Thanks for your reply, she thinks that all feet are ugly and has extreemly sensitive soles and does not want them touched and I respect her wishes. How ever, if by talking and explaining how feet look to me and the pleasure they can bring for both parties, I hope in time she might be willing to try?
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Well good luck to you in the future on having your girl come around about having her feet touched and also light caressed and tickled. I am sorry to hear that she hates having her feet touched, that is indeed a shame. But I can understand I used to be that way but not really that way anymore. It is great to hear that you want to respect her wishes, that is sweet and you sound like a real gentleman and that is always important. Yeah a word of advice just casually talk about it, don't make a big deal about it, yeah great if she comes around to let you but if not -let her know won't be a deal breaker, not break you both up you know what I am saying. That will ease the pressure and let her come around about it later if she gets curious or has a change of heart, just leave the door open but don't push it.
Just compliment her feet and compliment how pretty and beautiful she is to you and tell her you think her feet is sexy if indeed you really do find them sexy and attractive. Don't push the issue but with words and actions do your best to show her affection and love -best thing I can tell you do what you can-show her she is beautiful and sexy to you. Women love that. It works wonders. That way it can gently and easily raise her confidence a bit and don't expect it be quick, you have to be sweet and compliment for a little while and show her how beautiful she is to you before she starts to believe and truly feel it.
Hope this helps let me know if it does and if you want to chat feel free to pm me love to chat. Hope soon later on she comes around, but whatever you don't -don't press the issue, don't pressure her on this-don't shoot down her confidence in general and on this issue, just show her affection, unconditional love and unconditional acceptance, kindness and show love in your words and actions, that work wonders. If she does come around later on this-why not try slowly introducing tickling if she is receptive, without bondage, maybe bondage is scaring her, it is possible. Sadly bondage gets a bad rap. So many think bondage is designed to inflict and receive pain-when in fact not just for BDSM also can be for playful loving couples want to throw spice and add a element of sexiness to their relationship-along w playful erotic tickling and teasing. Just something to keep in mind-might help to let her know -it can be pleasurable and lots of fun, don't have to involve pain-can be about pleasure and tickling or if tickling is not her thing along w bondage not her thing-it can be erotic and sensual-if nothing else great element added to foreplay or sex or just intimacy btw both of you.
Just don't press this issue or bondage issue w tickling-that would be my best advice when you explain about love of tickling and bondage, explain it slowly and gently assure her you won't do anything that will make her feel uncomfortable, always make her feel safe and loved.














