I think my tickle-fetish changed into... something else

[gurgelgula]

Just thought i'd share this with you guys to see if anyone encountered something similar.

My previous girlfriends has been rather vanilla and plain so to speak. I've allways taken my opportunities to tickle them. but none has allowed me to use any kind of bondage. They just hasn't been into that sort of thing.

A few months ago I met this girl, and she is very sexually adventurous, which in my case means that she is willing to be tied up and tickled / forced to cum by me.
Now this has allways been a dream of mine, to tie a hot girl up and tickle her while forcing her to cum.
However it quickly dawned on me that the tickling itself wasn't what I really wanted to do.
What I wanted to do was to make her feel intense pleasure, so intense that if she wasn't tied up she'd remove my hand and get a much needed rest.
The tickling was meerely there to make her feel helpless and more sensitive. So that she is more suseptible to my fingers making her orgasm.
The tickling was also just another way to create strong reactions from merely a gentle touch.

I kinda realized that when I had my girlfriend tied up and giving her her 12:th orgasm for the night (she is multiorgasmic)
This is my fetish now. To make her cum hard through the use of tickling and stimulation.

I just thought this was strange. That all my sexually active years (im 23 now) I have thought that tickling was what turned me on.
But it turns out the fetish was about causing intense pleasure and reactions.
And I wonder how that would work with a woman who isn't particularly sensitive...

Anyone else has the same fetish? Or similar realizations?

 

[meangry]

I've had the same thing you are just now realizing my whole life.

It's pretty damn liberating

 

[gurgelgula]

Thats cool!

It's strange to realize that something so fundamental as what turns you on is changing lol

 

[Volsung]

To me, the tickling and orgasm were always 'connected'. Your infatuation has turned into a real fetish, my friend.

 

[Coda]

I've never thought that "a ____ fetish" was a broad enough kind of term to encompass the breadth of someone's overall feelings about sexuality and what interests them. It's similar to saying someone is "a journalist" rather than trying to explain they want to change the world for better; presumably there are other ways in which they might have chosen to do that, and which they would still find serves that lower-level interest, and they might feel a sense of deep kindredness with others who never considered being journalists.

My own list of "fetishes" (in the sense of a sexual interest some particular thing or activity) is a long one, but I think they all derive from the same encompassing fascination about how beings can potentially interact and manipulate each other.

 

[hoseman2248]

You will constantly find other fetishes that you never realized before. Due to the endless array of available material on the internet now, I've probably developed fetishes that I otherwise never would've known existed. Tickling, girls in pantyhose, and girls in bondage, have been fetishes that I've had since I even knew they were actual fetishes and that they existed on the internet. Since then I've probably discovered well over a dozen new fetishes that I have developed from exploring the internet. Like, I now have a fetish for girls having forced orgasms, for young chubby girls in general, girls taking cumshots on their faces, a fetish for handjobs, a fetish for footjobs, a fetish for girls doing sexual acts in public places (lots of european stuff on the internet for this), a fetish for random encounter sex (just met and fucked), a fetish for watching young girls suck off older men, and recently a fetish for girls jerking a guys cumshot into her shoes and then wearing her shoes with the cum in them.....and the list goes on.

 

[gurgelgula]

This was a very interesting read guys, never really thought about it in that light before!
I don't think that I would have a forced orgasm fetish without seeing it happen in quite a lot of tickling videos!

 

[hoseman2248]

You will definitely progress. For me it started off as strictly tickling (mainly nylon tickling) for the first few years, then I got into tickling and sexual acts combined. Eventually I was finding myself watching more videos of kinky sex acts than tickling.

 

[TKLVR18]

What started out for me as daydreaming about tickling guys turned, when I discovered the internet, into switch fantasies, and then rl switch play when I met my husband--and then I realized the root cause of my tickle fetish was a humiliation fetish which I now indulge in ways other than just tickling (though it definitely helps 😀 ) Finding new fetishes, or new aspects to your existing ones, is a great feeling!

~K

 

[gurgelgula]

its cool to hear about you guy's experiences, I didn't believe it would or COULD change so yeah it is a great feeling hah 😉