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I think my bf is into it

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Time_of_your

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It seems so, but I'm not sure. We've only known each other for a month and we're both Korean. It's kind of hard to discuss what "excites" you when it's a somewhat 'traditional' relationship .

I went to see him all afternoon and evening yesterday. He kind of likes to poke me to get my attention and when I giggle a little bit he giggles too (I think to make fun of me).

Someone suggested I kind of make myself "vulnerable" for tickling. I put my feet up by his bed when we were both watching a movie.

He kind of tickles me "by accident" - it's hard to explain. He pretends he is rubbing the cat and brushes against my feet, or he turned over and his hand just flew under my feet. Oh course, I react but he kind of acts like, "oh sorry - I didn't mean to do that"....hmm...I'm not sure if that's the truth....

:justlips: Jen
 
Since it looks like it will be a while until you actually tell him that you like being tickled, you should take what you can get, accidental or on purpose. He at least seems to find it fun in a playful sense.
 
Why don't you try tickle attack him? It could only encourage revenge! Then when he tickles you, you could tell him how much you like it... Good luck
 
From what you have described, it sounds to me more like he is playful than into it.

As a lesser theory, he might also already sense that you enjoy it, and like to tickle you based on that. But I can't tell this from the information you've given, and it's not very likely.

Etc.
 
maybe next time he tickles you and he says it's an accident.. you should say something like "Uhhuh sure." maybe that'll make him get defensive about it being an accident and you can tell him that it's okay, he can tickle u 😛
 
He sounds like me before i told Juhnetiks about it myself. so yes i say it is a good chance.
 
Based on the way you describe it, your boyfriend sounds a long way off from being oriented to the kind of tickling that people on this board are familiar with, where the ler ties up the lee and it gets really intense. In fact, if he's really traditionalistic, the fact that you're into this scene could freak him out. It therefore sounds as if, in the long run, you've got bigger dilemmas to think through and work out than the mere question of whether you can get him to tickle you. How much tickling do you need to be happy? And if the relationship with him gets serious and long term, will you tell him about your orientation and your membership in this community, and if not, will you feel as if you're living a double life? Not that all this needs to be resolved now, but I see it being relevant in the future if the relationship stays on course.
 
Powah said:
He sounds like me before i told Juhnetiks about it myself. so yes i say it is a good chance.
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Haha...I remember that. Before we even started officially dating, when we were just kinda flirty and "talking"... He would come up and poke me or do "jumper cables" to my sides and such and I would jump and squeak. And even after we started dating, he would do things playfully that would tickle like brush against my feet or bare stomach...took him like 6 months to tell me straight up that he he was "into tickling" though. Hopefully your guy won't be so shy.
 
Juhnetiks said:
Haha...I remember that. Before we even started officially dating, when we were just kinda flirty and "talking"... He would come up and poke me or do "jumper cables" to my sides and such and I would jump and squeak. And even after we started dating, he would do things playfully that would tickle like brush against my feet or bare stomach...took him like 6 months to tell me straight up that he he was "into tickling" though. Hopefully your guy won't be so shy.
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jumper cables? lol that actually has a name? lol.. that's what i usually do when i feel like quickly tickling someone lol.. didn't know it has a name 😛 or did you just make up that name so we know what you were talking about instead of describing it clearly 😛
 
mtTicklemonster said:
jumper cables? lol that actually has a name? lol.. that's what i usually do when i feel like quickly tickling someone lol.. didn't know it has a name 😛 or did you just make up that name so we know what you were talking about instead of describing it clearly 😛
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As far as I know, that's what they're called...when you basically make your hands look like clamps or lobster claws and then squeeze their sides, ribs, or hips...that is to my knowledge known as a "jumper cable" cuz your hands look like car jumper cables and, well, you give them a little jolt. Haha.
 
Juhnetiks said:
As far as I know, that's what they're called...when you basically make your hands look like clamps or lobster claws and then squeeze their sides, ribs, or hips...that is to my knowledge known as a "jumper cable" cuz your hands look like car jumper cables and, well, you give them a little jolt. Haha.
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you didn't have to tell me what it's called that.. it made since to me when it would be called that, i just never realized it was called that lol.. that's like my favorite random way to tickle attack someone 😛
 
mtTicklemonster said:
you didn't have to tell me what it's called that.. it made since to me when it would be called that, i just never realized it was called that lol.. that's like my favorite random way to tickle attack someone 😛
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Haha...well, now you can put the name to the action. =]
 
Hey guys!
I posted other threads stating why my bf might be into it - don't just go by what I've written here.

We had a BBQ at my parent's house yesterday afternoon and he tickled me again on the ribs. He just leaned over and kind of squeezed by side. I reacted (I'm very ticklish) and he said I'm very ticklish and that he barely touched me.

I'll tell him I like it, just not right now. I want to date him a little longer and I'm a pretty patient person.

Also, I'm not really into the bondage and tickling for a long period of time.
I just like it as something playful, once in a while, just enough to get my out of breath.

I hope that's ok....I know I'm on the "light" side of things, but I'm not sure if I'm still allowed here.

Jen :fish:
 
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Time_of_your said:
I'll tell him I like it, just not right now. I want to date him a little longer and I'm a pretty patient person.

Also, I'm not really into the bondage and tickling for a long period of time.
I just like it as something playful, once in a while, just enough to get my out of breath.

I hope that's ok....I know I'm on the "light" side of things, but I'm not sure if I'm still allowed here.

Jen :fish:
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Whatever happens, I hope it works out for you both! As for not being into hardcore tickling...not a problem. What's portrayed in those clips4sale ads and the pic of the week is just fantasy...I have a feeling that most of us only engage in playful tickling.
 
Wildtime said:
Whatever happens, I hope it works out for you both! As for not being into hardcore tickling...not a problem. What's portrayed in those clips4sale ads and the pic of the week is just fantasy...I have a feeling that most of us only engage in playful tickling.
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i know that's true for me 🙂
 
Time_of_your said:
I hope that's ok....I know I'm on the "light" side of things, but I'm not sure if I'm still allowed here.

Jen :fish:
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Oh, of course you're still allowed here, and a great pleasure to be a fellow community member with.

Good luck with the relationship. The important thing is being compatible with him on whatever level you're into, heavy or light.
 
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