I have no endurance!

[RosieCreek]

I have fantasized about being tied and tickled senseless for as long as I can remember, and I finally have everything I need to make it happen. A trusted partner who also likes tickling, excellent bondage equipment and a safe place to play. My trouble is that I just have no endurance! I can only take it for a minute or so, tops and then put a stop to it. I just can't let go! Does anyone else ever run into this, or have any advice?

 

[-Hari-]

i was like that originally, waaay, back.

One way to let go is to be forced to let go, set a timer that exceeds what you can normally manage and see what happens 😛

 

[tommytikl]

You just have to work on endurance and your ler needs to slow up just a bit...
The Ler might be jumping right into things...slow down a bit and see what happens... perhaps a blind fold so you can't see what's happening.

Perhaps feathers are a good place for you to start as well...

 

[milagros317]

What you need is a "slow word". Many people use "yellow" as in the traffic light. When you say "yellow", your 'ler is supposed to stop and let you recover your breath, but the session will continue as soon as you're able to say "green". 😀

 

[tommytikl]

What you need is a "slow word". Many people use "yellow" as in the traffic light. When you say "yellow", your 'ler is supposed to stop and let you recover your breath, but the session will continue as soon as you're able to say "green". 😀

Right, stop or slow down or move to a new location...

 

[Mercy29]

I agree with a timer, say do about 2 mins?
Sometimes I would look at the clock and think noooo it's nearly time to stop 😉

 

[Angel77]

I've often wondered the same thing because sometimes I can go into "overload mode" pretty quickly when tickled, even though I love every second of it. Go figure, huh? 😛

Being tied up would certainly increase the anxious feelings but that's why I'd have to for sure trust my 'ler and know he would respect my safeword.

The timer thing is a good idea as well as the "yellow" word.

But no, you're certainly not alone in wondering these things. 🙂

 

[marcusb]

This.

i was like that originally, waaay, back.
One way to let go is to be forced to let go, set a timer that exceeds what you can normally manage and see what happens 😛

 

[maniactickler]

Rosie, just be thankful you never meet me. i treat safewords like yesterdays garbage. i have no use for them. youd find out about your endurance pretty damn quick!

 

[Wildtime]

All I can suggest is training. Have your 'ler tickle your for a set amount of time and slowly increase that time limit with each following session. Playing Survivor's "Eye of the Tiger" in the background may also help...or that could just be me.

Another approach is to have a go at it in short spurts and take a breather in between.

 

[TicklingTips]

I've sent you an email about this.

 

[TRU]

I've often wondered the same thing because sometimes I can go into "overload mode" pretty quickly when tickled, even though I love every second of it. Go figure, huh? 😛

So, you like being tickled but you don't like being tortured? For example: the tickler spends an extended period of time on one of your worst spots, and it almost starts to hurt you?

 

[Carsomyr]

i was like that originally, waaay, back.

One way to let go is to be forced to let go, set a timer that exceeds what you can normally manage and see what happens 😛

This is what I would suggest as well. Either that, or you agree that the 'ler tickle you for, say, another 10 seconds after you safeword, and if that works then you could increase the time to 15 seconds, then 20, etc. The problem with that, though, is obviously that you could have to safeword for other reasons than the tickling being too much, but then you could just yell "cramp" or whatever. Should be fairly obvious to the 'ler if you do. 🙂

 

[Angel77]

So, you like being tickled but you don't like being tortured? For example: the tickler spends an extended period of time on one of your worst spots, and it almost starts to hurt you?

Doesn't hurt at all and yes I love it. It's just really intense and I've never had a session where I was tied down strictly for tickling. Do I want to? Of course. But being that it's never happened.........yet.......it does make me wonder exactly how intense it would be, know what I mean?

