to see it in print. BTW she went to a private school and never learned that life is not fair, shes kinda spoiled she pout a little and gets what she wants.

 

[lk70]

BTW she went to a private school and never learned that life is not fair, shes kinda spoiled she pout a little and gets what she wants.

Ok, I went to private school. Private, all-girls boarding school as a matter of fact and I can assure you, that's the FIRST place you learn that life is not fair.

 

[sole seeker]

Sorry to be so late responding, HT. Personally, I'm with you. This doesn't seem that big a deal, and I feel your request isn't putting her out that much. IMO she should do little things that you find exciting. You do them for her because as a mate that's what you should do. Same is true for her.

Having said that, an ultimatum is never a good idea. If she won't agree to be more giving in this regard you're going to have to live with it or find a way to change it. If she's into bondage, try tying her to the bed and then putting them on her.


By the way... I love it when my dinger is hummed!

 

[Hosetickler23]

She absolutly won't do the bondage thing.

And nothing against private schools but her school in particular taught the world was pink and wonderful. She also was a sheltered child.

Thank you sole seeker I already knew the world was against me. I knew I wasn't completely wrong. Yes I admit the ultimatium was a dumb idea I'm stupid for saying that.

BTW if I have to sit through one more J. LO movie I'm going to go criminaly insane 😀

 

[BigBrownEyes]

No offense, but this just doesn't sound like a problem let alone a "humdinger" of a problem. Your g/f lets you tickle her feet? In the immortal words of Tom Petty "You got lucky...." I wish I had this problem! No more same old/same old friday nights.