Okay since I posted here last. I have wanted to put myself out there more. Plus I joined up with experience project where some people like here have a major liking towards tickling and have fantasies like me towards it. Well earlier today before joining experience project I read an interesting interview with Mistress Kim and Yaqi. They mentioned on there that there is more people with tickling fetishes then what is being presented. They say that many people are private about there fantasy. Plus by reading the interview script it has added more fuel towards my "lee" and "ler" fantasy. I will put to ya this way I would like to be tickled by her. However, I would like to live out my fantasy like crazy. Being tied down for hours and being tickled with no mercy. With that said, how could I come out about achieving this. I joined this forum check, joined other groups on the net check and explicitly stated my desires check. I know several people on facebook but no body knows my fantasy. Only people who knows about is a few unmet people on the net. So, how could I express my fantasy towards someone without coming across as scary. Also if there is anybody who has expressed themselves to people they knew how did you go about it?
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I have done some thinking.
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Well all I can say is take your time. Neither my gf nor I started out as super fickling fanatics. We still aren't really. Start out slow. Have a relationship going before you bring this in. My gf and I were friends before we became tickling fans. My pefsonal opinion is of all the quirks out there, enjoying making your friend laugh is probably the least "strange" so don't be afraid to be honest. Just take it in steps. I still haven't had a tickle session that comes close to any video. Everything has it's time. Just start with building a relationship first and go from there.
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I totally agree with you. But I have tried to start relationships with some people. I don't know. I really don't get out that often. Plus almost of my male friends has girlfriends. Plus any girl I tried being friends with (just as friends) don't seem what to do anything with me. I have made it clear that if they ever wanted to anything with was to call. Yet, I never get invited to anything. Maybe I will try online dating services.
Even though it would be more meaningful to have moments like that. It would be almost as awesome to have some dominatrix like Jade Indica or Taylor Raz from tickleabuse or Dacy Lyn or Danica Logan have tickler ways with me though.
I totally agree with you. But I have tried to start relationships with some people. I don't know. I really don't get out that often. Plus almost of my male friends has girlfriends. Plus any girl I tried being friends with (just as friends) don't seem what to do anything with me. I have made it clear that if they ever wanted to anything with was to call. Yet, I never get invited to anything. Maybe I will try online dating services.
Even though it would be more meaningful to have moments like that. It would be almost as awesome to have some dominatrix like Jade Indica or Taylor Raz from tickleabuse or Dacy Lyn or Danica Logan have tickler ways with me though.
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Join Fet and find a local group in your area and make friends. You can't imagine how many people are secretly into tickling.
besides on the net, is there someone you know personally that you see often? like a best friend...someone you can talk to honestly about it? like everyone else says, find someone you can build a relationship with. Not to change the subject, but my ler and I used to date..and I worked up a really good relationship with her, where we could tell eachother our deepest fantasies...and all we wanted to do was make them true for eachother. I hope you find a solution 🙂
Well I really don't have a female best friend 🙁 I would like to though. I don't know what is wrong with me. Like I said before I have tried starting relationships with people but it never seems to work. Its like I am an outcast. I have so called "friends" but never get invited to anything. I don't know. I have tried. Maybe I can meet new people on facebook. But here is the thing I am afraid to do that because I am labeled a creep. I just don't like life right now.
There's nothing wrong with you. Not everyone is good at socializing. I have my gf but if it wasn't for her I'd be in the same boat. It takes me a long time not to feel awkward. I have some close friends but that's it. Nothing wrong in being an introvert buddy. Don't beat yourself up over it. Just keep trying and take your time.
sometimes you need to take the initiative, and make plans with people yourself....sometimes things don't happen on their own. Invite your friends over or out to eat. also, I'd check to see if anyone from the TMF lives near you to have a meet up 🙂 I know everything i'm saying is easier said then done...but it seems like waiting for other people to engage isn't working at the moment. Don't give up!
that's why it's 'making plans.' You find a time thats good for you and your friends. But anyways, rhiannon is right, you need to work on your self esteem first. I'm not one to talk, but you should be confident in the people you call your friends....I mean if you can't talk to the people you consider your friends...that's no good (and not even about tickling mind you, thats another story).