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Yeah I understand what you mean. While I really do enjoy and love the idea of playfully being tied and playful put in bondage when being tickled, my arms and legs and feet, with a bit of wiggle room, not a lot but some wiggle room. I don't really know if I can do it really too long. I mean I do love being tickled and love to be the one who dishes out the tickles-however I am very much intensely very ticklish and very sensitive. I am not sure how long I can really last being tickled once those intense tickle 15 spots are discovered. I don't think I will be able to last real long.

I think it might have to start gentle and light, slowly and not tickle targeting any 15 intense tickle spots and then as I grow more comfortable and at ease then the tickling can slowly progress to bit more intense as it goes, you know play it by ear and see how it goes. But I am with you sadly I have trouble having much endurance when it comes to being tickled. I sadly if 15 tickle spots are targeted, break too darn easy at times. I hate that when that happens. I would love to endure and last bit longer, yet something I have to work on trying to strength my tickle endurance, with or w out bondage it is difficult for me-however w bondage-very rough for me to endure, if tickled right and intense enough-be near to impossible to endure the tickles.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Yeah I understand what you mean. While I really do enjoy and love the idea of playfully being tied and playful put in bondage when being tickled, my arms and legs and feet, with a bit of wiggle room, not a lot but some wiggle room. I don't really know if I can do it really too long. I mean I do love being tickled and love to be the one who dishes out the tickles-however I am very much intensely very ticklish and very sensitive. I am not sure how long I can really last being tickled once those intense tickle 15 spots are discovered. I don't think I will be able to last real long.

I think it might have to start gentle and light, slowly and not tickle targeting any 15 intense tickle spots and then as I grow more comfortable and at ease then the tickling can slowly progress to bit more intense as it goes, you know play it by ear and see how it goes. But I am with you sadly I have trouble having much endurance when it comes to being tickled. I sadly if 15 tickle spots are targeted, break too darn easy at times. I hate that when that happens. I would love to endure and last bit longer, yet something I have to work on trying to strength my tickle endurance, with or w out bondage it is difficult for me-however w bondage-very rough for me to endure, if tickled right and intense enough-be near to impossible to endure the tickles.

 

[RosieCreek]

My feet are pretty ticklish, but for me they are not sexual and it's fun, even if I'm unable to move. Some parts like armpits induce a bit of panic as well as the ticklish sensations when they get tickled, and I'm sure it stems from what felt like true torture when I was a small kid. Funny how the part I want to be tickled most is the most difficult to endure. What a conundrum!

 

[mass1926]

I have fantasized about being tied and tickled senseless for as long as I can remember, and I finally have everything I need to make it happen. A trusted partner who also likes tickling, excellent bondage equipment and a safe place to play. My trouble is that I just have no endurance! I can only take it for a minute or so, tops and then put a stop to it. I just can't let go! Does anyone else ever run into this, or have any advice?

Choose a safeword, have him gag you so you can't say it, then you'll have to deal with it..... 🙂.

But on a more serious note, that means you're super ticklish and that is even more fun for a ler than someone that can take it for long periods of time.

 

[tkltease]

well since your doing it with hubby and someone you trust then get tied up and take it slow with breaks till you can build up some endurance to it and take more tickling each time slowly and surely you will endure more as you get used to it.

 

[Havsoker]

I have fantasized about being tied and tickled senseless for as long as I can remember, and I finally have everything I need to make it happen. A trusted partner who also likes tickling, excellent bondage equipment and a safe place to play. My trouble is that I just have no endurance! I can only take it for a minute or so, tops and then put a stop to it. I just can't let go! Does anyone else ever run into this, or have any advice?

Minute?? You go that long??? 🙂

 

[maniactickler]

Doesn't hurt at all and yes I love it. It's just really intense and I've never had a session where I was tied down strictly for tickling. Do I want to? Of course. But being that it's never happened.........yet.......it does make me wonder exactly how intense it would be, know what I mean?

I will take care of that soon enough.

 

[Lacey Feathers]

Never had that problem. I like it too much and even get a little miffed when I'm even thinking of using my safeword.

 

[TickleTorment]

Give up all control!